A little messed up after seeing a provider...

[BonVivant]

15 minutes ago, Rod Hagen said:

As a 2-decade niceGuy escort, I can tell you your thinking is wrong.  We are paid, and it's not an act.  Both are true. 

 

It's genuine fun and passion that just happens to be paid.  (Ok, those providers who say "I love you" without being asked to, that's laying it on thick) What is getting in the way of it being a long term thing is not that we were/are acting, it's that we aren't an option because of our work and most of the time neither are you because "fill in the blank".

Don't "move on" by telling yourself it was an act.  What a horrible thing to do to yourself, and horrible way to think of him.  Rather, remind yourself that it was good, it is good, and it can not be for many very real reasons.  All those things are true and unchangeable.

Yes. Or client can accept it as it is, for what it is. And just enjoy it. Life should be enjoyed. If I enjoy and click with a provider, then that is best for me and him. 

[Rod Hagen]

5 hours ago, BonVivant said:

Yes. Or client can accept it as it is, for what it is. And just enjoy it. Life should be enjoyed. If I enjoy and click with a provider, then that is best for me and him. 

Sure, but the "what it is" should be fleshed out.

[JustConnect]

I get it.  I’ve fallen into fantasies about being rich enough to afford to keep a provider I’ve met and be able to see him at least once or twice a week for a couple hours.  I’m realistic enough to know the only way I’d get hi to want me at this point in my life is the ability to be his sugar daddy. 

[pubic_assistance]

11 hours ago, Rod Hagen said:

Don't "move on" by telling yourself it was an act.  What a horrible thing to do to yourself, and horrible way to think of him.  Rather, remind yourself that it was good, it is good, and it can not be for many very real reasons.  All those things are true and unchangeable.

Brilliant sales pitch @Rod Hagen. 

I myself have always advised that young men who are new to the business, should work to get themselves a few regulars. 

Pretending you are genuinely attracted to some gigantic, aging blob of flesh who has never gotten laid without paying for it,  is absolutely a way to get a regular customer, who will mortgage his home to keep the fantasy going. 

As with all businesses there are customers you enjoy and those you dont. But all business is about pleasing someone in exchange for 💲CASH, not friendship.