What is the appeal of “daddies?”

[+ KensingtonHomo]

On 10/9/2025 at 8:15 PM, theplayerking said:

In addition to being a smart marketing move by providers, I think daddies are having a bit of a moment. I’m in my early 50s and get far more attention from guys in their 20s than I did when I was in my 20s.

There's a lot of truth to this. Now that we're in our 50s, my husband and I can't go on the apps without being besieged by guys in their 20s. For the most part, we're not into guys in their 20s. They tend to be flighty, unskilled in sex, emotionally immature, and often - especially providers - far more enamored with their appearance than is warranted. 

I agree with those who say providers listing "Daddies" as part of their "Into" is clever marketing. That said, "Daddies" are a subgroup within the gay sexual marketplace like "twinks," "muscle guys," "bears," or "otters." In my experience, it's somewhat less about age and more about a combination of aesthetics and personality. 

I have always been attracted to older men; even now I see men in their 60s and 70s who are really attractive. 

[pubic_assistance]

7 minutes ago, KensingtonHomo said:

"Daddies" are a subgroup within the gay sexual marketplace like "twinks," "muscle guys," "bears," or "otters." In my experience, it's somewhat less about age and more about a combination of aesthetics and personality. 

.....and CASH 💰

[BSR]

2 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

.....and CASH 💰

In the immortal wisdom of that great philosopher Bart Simpson, “It’s funny because it’s true.”

[+ KensingtonHomo]

5 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

.....and CASH 💰

Obviously, providers want people who can pay them, but plenty of guys of all ages are attracted to Daddies, not all of whom have tons of money. 

[pubic_assistance]

7 hours ago, KensingtonHomo said:

plenty of guys of all ages are attracted to Daddies

Of course if you MARRY one...you eventually end up home alone as daddy will age-out long before you. 

7 hours ago, KensingtonHomo said:

Edited Saturday at 09:46 PM by pubic_assistance
grammar

[Nue2thegame]

[+ KensingtonHomo]

4 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

Of course if you MARRY one...you eventually end up home alone as daddy will age-out long before you. 

11 hours ago, KensingtonHomo said:

I can’t say. I married for love not money. I had a very wealthy boyfriend when I was in my early 20s. He was about a decade older. Handsome, great in bed but wanted everything HIS way. I decided I’d rather be poor than under any man’s thumb. It all worked out in the end. 

[BuffaloKyle]

15 hours ago, KensingtonHomo said:

There's a lot of truth to this. Now that we're in our 50s, my husband and I can't go on the apps without being besieged by guys in their 20s.

I believe it. I'm 39 and I prefer younger guys but when I reach out to them I'm never their type. Guys in the 18-29 range seem to either only want guys their own age or are into much older guys in their 50's. I'm in no man's land. 😵

[CuriousByNature]

20 minutes ago, BuffaloKyle said:

 much older guys in their 50's. 

At 39, guys in their 50s are MUCH older?  How very dare you!  LOL 

[mike carey]

3 hours ago, CuriousByNature said:

At 39, guys in their 50s are MUCH older?  How very dare you!  LOL 

Ms Tate, really?

[Nue2thegame]

6 hours ago, BuffaloKyle said:

I believe it. I'm 39 and I prefer younger guys but when I reach out to them I'm never their type. Guys in the 18-29 range seem to either only want guys their own age or are into much older guys in their 50's. I'm in no man's land. 😵

Ahh yes. I’ve been 39 for quite awhile now. 

[BSR]

12 hours ago, KensingtonHomo said:

I had a very wealthy boyfriend when I was in my early 20s. He was about a decade older. Handsome, great in bed but wanted everything HIS way.

If you marry for money, you spend the rest of your life paying for every penny of it.

[BSR]

8 hours ago, BuffaloKyle said:

I believe it. I'm 39 and I prefer younger guys but when I reach out to them I'm never their type. Guys in the 18-29 range seem to either only want guys their own age or are into much older guys in their 50's. I'm in no man's land. 😵

So just tell the young’uns that you’re 53.  When they compliment you for looking so much younger, respond with faux-surprise, “Oh really? Gosh, thanks.”

Sure, you’ll have to guard your drivers license like Fort Knox to make sure the dewy-cheeked lad never sees your date of birth, but that’s a trifling matter.

[CuriousByNature]

12 hours ago, mike carey said:

Ms Tate, really?

Do you have an issue with Katherine?  How very dare you!  LOL

[Lotus-eater]

I kinda like these plant daddies:

[+ sniper]

16 hours ago, BuffaloKyle said:

I believe it. I'm 39 and I prefer younger guys but when I reach out to them I'm never their type. Guys in the 18-29 range seem to either only want guys their own age or are into much older guys in their 50's. I'm in no man's land. 😵

They'd be fine with 39. But too many delusional 60 and 70somethings list themselves as 39 so the presumption is you're lying. I got no hits at 39 and then when I turned 40 the floodgates opened. 

[+ sf westcoaster]

Experience and money make me a desirable Daddy!

[BuffaloKyle]

20 hours ago, CuriousByNature said:

At 39, guys in their 50s are MUCH older?  How very dare you!  LOL 

I meant the comment from the 20 something's viewpoint. That they aren't into an older guy in his late 30's only much older guys than them.

[BuffaloKyle]

12 hours ago, BSR said:

So just tell the young’uns that you’re 53.  When they compliment you for looking so much younger, respond with faux-surprise, “Oh really? Gosh, thanks.”

Sure, you’ll have to guard your drivers license like Fort Knox to make sure the dewy-cheeked lad never sees your date of birth, but that’s a trifling matter.

I'll have to send you my pic, that would never fly. I couldn't even pass for 43. 🤣

[BigK]

On 11/15/2025 at 3:44 PM, pubic_assistance said:

Of course if you MARRY one...you eventually end up home alone as daddy will age-out long before you. 

But at least it’s highly likely that you will own the home.