Organizing a Group While Traveling

[Trvlman1]

I will be traveling for work at the end of the month and have basically a free afternoon/evening on my own. I’ll be at a hotel with no other co-workers. 
 

I recently hired two providers for a 4 hand massage that turned into over 4 hours of incredible play. I’d like to replicate this on my trip but include one or two more guys (feeling a bit whorish at the moment). Finding a provider that works with someone (singular) doesn’t seem too difficult. But adding a 3rd or 4th is some uncharted territory. Is there a good practice others have used? In a nutshell, trying to build out a foursome or fivesome where everyone participates (love the sounds/smells of multiple guys) but I don’t want to be a cumdump for everyone. Is it okay to list on one of the apps to get a couple more? Do providers expect extra if it’s more than just me?

BTW - I’ll be in SFO, so think the pool of providers would be bigger.

[DMonDude]

In my own experience, i haven't done a group more than 3 guys. But the way I've always done it is i either hire all the guys individually myself (and i run it by each of them who the other guys are and make sure everyone's cool). Or i usually have one regular hire who will be participating in the group and i ask him to pick guys for me. He asks other providers he already knows and has worked with before or browses RentMen himself and runs the options by me and i pick from the list. He knows the types of guys i like and it lets him pick guys he's attracted to too or simply can work easiest with. So everybody wins.

Pricing depends. The majority of the time i've done group play, all the guys charged the same rate as if i was seeing them solo. But i have had one time where i was putting together the group myself and the second provider i wanted to join my regular and i wanted double his normal rate. So i guess he charges per person involved regardless of if it's clients or fellow providers he's working with. I ended up not having him join.

[+ PhileasFogg]

I’ve underwritten and planned multiple multiday/week+ trips with groups of four.  I’ve always known the guys in advance and known they were compatible.  I’ve involved them in plans and definition of mutual expectations and limits and encouraged them to Interact directly in advance as they saw fit. 

Edited Monday at 03:05 AM by PhileasFogg

[BuffaloKyle]

I'd recommend messaging true porn stars on Rentmen in San Fran first as they should have connections where they might be able to get a group together for you. You also said this is going to be at the end of the month but for this scenario I'd suggest reaching out now to give them some time to make texts/calls.

Edited Monday at 03:15 AM by BuffaloKyle

[lifeofbrian88]

15 hours ago, Trvlman1 said:

I will be traveling for work at the end of the month and have basically a free afternoon/evening on my own. I’ll be at a hotel with no other co-workers. 
 

I recently hired two providers for a 4 hand massage that turned into over 4 hours of incredible play. I’d like to replicate this on my trip but include one or two more guys (feeling a bit whorish at the moment). Finding a provider that works with someone (singular) doesn’t seem too difficult. But adding a 3rd or 4th is some uncharted territory. Is there a good practice others have used? In a nutshell, trying to build out a foursome or fivesome where everyone participates (love the sounds/smells of multiple guys) but I don’t want to be a cumdump for everyone. Is it okay to list on one of the apps to get a couple more? Do providers expect extra if it’s more than just me?

BTW - I’ll be in SFO, so think the pool of providers would be bigger.

Man this sounds really hot but expensive! More power to ya thiss helps guarantee all hot guys and your the center the action. That's some fantasy come to life!! 

Que 6 months.. Hey guys so I'm hiring a group too 😝 

[BananaBagel]

This sounds so good. I’m getting together with two guys tomorrow after work and that took some cajoling. I like your ambition. Keep us posted!

[+ KensingtonHomo]

We're planning a group for my birthday: my husband, a friend, and me. Two guys we know pretty well, and I believe would hit it off. Finding the third/fourth guys has been an issue because we don't generally hire bottoms. One guy wanted $1,500 for two hours, which was truly hilarious. He has charged our friend $400 for one-on-one.

So beware of "surge pricing" for group participation, as I've heard it's common. As someone who gets consulting gigs through word of mouth, I find this a bizarre strategy. Because not only did he put himself out of the running for $800-$1,000 for 2-3 hours, he's ensured we'd never hire him.  Whereas had he kept to his normal rate, and we had a good time, he may have gotten new regulars out of it. 

