help me decide between two NYC providers

[Starlight77]

I'm on a budget and can only meet with one provider this weekend.   I've been chatting with these two guys.    Anyone with experience with both or either, I'd love to hear your thoughts.    You are free to PM me as well if you want. 

 

https://rentmen.eu/LEOFUNXL

https://rentmen.eu/KinkyBoyNYC

[ErnieJBurton]

Following. Kinkyboy has been on my ‘to do’ list for quite a while 

[+ azdr0710]

https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/136893-411-leofunxl/

https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/132323-kinkyboynyc-currently-in-dc/

Edited Wednesday at 04:57 PM by azdr0710

[+ WestGuy]

2 hours ago, ErnieJBurton said:

Following. Kinkyboy has been on my ‘to do’ list for quite a while 

Same! We have chatted through RM messenger and he is very friendly. Have not had chance meet him.

[BeHappy]

Leofunxl is my pick!

[SecretProvider]

On 6/17/2026 at 12:43 PM, Starlight77 said:

I've been chatting with these two guys.  

Providers prospective -

I was in China and went to a market and there was this white guy who was bartering for a trinket. He had the trinket in one hand and was waving the money above the girls head to make her jump up to catch it in order to complete the sale, pulling it higher every time she jumped up. 

This is what you are doing to these providers by reaching out to play with them and make them dance for your enjoyment with no intention to hire.  Just reach out to the one you like the best. 

(it is different if you reach out and you don't like the way the provider replies and move on - but toying with both when you are only going to hire one is typical time waster behavior) 

Edited yesterday at 05:53 PM by SecretProvider

[BeHappy]

Nicely put and agree!  

Edited Thursday at 11:45 PM by BeHappy

[kaboom35]

3 hours ago, SecretProvider said:

Providers prospective -

I was in China and went to a market and there was this white guy who was bartering for a trinket. He had the trinket in one hand and was waving the note in the ground above the girls head to make her jump up to catch it in order to complete the sale. 

This is what you are doing to these providers by reaching out to play with them and make them dance for your enjoyment with no intention to hire.  Just reach out to the one you like the best. 

(it is different if you reach out and you don't like the way the provider replies and move on - but toying with both when you are only going to hire one is typical time waster behavior) 

is it really that deep?   Maybe he's just chatting with the two providers and gauging connection.   And this site is always helpful with getting some extra insight with decisions to hire particular escorts.     That's just my take on it.  

[SecretProvider]

31 minutes ago, kaboom35 said:

is it really that deep?   

Yes. 

32 minutes ago, kaboom35 said:

Maybe he's just chatting with the two providers and gauging connection.  That's just my take on it.  

And my take is he is waving money in front of boys to see who will jump higher. 

32 minutes ago, kaboom35 said:

And this site is always helpful with getting some extra insight with decisions to hire particular escorts.  

100% correct. This is me giving you that extra insight on the provider side -  It would be better if he did this research here FIRST, then reach out to the guy he most wanted to see. 

[+ purplekow]

I have been with Kinky Boy twice a few years ago.  He was a lot of fun and a very nice person.  Very interactive. 

Leo has advertised here in Palm Springs and though I have not personally had the pleasure, friends relate that he is also a great guy and fun in bed.

It seems that you cannot go wrong with either one.  If you cannot decide and use the age old method of flipping a coin or do what I have done is such situations whcih is to close my eyes, clear my mind and pick the one that enters my mind first.  

[BeHappy]

10 minutes ago, purplekow said:

I have been with Kinky Boy twice a few years ago.  He was a lot of fun and a very nice person.  Very interactive. 

Leo has advertised here in Palm Springs and though I have not personally had the pleasure, friends relate that he is also a great guy and fun in bed.

It seems that you cannot go wrong with either one.  If you cannot decide and use the age old method of flipping a coin or do what I have done is such situations whcih is to close my eyes, clear my mind and pick the one that enters my mind first.  

….why not just have them both join you!  

