FF - A fetish with limited appeal - or is it?

[viewing ownly]

I saw something in an ad of a provider tonight that I personally found to be bizarre. An US to HIM FF availability! I'm seeing this more and more frequently in porn, and it's not at all for me, and not something I ever want done to me, or done to someone else at cost!

I didn't think it was appropriate to spell out what that stands for - if you didn't already know, I consider you a friend - it's fist fucking of the anus with the fist of the hand being used, and beyond. 

 

[ReynST]

I don't knock on anyone's fetishes. It's not my cup of tea either, but if you're a regular bottom and want to feel like a virgin again it might be something to consider. 😅

Also a lot of guys want to take bigger and bigger. If a provider doesn't have the tool to satisfy that, they may at least provide other options 🤷🏾‍♂️

[soloyo215]

Not my thing (officially), but I posted this:

Not something I consider, but not against it either.

Edited December 28, 2024 by soloyo215

[nate_sf]

Don’t knock it ‘til you try it. 
It can be a challenge to get past the mental block of doing it or having it done to, but there’s a lot of pleasure to be had down there. 😈

[Archangel]

As long as it’s consensual all around however it’s unfolded, I don’t really care. We all have our thing.

[SirBillybob]

32 minutes ago, Archangel said:

As long as it’s consensual all around however it’s unfolded, I don’t really care. We all have our thing.

I’d need to better master origami before attempting reverse origami. I say give everybody else a hand. 

Edited December 28, 2024 by SirBillybob

[jeezifonly]

Handball remains a mystery to most because, in many ways, it is a mystical practice - it demands a lot of devotion on one’s knees before you finally see God. 

 

 

[+ Pensant]

I once had a customer who was the president of FFA in DFW. Apparently this is more common than one thinks. I’d be worried about major bowel damage, but I did see a provider with small hands who I let put a few fingers there. That’s the extent of my adventurism!

[BrickBuilder]

So FF is merely one stop on the continuum of anal sex and assplay.   As I see it, fingering, rimming, fucking, toy play, DP, and fisting all are related, it is merely what the top and bottom are comfortable doing with each other and with their own bodies.

FF takes a lot of prep physically and mentally for both parties.  While most people think it is just the bottom that has to prep for FF, I know if I am going to fist anyone (and honestly even if I am just gonna finger someone), I take the preparation of my hands very seriously.  I make sure I am very well manicured with no long nails, edges, rough patches, etc.   The last thing I want is to cause a tear in someone’s inner lining.  Gloves always help with this but even they are not foolproof, so I do everything I can on my side to be ready.

Connecting is very important during the process.  I am pretty sure that some of the longest eye to eye contact I have ever had during sex has been as I am working my hand slowly inside that first time…finding the correct angle and position, coaching the receiver and getting him to breath with me, and get that rhythm just right so things start to flow.  I watch his body as it tenses and relaxes, his eyes as that go in and out of focus.

There are varying styles and degrees of FF that exist.  Intensity, depth, width, etc.  Some I do.  Others I do not.  Its all what I have come to enjoy and what I see the bottom enjoy also.

There is a lot I take from fisting to when I am doing good ol anal sex or toy play.  I am aware of breathing patterns, tension in body parts, eye movement, etc.  I can read how relaxed someone is and ask for feedback on how they are doing.  This all comes in handy whether with a hookup or a provider.  

Back to the original question.  Is it a fetish…absolutely…but it’s not all that far different or far off from fucking, fingering, or toy play, but most of all like any of these, not necessarily everyone's cup of tea.   I will on occasion find a provider that likes it and we have fun, but it is by no means a requirement of a meeting.  I personally get hard and stay hard when I am doing any type of assplay.   But hey, thats just me.

[Archangel]

31 minutes ago, Pensant said:

I once had a customer who was the president of FFA

I read that as a completely different FFA 😂 Whose members might in fact have experience getting their arms all the way up inside a creature of they’ve ever helped birth a calf! 😆