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Hey, Gman... I agree with you about Andrew... but he is equally skilled as a power bottom, and not just on film, but with clients and other escorts too. He is especially HOT and GREAT in a group session, and can give as well as he takes!

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I’m usually top. If you’re hung most guys assume you’re a top and bottoms seem to get attracted like bees to a honey pot. I’m not complaining, it gives me good business but I’m equally happy to bottom as I am to top. Although it’s much more work to bottom so I only tend to do it when making movies. 
 

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Top only don’t want to bottom. I’ve only bottomed for two guys before. One it just hurt all the time and the other I was indifferent. Didn’t hurt but didn’t get pleasure from it either. But I’ll suck it if it’s almost as big, as big, or bigger than mine! Not into under 8 inches. Then I’ll just fuck them and they can jerk off their little dicks themselves lol 

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7 hours ago, Talented said:

Top only don’t want to bottom. I’ve only bottomed for two guys before. One it just hurt all the time and the other I was indifferent. Didn’t hurt but didn’t get pleasure from it either. But I’ll suck it if it’s almost as big, as big, or bigger than mine! Not into under 8 inches. Then I’ll just fuck them and they can jerk off their little dicks themselves lol 

So, I gather Customer Service is not among your Big-T Talents, @Talented

lol

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On 9/13/2021 at 12:54 PM, Rod Hagen said:

Justin Taylor?  I don't remember him.  Was it Justin Baylor, the really fun guy out here in LA?

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Justin was a porn actor and escort out of Chicago and I think later on Pennsylvania. He was a cute, skinny youngster at the time -the time in question being the summer of 2011 as I recollect. So assuming he was around 23 or 24 then -he'd be in his 30's now

 

https://www.mansurfer.com/video/107977/justin-taylor-solo

Gman

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On 8/27/2021 at 10:56 AM, Jamie21 said:

I’m usually top. If you’re hung most guys assume you’re a top and bottoms seem to get attracted like bees to a honey pot. I’m not complaining, it gives me good business but I’m equally happy to bottom as I am to top. Although it’s much more work to bottom so I only tend to do it when making movies. 
 

Why is it much work to bottom when basically you’re on the receiving end? Are you talking about the inconvenience of doing the prep/douche?

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3 hours ago, SweetCherry1 said:

Why is it much work to bottom when basically you’re on the receiving end? Are you talking about the inconvenience of doing the prep/douche?

Yes the preparation is the hassle. It’s easier to top. Preparation can add an hour to the time needed. I hate to be anxious about not being clear down there so I try to be thorough in preparing. 

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4 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

Yes the preparation is the hassle. It’s easier to top. Preparation can add an hour to the time needed. I hate to be anxious about not being clear down there so I try to be thorough in preparing. 

In addition, the possibility for the top to be so vigorous as to tear his own piss hole open is much lower. (Jewelry excluded, natch)

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5 hours ago, jeezifonly said:

In addition, the possibility for the top to be so vigorous as to tear his own piss hole open is much lower. (Jewelry excluded, natch)

Ouch, that’s bad. I never had that happen but did once bruise my cock by thrusting into a guy who moved slightly so I missed his hole and pushed against the base of his spine.

It stung quite bad for a short while but we carried on (we were filming so we wanted to finish the scene). I managed to get to the end as there wasn’t long to go.

Next morning I look at my cock and it’s bruised all over, dark purple, and painful. I was out of action for about 3 weeks and couldn’t fuck for another 2 weeks. Industrial injury! 

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35 minutes ago, Jamie21 said:

Ouch, that’s bad. I never had that happen but did once bruise my cock by thrusting into a guy who moved slightly so I missed his hole and pushed against the base of his spine.

It stung quite bad for a short while but we carried on (we were filming so we wanted to finish the scene). I managed to get to the end as there wasn’t long to go.

Next morning I look at my cock and it’s bruised all over, dark purple, and painful. I was out of action for about 3 weeks and couldn’t fuck for another 2 weeks. Industrial injury! 

Reminds me of those almost freak accidents caught on someone’s dash cam. Traffic moving, beautiful day and then oops that’s a truck in my windshield

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7 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

Ouch, that’s bad. I never had that happen but did once bruise my cock by thrusting into a guy who moved slightly so I missed his hole and pushed against the base of his spine.

It stung quite bad for a short while but we carried on (we were filming so we wanted to finish the scene). I managed to get to the end as there wasn’t long to go.

Next morning I look at my cock and it’s bruised all over, dark purple, and painful. I was out of action for about 3 weeks and couldn’t fuck for another 2 weeks. Industrial injury! 

I did that once.  Doc told me I was *this* close to 'breaking my dick,' as he so eloquently put it.

It was an ugly looking recovery.  I learned my lesson.

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On 4/10/2022 at 12:50 AM, Jamie21 said:

Ouch, that’s bad. I never had that happen but did once bruise my cock by thrusting into a guy who moved slightly so I missed his hole and pushed against the base of his spine.

