Thoughts about attraction...

[CuriousByNature]

I know that attraction is probably much more complex than this for most people, and that a lot of people are attracted to more than one type.  But amongst forum members, do you find yourself attracted to those who are similar to you physically - for instance, dad bod, skinny, hairy, or muscular?  Or do you find yourself attracted to people with those physical traits you wished you had for yourself?

 

[maninsoma]

When I was young, I'd say my "type" was more similar to me: preferably blond, young men with lean bodies, though I always preferred men more muscular than myself (though not into the body builder category).  Now I'd say that I am far more attracted to men with dark hair and skin darker than mine, and as I've gotten older my preference for men has skewed younger than me.  Not that I never find men in their sixties attractive, but I'd be lying if I said that my physical "type" wasn't more 20s/30s men.

[Charlington]

I don’t generally have a specific type. I’m more of a know it when I see it guy. In terms of assets, I like a big smooth round bubble butt,  big dick, muscular or athletic build. But in terms of features like hair, skin, and face, I know it when I see it. No set guidelines.

[+ PhileasFogg]

There’s an aesthetic - not mine - that I’m physically attracted to, but it has to tie in to a sense of humor and intellect that syncs well with mine 

[+ Just Chuck]

The range of men, women, and non-binary people that I find attractive is a pretty wide spectrum.  

And, I hold the (tested) opinion that you can have fantastic sex with people who you don’t really find attractive initially.

I suspect that a lot of escorts have similar feelings about how necessary attraction is to mine.