Guest Posted January 20 Posted January 20 I was thinking... when a guy says "Imma nut," I find that a HUGE turnoff. The word "nut" in reference to ejaculation. "I'm cumming" is okay. The word "load" tends to bug me also. Somehow, the words "ejaculate" or "orgasm" or "climax" are huge turn ONs. How about y'all?
+ ApexNomad Posted January 20 Posted January 20 4 hours ago, JD-Angel said: I was thinking... when a guy says "Imma nut," I find that a HUGE turnoff. The word "nut" in reference to ejaculation. "I'm cumming" is okay. The word "load" tends to bug me also. Somehow, the words "ejaculate" or "orgasm" or "climax" are huge turn ONs. How about y'all? I get that certain words can be a turnoff for some, especially if they feel too crude or don’t match the moment. It’s different for everyone. For me, it’s often less about the specific word and more about the context—like if he’s saying it because I’m the reason he’s feeling that way, or if there’s that intense eye contact when he’s saying it. The emotion or reason behind it can sometimes override the words themselves. But yeah, some terms feel sexier than others, depending on how they’re used.
ShortCutie7 Posted January 20 Posted January 20 (edited) In a sexual context, I don’t like use of the word “pussy” in any way- I’m a gay man, which means I neither want to have a pussy nor fuck one. In a general context, I find overuse of any form of the word “passion” to be incredibly annoying. Once is fine; if you’re a passionate lover who has a passion for passion fruit sorbet and is passionate about sports, it becomes too much… Edited January 20 by ShortCutie7 Clarity 1sight, + Just966, + azdr0710 and 3 others 3 3
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted January 21 Posted January 21 (edited) I love my hole being called a pussy, c*nt, cum hole, etc. I love when a guy says he's going to "nut in my butt" or give me his "baby batter" or "jizz". I don't mind being called Daddy, Boy, Sir, Slut, Whore, or F*g. I don't like papi. My only hangup is being called "queer " in a professional setting or when someone uses the word "literally" incorrectly; it makes me figuratively want to puke. Queer is fine if someone is calling me a dirty queer as they breed my hole in a back alley in Harlem (had that happen 2 months ago; it was hot!); but, if a coworker refers to me as queer, he's getting reported to HR. Edited January 21 by Vegas_Millennial Added semicolon 56harrisond 1
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted January 21 Posted January 21 9 hours ago, JD-Angel said: I was thinking... when a guy says "Imma nut," I find that a HUGE turnoff. Then you're gonna hate this:
+ poolboy48220 Posted January 21 Posted January 21 17 hours ago, ShortCutie7 said: In a sexual context, I don’t like use of the word “pussy” in any way- I’m a gay man, which means I neither want to have a pussy nor fuck one. In a general context, I find overuse of any form of the word “passion” to be incredibly annoying. Once is fine; if you’re a passionate lover who has a passion for passion fruit sorbet and is passionate about sports, it becomes too much… I second any form of "pussy" as a turn-off. wsc, + Just966, Act25 and 3 others 4 1 1
mattr Posted January 24 Posted January 24 I'm also turned off by the use of the terms pussy, bussy, or c*nt when referring to a man's ass. It's an ass or a butt I have no interenst in eating pussy... a man's ass on the other hand.... 😈 👅🍑 liubit, + Just966, + ApexNomad and 1 other 1 2 1
caramelsub Posted January 24 Posted January 24 I get extremely turned on when a guy says “ I’m going to use your mouth like a pussy”. Or “I’m fucking your mouth like a pussy”. Especially when I don’t have to prompt them to say it, when it’s just natural. + Vegas_Millennial 1
Guest Posted January 24 Posted January 24 Exactly!!! I have no interest in female anatomy. I don't want to have it in mind when I'm with a man. I like penis, I like balls, I like a nice firm hairy (man) butt! no pussy para mi
+ azdr0710 Posted January 25 Posted January 25 'boi' is some combination of pretentious and creepy at once......'boy' is only creepy.......'man' is the word to use...... mattr and + Vegas_Millennial 2
wsc Posted January 25 Posted January 25 On 1/21/2025 at 10:13 AM, poolboy48220 said: I second any form of "pussy" as a turn-off. My birth was the closest I've ever been to one - or wanted to be. ShortCutie7, CuriousByNature, viewing ownly and 3 others 2 1 3
+ ApexNomad Posted January 26 Posted January 26 On 1/24/2025 at 1:18 PM, caramelsub said: I get extremely turned on when a guy says “ I’m going to use your mouth like a pussy”. Or “I’m fucking your mouth like a pussy”. Especially when I don’t have to prompt them to say it, when it’s just natural. I’m gay, so that analogy if spoken to me in the moment does nothing for me. Honestly, it just makes me wonder if the guy has actually been with pussy (which is fine) BUT is not something I as a gay man want to be thinking about when he’s supposed to be focused on fucking my MOUTH! Do you want to be fucking a wet pussy right now or my wet mouth?
