Expired and frozen RM profiles

[+ bcbg1205]

In my city I am suddenly noticing that at least 40% of the RM profiles on the site have expired or are frozen. Expired profiles: some have been expired for a few years. I wonder why they leave them up. Frozen profiles: I wonder why they are frozen. On vacation? Just taking a break? No longer need the income? 

And then there's PNP, a red light for me. When I add together the expired and frozen profiles and those that list PNP, the options in my city have dwindled compared to just a year ago. 

[Whoisyourdaddy]

I wonder if one reason is the payment options for an RM subscription. I use Bitcoin nowadays, which always works for me.

[+ JamesB]

1 hour ago, Whoisyourdaddy said:

I use Bitcoin nowadays, which always works for me

Not anymore. They no longer accept cryptocurrency.

[jeezifonly]

Believe it or not, there are guys who never have/had sex with a man, who really love seeing their own parts listed as merchandise. And for as long as the site allows it to remain visible in spite of pausing, they can continue to get their giggles  knowing someone's looked - all without ever looking a dick in the eye.  
Others run out of money living in the city, and have just had to go back to living Mom's basement 400mi east. 

[HockeyMan]

Escorting is an on-and-off job for many guys on Rent Men. They leave their expired ads up when they're not escorting, and reactivate them on return.

If a profile's been inactive for years, he abandoned Rent Men or escorting entirely. They're not diligent and don't take down their ads.

[MikeBiDude]

I just got re-acquainted with a college aged escort I hadn’t seen in 18 months or so, his RM ad had expired so I didn’t reach out. He, however reached out to me last week, we met, had a great time.

I mentioned his expired RM ad and he was totally ignorant/surprised at the fact that his pics, description, ad, etc. still remain posted, albeit “expired”.

[+ StLouisOct]

Is this more of a RM policy/practice issue? If an escort doesn’t pay to renew, RM seems to leave their ad up. I’ve noted a substantial increase in these expired pages. As noted, some escorts don’t even realize their pages are still up on the site. 

[liubit]

I have noticed that in some of these expired profiles, the contact number or WhatsApp appears in the text of the ad, and thus remains visible. It seems like a smart move on the part of the escort: he can still be contacted even he is no longer paying for his ad. 🤷🏻‍♂️

[soloyo215]

On 5/14/2026 at 6:13 AM, bcbg1205 said:

In my city I am suddenly noticing that at least 40% of the RM profiles on the site have expired or are frozen. Expired profiles: some have been expired for a few years. I wonder why they leave them up. Frozen profiles: I wonder why they are frozen. On vacation? Just taking a break? No longer need the income? 

And then there's PNP, a red light for me. When I add together the expired and frozen profiles and those that list PNP, the options in my city have dwindled compared to just a year ago. 

I think that RM prefers to leave the profile because it's easier to reactivate a profile than starting another one from scratch.

PNP is a red light for me too.