It stung quite bad for a short while but we carried on (we were filming so we wanted to finish the scene). I managed to get to the end as there wasn’t long to go.

Next morning I look at my cock and it’s bruised all over, dark purple, and painful. I was out of action for about 3 weeks and couldn’t fuck for another 2 weeks. Industrial injury! 

Workers' compensation claim! 

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I’m verse but I was never good at flipping (except some rear occasions). I’d rather enjoy topping or bottoming. 
The thing is that I usually drawn to “bigger that me” tops or “smaller than me” bottoms. 
Now I’m starting to think that I never dated a guy same size as me… 🤔 Could that be a fetish?… oh wow I’m gonna go unpack that!

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On 4/10/2022 at 2:50 AM, Jamie21 said:

Ouch, that’s bad. I never had that happen but did once bruise my cock by thrusting into a guy who moved slightly so I missed his hole and pushed against the base of his spine.

It stung quite bad for a short while but we carried on (we were filming so we wanted to finish the scene). I managed to get to the end as there wasn’t long to go.

Next morning I look at my cock and it’s bruised all over, dark purple, and painful. I was out of action for about 3 weeks and couldn’t fuck for another 2 weeks. Industrial injury! 

A couple of years ago after a fun session I woke up the next morning with a purple spot on my cock.   Being the worrisome person that I am , I assumed an STD and went to the Doctor.  We talked and he kind of laughed at me and said I had dick strain! He ran the STD panel and I came back clean and after a couple weeks all was well again.  Ahh…lessons learned! 

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On 4/10/2022 at 3:50 AM, Jamie21 said:

Ouch, that’s bad. I never had that happen but did once bruise my cock by thrusting into a guy who moved slightly so I missed his hole and pushed against the base of his spine.

It stung quite bad for a short while but we carried on (we were filming so we wanted to finish the scene). I managed to get to the end as there wasn’t long to go.

Next morning I look at my cock and it’s bruised all over, dark purple, and painful. I was out of action for about 3 weeks and couldn’t fuck for another 2 weeks. Industrial injury! 

I've been with two escorts who injured their cocks in similar fashion and ended up with bruised dicks that took weeks to recover. An occupational hazard obviously.

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On 4/9/2022 at 12:24 PM, SweetCherry1 said:

Why is it much work to bottom when basically you’re on the receiving end? Are you talking about the inconvenience of doing the prep/douche?

That and, I for one find it hard to bottom back to back. I can do it for a day, but then the sore “fucked sensation” can end up taking a couple days or so to heal. Trying to bottom again during that time can be very uncomfortable. 

Also for me, idk why but some guys I can handle fine, other guys I can’t. And it’s not even related to size: sometimes it can be a curve, or girth or the kind of lube. I have an appointment with a rectal and colon surgery doctor in a couple months, just to “get an exam”. I’ve heard of people getting procedures to make their ass less tight, if deemed medically necessary.
 

I’m not a bottom but, the times it does happen: it’d be nice to not hurt so much. I do find playing with toys occasionally helps, but I just get no pleasure without the physical person there. It just feels like I’m unnecessarily forcing something up my ass. Part of the psych of bottoming is having the other guy pleasured.

On 4/10/2022 at 2:50 AM, Jamie21 said:

Ouch, that’s bad. I never had that happen but did once bruise my cock by thrusting into a guy who moved slightly so I missed his hole and pushed against the base of his spine.

It stung quite bad for a short while but we carried on (we were filming so we wanted to finish the scene). I managed to get to the end as there wasn’t long to go.

Next morning I look at my cock and it’s bruised all over, dark purple, and painful. I was out of action for about 3 weeks and couldn’t fuck for another 2 weeks. Industrial injury! 

Wholey fuck! 
 

That’s part of why I do not like bottoms thrusting their ass on me too aggressively. Let me Fuck you, don’t try to fuck me with your ass…because If it slips, you can break something. I’ve had the sensation a few times, but nothing that rendered it out of order. 
 

Then I had an partner who used to love getting hard fucked. Well sorry bro but, this dick needs to stay in working shape. Not to mention, the sensation for me is lost when I have to use my dick like a jackhammer. 

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I'm a top

but

That's probably because I only had sex with girls when I was in my teens ..so my brain always thinks penetration is the goal.

that said...

When I did start going with guys I started with older men who always wanted to fuck me. So I let them even though it wasn't really my thing. I do like pleasing my partner.

Now that I'm older I have zero interest in older men and only meet with younger guys who want "daddy" to take the lead. So I am always on top.

My only bottom desire is to be in the middle of a threeway with two muscular men. No idea why my brain suddenly coverts me into a cum rag for that single fetish, but it does make me want it more than with any other type of sexual encounter.

 

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It’s very situational. Recreational sex I’m usually more bottom these days. Work sex I’m usually more top. Group sex (work or recreational) I’m versatile. Sometimes I want to be the cum dump, sometimes I just like cuddling and suck etc without any anal penetration. It’s very complicated! 

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I can count the number of times I’ve topped in the past 5 years on 1 hand lol. I love bottoming too much. 😅

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