Austin Lewis Posted yesterday at 02:16 PM Posted yesterday at 02:16 PM What (if anything) does it mean when a provider gets in touch with a client? I would like to think it means that they had a good enough time with me that they would be glad to see me again, but maybe it's just pure marketing. Nothing wrong with that, of course. Any decent business requires marketing. But if I could also feel just a little bit flattered, that would make things even better. In a way it doesn't matter: the two providers whose texts prompted this query are both gorgeous and sweet and amazing. I don't exactly need encouragement to be in touch with them again. Johnrom 1
Nightowl Posted yesterday at 02:38 PM Posted yesterday at 02:38 PM Depends on what he says when he contacts you. The fact that he didn’t throw away your contact information after you saw him is a good sign. I’d probably respond back with “I had a great time. When can we do it again?” Austin Lewis and + KensingtonHomo 1 1
+ JamesB Posted yesterday at 03:29 PM Posted yesterday at 03:29 PM It simply means they’ve realized that long-term success depends on having regular clients. What amazes me is how many providers still haven’t figured this out. In most cases, they’re just trying to secure more business from you. I wouldn’t read anything more into it. + ApexNomad and + sf westcoaster 2
DMonDude Posted yesterday at 04:04 PM Posted yesterday at 04:04 PM I've had some confusion around this myself when i first started. I have some providers i work with regularly who i always have to reach out to them first to book because they are popular and busy. But i also have a few other providers i work with regularly who almost always hit me up first. Like @JamesB said though, they're simply just trying to move you from the one time customer category to the regular category. Nothing more, nothing less. You may not need encouragement to see the provider again, but they don't know that till you've come back a certain number of times already. From what i assume too, from the perspective of the provider, if they know they need to see X number of clients a month to cover their living expenses/bills, I'd imagine that they would have you and others on a short list of guys they can reach out to each month to hit their quota. I'm pretty sure that's what one of my guys does. He doesn't let more than a month go by without hitting me up to see if i want to have a session. Definitely feel flattered though, the fact that they are cool to work with you repeatedly means you're doing something right as a client. It means you're chill or have good energy, easy to work with, reliable, consistent, you ask for stuff that's easy for them to do, etc. Nightowl, Whoisyourdaddy and Austin Lewis 3
+ KensingtonHomo Posted 23 hours ago Posted 23 hours ago It could mean a lot of things but I suspect at least that they didn't find their time with your unpleasant or objectionable. It could mean the rent is due. It could mean that they found you an "easy client" based on any number of factors: hygiene, looks, easygoingness, sexual prowess, etc. We have some regulars who will hit is up from time to time. I know we're pleasant, easygoing and attractive for our age, so I imagine we'd be high on desired regular client list. I think that more providers don't do it because in the US it's illicit work, and maybe they fear if they're seen as pestering, they'll get a bad review. + Vegas_Millennial, DMonDude, jackcali and 2 others 4 1
+ ApexNomad Posted 23 hours ago Posted 23 hours ago One of the nicest things a provider can do (and a few have) is send a message a few hours after our meeting, thanking me for our time together, saying how much they enjoyed meeting me, and letting me know that if I ever wanted to see them again, I shouldn’t hesitate to reach out. It says everything and leaves the ball in my court. Nightowl, MikeBiDude, Whoisyourdaddy and 5 others 4 4
BoyGeorgeandMarilyn Posted 23 hours ago Posted 23 hours ago 36 minutes ago, KensingtonHomo said: It could mean a lot of things but I suspect at least that they didn't find their time with your unpleasant or objectionable. It could mean the rent is due. It could mean that they found you an "easy client" based on any number of factors: hygiene, looks, easygoingness, sexual prowess, etc. We have some regulars who will hit is up from time to time. I know we're pleasant, easygoing and attractive for our age, so I imagine we'd be high on desired regular client list. I think that more providers don't do it because in the US it's illicit work, and maybe they fear if they're seen as pestering, they'll get a bad review. It just means : " Business is down"!!!!! Looool!!!!! They need to support their extravagant lifestyle and their drug habits! + Vegas_Millennial, MikeBiDude and ThirdEye 3
+ KensingtonHomo Posted 22 hours ago Posted 22 hours ago 39 minutes ago, BoyGeorgeandMarilyn said: It just means : " Business is down"!!!!! Looool!!!!! They need to support their extravagant lifestyle and their drug habits! Don't do that. Most of the providers I know don't live particularly extravagant lifestyles and many are sober. PoundMeOnaPlane, ThirdEye, Austin Lewis and 4 others 1 2 4
Austin Lewis Posted 22 hours ago Author Posted 22 hours ago 1 hour ago, KensingtonHomo said: It could mean a lot of things but I suspect at least that they didn't find their time with your unpleasant or objectionable. It could mean the rent is due. It could mean that they found you an "easy client" based on any number of factors: hygiene, looks, easygoingness, sexual prowess, etc. We have some regulars who will hit is up from time to time. I know we're pleasant, easygoing and attractive for our age, so I imagine we'd be high on desired regular client list. I think that more providers don't do it because in the US it's illicit work, and maybe they fear if they're seen as pestering, they'll get a bad review. Not looks, alas, but maybe some of the other stuff.
