Rimming the Masseur

[Wings246]

On 7/3/2026 at 4:26 PM, Vegas_Millennial said:

So it's okay for his tongue to experience the taste of your ass, but not yours?  Sounds hyporcritical, probably a result of colonialism. 😆 

I double down on my previous statement: if a guy is willing to eat my ass, then I should be willing to taste the same "flavor" and willing to suck him off or kiss him after he's been in my ass.  It's the equitable thing to do 😇

This brings back a not-too-distant memory:

A very seasoned provider, after giving me an extended oral exercise on the South Pole, seamlessly transitioned to rimming me (for a long time) without much warning.  When he worked his way back up my torso and subsequently my neck and face, he whispered, “Do you mind me kissing you after the action down there?”  To which I replied, “Why would I have any trouble tasting myself if you have no issues with it?”  What followed was a 5-minute French kiss that I would never, ever forget for the rest of my life.

[BradyWolf]

On 7/2/2026 at 4:20 AM, Jamie21 said:

I offer a ‘happy start’ as I call it on a longer massage (2 hours). Some clients are extremely turned on right at the beginning and they want to be able to relax into the massage which is difficult if you have a hard on and are trying to lay on your front! So I suggest to them the ‘happy start’ option where I’ll suck them off before they get on the table. It can be part of an undressing. I’ve a few clients who like to start like that. Then they can relax on the table and enjoy the massage and build again to another climax near the end.

  "Happy Start" — wow, so wonderful to learn that there's actually a name for the thing I tend to prefer during a session! You see, when my provider first arrives, I'm pretty much hungry/horny and boner-driven, so I'm basically in "feeding mode" -- in the sense of satisfying carnal appetite, if that makes any sense? However, I also tend to experience "post-nut dissolution" where I am happy and satisfied, yet also exhausted and limp (both dick and everything else) -- LOL! 😆 In which case, lying facedown and passively receiving a pleasurable and therapeutic back-rub is JUST what "the doctor ordered" as they say... 💯

The reason I "strikethrough" that last part is a very personal and idiosyncratic thing, in that I am very much a "one nut and done" kinda guy -- early 40s here with an age-typical refractory period, so don't judge, haha! 😜

On 7/2/2026 at 4:20 AM, Jamie21 said:

I don’t think it matters to me when or if I cum during the session. I’ve one regular client who I shoot in his mouth near the start of the massage as I stand...

As far as gay men's desire go, apparently I am an extremely rare duck because I have no interest/desire around the other guy "shooting" -- neither on my body, nor in my mouth, nor otherwise! As I always like to tell my providers, "feel free to save your load for the next guy!" 🤩

[Cretus]

lol, the problem of infectious agents and bacteria is not guaranteed to be solved with cleaning. Just my two cents.

[PileDriver]

well...agree rimming and other activities and cumming at the start of a massage can be hot...once again I limit who I spend time doing this with and I take PreP and Doxy...and once again I am an adult and know the risks...with all that said in my middle 60's and have never been infected with anything through rimming...and kissing as part of rimming and it's worth it for the pleasure, no? otherwise stay at home and wrap yourself in bubble wrap and hope you live to 90...but without sexual pleasure..why?

[ACluelessGent]

In my book, masseurs give massage (that i detest, but that's another story). Riming is escorts territory.

Edited Tuesday at 05:47 PM by ACluelessGent

[Trick]

On 7/2/2026 at 7:10 AM, BeHappy said:

I like the concept!  I think I will give it try!  Happy Beginning and Ending sounds fun as well!  A deep rimming in between as well!

 

 

I’d call them Happy Bookends. 😆

[DunwoodyGuy]

After a very relaxing sensual or erotic massage, sometimes I can stay hard but have trouble ejaculating. I sort of go into a kind of tantric state of bliss, and ejaculation just seems less important than the connection that has been established. Nevertheless, the happy ending isa convenient way to end or wind down the erotic session, for both the masseur and me. I have found that if the masseur puts his cock in my mouth or his ass on my face, that will almost always make me cum quickly. The same thing happens if he places one of his pits over my mouth (has to be clean, though, not ripe--just my preference). Something about the oral stimulation puts me over the edge and make me shoot that much quicker.

Also, I just have to say that Jamie's post about his "happy beginning" almost made me cum spontaneously. (Many if not all of Jamie's posts have that effect on me.)