Nightowl Posted January 26 Posted January 26 I get tired of hearing “fuck yeah” in the heat of the moment and “fuck that pussy” completely threw me when one guy used it. I’d rather hear moaning without discernible words. liubit 1
+ purplekow Posted January 26 Posted January 26 I enjoy telling a guy to get down and suck my cock like the cocksucker he is. I find it a turn on when he give me a yessir in response though i do not like that phrase overused. Once is enough Most i agree with the poster who loves animalistic grunts and moans and I do that a lot and love to hear them echoing back + Vegas_Millennial and 56harrisond 2
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted January 27 Posted January 27 (edited) Turn on: "Fuck hole" (referring to the arse) Turn off: "Endowment" (referring to the penis) Edited January 27 by Vegas_Millennial
Guest Posted January 27 Posted January 27 I just don't like any words that make it seem like the person is embarrassed by the real word. In a non-sexual context, it drives me nuts when grown adults will say "wiener" instead of penis. This may be judgmental of me, but I just think, "you're a grown adult. You're not a child anymore who gets embarrassed by talking about 'naughty bits'. Say the word." Although maybe my harshness is unjustified 😂
CuriousByNature Posted January 27 Posted January 27 And then there's that term that can be both a turn-on and a turn-off... Light Switch + Vegas_Millennial 1
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted January 27 Posted January 27 2 hours ago, JD-Angel said: Also, I hate the word schlong to refer to penis Me too, especially when it's schort
Clt704guy Posted January 27 Posted January 27 I cringe if he says, “Suck that cock.” Why “that”? Do you think I’m going to get confused? And why are they always grunting when they say it? Also: “nut.” I go completely limp if he comes across as kind of dumb, but I will also go limp when I can tell he’s just trying to sound smart. For example, I was treated to a 30 minute discourse the other night on UFO conspiracies and how Trump is taking them seriously. He even tried to cite “sources.” Thanks for that. I’m never having sex again.
Bokomaru Posted January 27 Posted January 27 This thread shows how completely arbitrary verbal turn on’s and turn off’s can be. There are only 3 sane courses of action: 1) Ask ahead of time what a person’s hated/most loved words are. 2) Steer clear of the verbal-sex minefield altogether. (Boring!) 3) Say to yourself IDGAF. Let your dirty, kinky, verbal spew out, with no regard to how he will react. That’s fun, but you’ll probably never see the person you’re having sex with again.
Clt704guy Posted January 27 Posted January 27 Ew. You said “spew.” 1 minute ago, Bokomaru said: This thread shows how completely arbitrary verbal turn on’s and turn off’s can be. There are only 3 sane courses of action: 1) Ask ahead of time what a person’s hated/most loved words are. 2) Steer clear of the verbal-sex minefield altogether. (Boring!) 3) Say to yourself IDGAF. Let your dirty, kinky, verbal spew out, with no regard to how he will react. That’s fun, but you’ll probably never see the person you’re having sex with again. + Vegas_Millennial 1
Bokomaru Posted January 27 Posted January 27 Just now, Clt704guy said: Ew. You said “spew.” Oh, that didn’t turn you on?! 😆
LaffingBear Posted January 27 Posted January 27 I can't think of any specific words that are turn-ons for me. But I know that there's a style of communications that turns me off. I'm not a fan of anything approaching humiliation or condescension associated with being gay. I can totally understand someone into domination and submission, although it's not my thing. I'm not a fan of profanity, but if others enjoy it, ok. But, call me a __________, (the most common gay slur) and things will quickly go in a bad direction. It's a trigger word for me.
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted January 27 Posted January 27 (edited) 1 hour ago, Bokomaru said: This thread shows how completely arbitrary verbal turn on’s and turn off’s can be. There are only 3 sane courses of action: 1) Ask ahead of time what a person’s hated/most loved words are. 2) Steer clear of the verbal-sex minefield altogether. (Boring!) 3) Say to yourself IDGAF. Let your dirty, kinky, verbal spew out, with no regard to how he will react. That’s fun, but you’ll probably never see the person you’re having sex with again. I follow mostly #3 then #1. I am very verbal during sex; but, I try to listen to what new partners respond to. Some bisexuals love hearing "breed my dirty c*nt" while some college educated gold star gays like to hear "ejaculate your semen into my rectum". I'm a pleaser...I get turned on knowing that the language I use is exciting the other guy. Just don't use "literally" incorrectly or call me "queer", because then you're figuratively dead to me. 1 hour ago, Clt704guy said: For example, I was treated to a 30 minute discourse the other night on UFO conspiracies and how Trump is taking them seriously. My motto is to Keep My Bedroom Great. My brand's apparel is a red jockstrap Edited January 27 by Vegas_Millennial Clt704guy 1
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