[+ PhileasFogg]

Do both…that’s what I’d do.  Maybe even at the same time 

[+ purplekow]

1 hour ago, PhileasFogg said:

Do both…that’s what I’d do.  Maybe even at the same time 

His budget does not allow him to do both.  Financial constraints are very real for many practitioners of this hobby as evidenced by the relative infrequency of their hiring as noted in a recent poll of members here.  I agree, a threesome with these two guys would be great fun or one then the other.  

Edited 21 hours ago by purplekow

[+ PhileasFogg]

5 minutes ago, purplekow said:

His budget does not allow him to do both

I’m so sorry I overlooked that 

[BeHappy]

18 hours ago, PhileasFogg said:

Do both…that’s what I’d do.  Maybe even at the same time 

That’s exactly what I meant!  
It’s worked well for me several times when faced with this situation 😂 

[Passionproject]

On 6/18/2026 at 8:37 PM, SecretProvider said:

Yes. 

And my take is he is waving money in front of boys to see who will jump higher. 

100% correct. This is me giving you that extra insight on the provider side -  It would be better if he did this research here FIRST, then reach out to the guy he most wanted to see. 

I don’t think it’s this black and white. Sometimes you need a conversation, getting questions answered, feeling the vibe can be helpful.  Guys engage these professionals for different reasons. Some just care about aesthetics which makes picking from the profiles easy. Some want the vibe and some are inexperienced. Regardless, I do respect what you’re saying. Being an adult and telling both of them that you’re making up your mind based on these attributes lets them manage their expectations as well and is just the truth. It is unfair to play with someone’s livelihood, so I agree with that. But I don’t think chatting with them is wrong either. Just be transparent that you’re doing it. 

never been with kink but have been with Leo. Wonderful man and very skilled. Recommend for sure. 

[SecretProvider]

1 hour ago, Passionproject said:

I don’t think it’s this black and white. Sometimes you need a conversation, getting questions answered, feeling the vibe can be helpful....I don’t think chatting with them is wrong either.

Thanks for your thoughtful and considered comment. 

It's been a nice change of pace for this forum. 

I think we are both on the same page. I agree that chatting is important. That's why I said if you reach out and you are not happy with the replies, move on to the next choice. What I am mentioning here is reaching out to multiple providers simultaneously.

My motivation here is to educate because we do receive a lot of messages like the OP and the result is, due to volume and lower ROI our replies become robotic or shortened so it ruins the experience for everyone.

[Mark_fl]

There is nothing wrong with reaching out to a couple of guys to see who gives you a better feel. Judge responsiveness,  professionalism,  and compatibility with what you're looking for. And intelligence if it matters to you, and you're looking for more than a romp in bed.

That said, you should know pretty quickly what you’re looking for and thank them for their time (if they've given any) when you decide, which should be pretty quickly. 

Personally,  I'm happy to find one Im interested in a location where I'll be, so I will reach out before I get to the area and give a reasonable time to respond. If I get no response, or the response doesn't make me feel like he even read my message, I'll reach out to a second,  should I be lucky enough to have one.

[SecretProvider]

22 minutes ago, Mark_fl said:

There is nothing wrong with reaching out to a couple of guys to see who gives you a better feel.

To the surprise of absolutely  no one, you think this is cool.  Sigh. 

23 minutes ago, Mark_fl said:

Personally,  I'm happy to find one Im interested in a location where I'll be, so I will reach out before I get to the area and give a reasonable time to respond. If I get no response, or the response doesn't make me feel like he even read my message, I'll reach out to a second,

Perfectly fine and exactly the way I was suggesting!  👏👏👏👏👏

[Mark_fl]

14 minutes ago, SecretProvider said:

To the surprise of absolutely  no one, you think this is cool.  

Thank you. My use of common sense shouldn't surprise anyone.

[Mark_fl]

I like to think of providers as professionals. I'd have no problem talking to two attorneys via free consultation to see their approach before deciding on one.

Similarly,  if I were planning an event, I'd likely like to hear the vision of two planners.

There is nothing wrong with reaching out to two people before making a financial decision of any kind. And professionals understand this.