Provider Body Hair Differences on Profile

[+ KensingtonHomo]

I have a preference for moderate to very hairy guys, so that's what I search for. I find that many providers have photos where they are shown with body hair in some and shaved/waxed in others. What I'm wondering is whether or not I should ask if the provider is current "natural" or shaved/waxed. I tend not to want a provider to feel pressured to change anything about themselves for me. And if they just shaved or waxed, there's nothing they can do to grow their hair back. 

I'm curious to know if clients ask about this and if providers are open to discussing it. 

 

[+ ApexNomad]

5 hours ago, KensingtonHomo said:

I have a preference for moderate to very hairy guys, so that's what I search for. I find that many providers have photos where they are shown with body hair in some and shaved/waxed in others. What I'm wondering is whether or not I should ask if the provider is current "natural" or shaved/waxed. I tend not to want a provider to feel pressured to change anything about themselves for me. And if they just shaved or waxed, there's nothing they can do to grow their hair back. 

I'm curious to know if clients ask about this and if providers are open to discussing it. 

 

I think it’s fine to ask, especially if it’s important to you or high on your preference list. Just keep it simple: “I like hairy guys, do your current pics show how you look now?”

[+ SirBillybob]

But surely you might clarify whether the beautiful hair is long, straight, curly, fuzzy, snaggy, shaggy, ratsy, matsy, oily, greasy, shining, gleaming, streaming, flaxen, waxen, knotted, polkadotted, twisted, beaded, braided, powdered, flowered & confettied, bangled, tangled, or spangled & spaghettied. 

Edited August 31 by SirBillybob

[+ KensingtonHomo]

Well now I feel empowered to insist on a certain length! 

[+ Rgsnva]

Same interest - and I’ve asked if they have differing pics.  So far nobody has been bothered by the question.  Seems perfectly reasonable to me.  

[soloyo215]

21 hours ago, KensingtonHomo said:

I'm curious to know if clients ask about this and if providers are open to discussing it. 

 

I don't see a problem with inquiring about it. Body hair (and lack thereof) is a common preference. Of course, when I ask I try not to come across as creepy.

[+ poolboy48220]

I'm a big fan of hairy guys, and I've asked. One of my favorite masseurs (with plenty of extras) has varied from full chest hair to closely trimmed. I always ask, but if he's trimmed there's really nothing he can do to grow it back any quicker 🙂

[pubic_assistance]

I don't have a preference hairy vs. smooth but I absolutely despise a shaved body. Like fucking a porcupine !!... So if I see ONE shaved photo and the rest are natural, I always inquire as to the current situation.

[DznNYC]

I would say definitely ask!   My body hair situation for sure varies.   And sometimes if the current situation isn't your preference, you just have to wait a week.

Similarly, my haircut regularly varies, as does my facial hair.  It's not unusual for my appearance around these things to vary slightly within a limited range.   This is why I'll always send out recent selfies before a first meeting.

If you have strong preferences in these areas, always best to just ask.  I've postponed trimming my beard or my chest hair based on a client's preference.  Or I've specifically trimmed to meet a client's preference.  

Upshot: if you have strong preferences about these details, just ask.  Very often your provider can accommodate.

[rvwnsd]

On 8/31/2025 at 8:42 AM, KensingtonHomo said:

I have a preference for moderate to very hairy guys, so that's what I search for. I find that many providers have photos where they are shown with body hair in some and shaved/waxed in others. What I'm wondering is whether or not I should ask if the provider is current "natural" or shaved/waxed. I tend not to want a provider to feel pressured to change anything about themselves for me. And if they just shaved or waxed, there's nothing they can do to grow their hair back. 

I'm curious to know if clients ask about this and if providers are open to discussing it. 

 

I typically ask. So far (almost 30 years) no escort has been put off. A couple of guys have mentioned they are freshly trimmed/shaved and asked if I wanted to wait until the hair has grown back to hire them.

[rvwnsd]

On 8/31/2025 at 8:42 AM, KensingtonHomo said:

...I tend not to want a provider to feel pressured to change anything about themselves for me...

@KensingtonHomo, I forgot to comment on this part of your post. This is exactly my concern when asking about body hair, or anything else for that matter. When the provider's pics are a mix of hairy/smooth I will say something along the lines of "I love the pics where you are hairy. Are you currently hairy or are you smooth? My preference is hairy, but I don't want you to change just for me." 

[Alchemy]

On 8/31/2025 at 5:29 PM, SirBillybob said:

But surely you might clarify whether the beautiful hair is long, straight, curly, fuzzy, snaggy, shaggy, ratsy, matsy, oily, greasy, shining, gleaming, streaming, flaxen, waxen, knotted, polkadotted, twisted, beaded, braided, powdered, flowered & confettied, bangled, tangled, or spangled & spaghettied. 

Impressive!