[+ Charlie]

I misunderstood the assumption of the question when I read the title of this thread, because it immediately reminded me of one of the most important episodes in my life.  I was traveling alone and checked into a gay guest house on Cape Cod, and in the lobby I got into a conversation with another guest. He told me he was traveling with a friend, and it was his friend's birthday: he was trying to assemble a group of guests for a dinner at a nearby restaurant to celebrate his friend's birthday, and he invited me to join the group. I was a stranger in town and didn't know where I would eat, so I said I'd be happy to join the party of about 8 men which he had assembled.  At the large round restaurant table, I found myself seated next to the birthday boy. We got into an animated conversation, and at one point I realized that no one else was conversing: they were all watching the two of us. Well, of course, later that night the two of us ended up in bed in my room. He and his friend checked out the next day to continue their trip, but before they left, birthday boy and I made arrangements to meet at his home in NY when our travels around New England were over. We did, and we ended up living together for the next 56 years.

[theplayerking]

I’ve not had much success with this scenario. The problem is most providers don’t like working with other providers. Why this is I don’t know, but it’s led to some lame experiences where some of the guys had to leave early despite my being detailed about the scenario and what to expect. 

I’ve also tried it with letting the initial provider choose his own playmates, which I assumed be fun and easy for him. Most don’t have anyone at hand and usually find some random guy online. I also find guys are much more honest about their preferences and limitations in a one-on-one, but are less so when in a group. I’m very specific about wanting versatile guys that will flip fuck with everyone. They agree initially, but then show up and say they don’t get fucked much and only want to top, etc. 

Some providers specialize in group play and will note it in their ads. I don’t bother anymore with providers that aren’t totally into the scenario but it just doesn’t work out. 

[theplayerking]

This reminds me of something I tried to put together in Japan while on a business trip. Japan has a bunch of agencies with websites where you can order almost any scenario you want (I think they call them “programs”). I contacted three or four of the sites asking for a program of me watching two versatile guys flip fucking each other. They were totally flummoxed by the request. One site was really nice and spent days asking their entire roster of guys to take the job and no one would do it. I know Japan has a very unique culture, but I’ve found it difficult to create a similar scenario in Europe as well. 

If there are any providers here, I’d love to hear your thoughts on this. Do you avoid playing with other providers? Have you done groups with other providers?

[Luv2play]

I’ve had a fair bit of experience with organizing threesomes with two other providers and me. What I find best, since I am a bottom, is hiring two providers I have been with and looking for at least one to be willing to flipfuck with the other provider. Also I get to participate in this and am not just a bystander.

Recently I let my regular provider recruit another he had worked with but it was a disappointing experience as he couldn’t stay hard. The previous day we had another 3 some with someone we both had met separately. That worked out very well. 
So take what you will from my experiences. Every situation is unique. Chemistry etc. 

 

 

[aiseeya]

IMO, chemistry is king in any group play scenario. Best to find providers who hv had experiences with each other lest you end up with some drama on D day

[BananaBagel]

7 hours ago, aiseeya said:

IMO, chemistry is king in any group play scenario. Best to find providers who hv had experiences with each other lest you end up with some drama on D day

Fingers crossed in the chemistry for my guys tonight. They’ve never met and one of them only saw one pic of the other - but was very happy with the stats and what he saw. 

[+ WstVlgChris]

I'm putting together a similar group this month, as a birthday present to myself. Three providers + me.  I've done 3 somes before, always with my most regular provider. He and I started planning the evening earlier this summer by discussing whom else I might want for the birthday. I sort of gave him veto power, as I've run my choices by him.  I have guy no. 2 on board (another semi-regular hire of mine) and soon to close the deal (I hope) with provider #3 (who'll be new to me, and to #1 and #2 as well).

What's different from the OP is that I've hiring for different times: #3 for 1.5 hours, #1 for 4-5, and #2 for overnight.  So sometimes I'll be having a one-on-one, sometimes playing with 2, and sometimes with all 3.  

[Trvlman1]

Thanks all for the great feedback. I connected with a well reviewed provider and we have been discussions different guys and what the time together would look like. Very positive experience so far and really looking forward to making this fantasy a reality.