+ SirBillybob Posted 21 hours ago Posted 21 hours ago They are entering the lottery for guessing my average refractory period. + poolboy48220 1
dcguy20 Posted 21 hours ago Posted 21 hours ago I saw a provider in March and had a wonderful time. He reached out in May and commented on our session and was hoping to see me again. I told him I'd like to. Now 3 months later I still haven't gotten around to it. I was not put off by him reaching out. I know I'll get around to seeing him again at some point. thomas 1
PoundMeOnaPlane Posted 21 hours ago Posted 21 hours ago (edited) I’m sure some of the providers can really add a sprinkle of fun to our responses! When I receive an unsolicited contact, it feels like a lovely compliment, and I think it makes rebooking a breeze, making our time together even more delightful. I see it as nothing more than that. Edited 21 hours ago by PoundMeOnaPlane + Vegas_Millennial and dcguy20 1 1
Simon Suraci Posted 21 hours ago Posted 21 hours ago I reach out when I know I am going to be traveling to a client’s area to work. That usually drums up quite a bit of business. I try not to bother clients outside of giving them the key pieces of info they need to decide if they want to book me during a finite time period. A handful with whom I have a closer relationship I will send the occasional message unrelated to business. NJF and + Vegas_Millennial 2
BoyGeorgeandMarilyn Posted 20 hours ago Posted 20 hours ago 1 hour ago, KensingtonHomo said: Don't do that. Most of the providers I know don't live particularly extravagant lifestyles and many are sober. Most of them are not sober and You know it! Gay scene is full of junkies! MikeBiDude, + KensingtonHomo, ThirdEye and 1 other 4
BoyGeorgeandMarilyn Posted 20 hours ago Posted 20 hours ago 2 hours ago, KensingtonHomo said: Don't do that. Most of the providers I know don't live particularly extravagant lifestyles and many are sober. Ok! So There is no drug in the Gay scene????Excelent that one! Time to open your eyes!
+ KensingtonHomo Posted 20 hours ago Posted 20 hours ago 29 minutes ago, BoyGeorgeandMarilyn said: Most of them are not sober and You know it! Gay scene is full of junkies! I don't know who you're hanging out with but your comments are bordering on homophobic. + Vegas_Millennial and ThirdEye 1 1
Gilfson Posted 20 hours ago Posted 20 hours ago 2 minutes ago, KensingtonHomo said: I don't know who you're hanging out with but your comments are bordering on homophobic. They dude is having an episode or something made another thread where he’s being very odd about drug use as well + KensingtonHomo and + Vegas_Millennial 1 1
BoyGeorgeandMarilyn Posted 20 hours ago Posted 20 hours ago 3 minutes ago, KensingtonHomo said: I don't know who you're hanging out with but your comments are bordering on homophobic. No Darling! Not homophobic! Just realistic and you know it!
+ KensingtonHomo Posted 20 hours ago Posted 20 hours ago Just now, BoyGeorgeandMarilyn said: No Darling! Not homophobic! Just realistic and you know it! You sound manic. Maybe it's time you seek help. + DrownedBoy and Nightowl 2
Cooper Posted 20 hours ago Posted 20 hours ago Administrator’s Warning Gentlemen, Return to the subject of the thread and stop with these back and forth off-topic comments. Ignoring a moderator’s warning is a Guideline violation. + KensingtonHomo and + Vegas_Millennial 1 1
BoyGeorgeandMarilyn Posted 19 hours ago Posted 19 hours ago 19 minutes ago, KensingtonHomo said: You sound manic. Maybe it's time you seek help. If you say so Darling! Thruth ignores apparently!
+ KensingtonHomo Posted 19 hours ago Posted 19 hours ago 8 minutes ago, BoyGeorgeandMarilyn said: If you say so Darling! Thruth ignores apparently! Girl, this isn't even English.
BoyGeorgeandMarilyn Posted 19 hours ago Posted 19 hours ago 5 minutes ago, KensingtonHomo said: Girl, this isn't even English. yawn! When you speak English the way I speak French and Dutch ....Then you will be entitled to have your opinion on my English
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