Group fun, thoughts?

[BlondeSurfer]

Hi, I am keen to get thoughts if I should hire 2 or 3 providers who I have seen separately before for some group fun. I am keen to see them have fun together as well as on me. 
 

However as they don’t know each other I am not sure how the dynamics would work? They are on the younger side.

Please share your thoughts and any experience. 🙂

[MscleLovr]

I’ve certainly done this in the past, and generally I had a lot of fun.

My strong advice is to plan this well in advance. It takes a fair amount of organization. It is not a cheap event.

I feel it’s important that you have first played one-on-one  with each of the guys you intend to invite to your group. If there’s one guy you play best with, I suggest you check with him how compatible the others might be. (He may well have played with some of your guys already). It sounds obvious but depending on your desires, you need a mix of tops, bottoms and versatile guys.

You should also be VERY specific about what you enjoy and what you expect to happen in a group scenario (eg I’m a top only so I spelled out to the guys that I would top each one separately before there was group interaction; I also stipulated that I wanted to see each guy climax at least once in a multi-hour session). Also spell out any rules you might have (eg no drugs in your place, no barebacking, use of safe-words) in advance.
 

Do not be tempted to think it will all work spontaneously. Think how hard it is for one guy to read your mind or sense what you want, then multiply by 3 or 4 to encompass all the possibilities that a group session offers.

[+ purplekow]

I have had more success hiring two guys who actually have worked together rather than trying to pair them up based on my experience with them.  That way, the working pair have better ideas as to how their partner likes to proceed and they can concentrate more fully on you.  Do not forget. escorts are people to and they have egos and they want to impress their partners and if is better if they only have to impress you after having impressed the other escort on their own time or another person's dime.  

[+ Jamie21]

Could work but make sure they’re both ok with it before you hire, including what you want them to do together. Your experience with each separately may have been great but the dynamic changes a lot when there’s 3 or more of you. As always communication is key.

If clients hire me to work with another guy (called a duo session) then they usually ask me to come up with some suggestions. There’s 5 of 6 providers I know well, have worked with and I know what they’re into. Similarly they know me so if the client wants us to focus on each during the session, as well as him, then we can do it. Some clients have seen me in films with other providers so they hire us for their session knowing that we can work together. It saves the risk of the guys they hire not working out especially given hiring 2 guys is costly. 

The other advantage of asking one guy for his suggestions is you can ask him to set it all up. Saves you liaising with 2 guys. 

What you might find with 2 guys who don’t know each other is that even though they might say they’re ok with what you want…when it comes to it in the session it doesn’t quite come off. 

I’d also suggest don’t book 3 guys. Not all at same time anyway. 4 is a bit awkward. If you want multiple guys hire someone to join a bit later and have him join as someone else leaves. A fresh person livens up the session after the first guy has done his thing. Your main hire can be booked for the whole session. It’s the best way for a longer session. 
 

 

[BlondeSurfer]

Hey, wow, thank you very much for the thoughts and suggestions. It is all very helpful. 

I have two guys who I have both met individually and I have checked with both of them that they are okay. Also told them in advance what to expect, what we start my doing and what they do together. I will let you know how it goes. I am very excited haha.

[danteig]

Be direct and upfront about what you expect. Many guys from RM don’t do groups. I have hired a few guys for a few sessions, I have had 8 guys at the same time, it gets pricey, so you want everybody on the same page. DM me for recommendations.

[aiseeya]

Just to put it out there....most often than not, client would be the only average looking guy in the room. Set up a ground rules eg when providers can play with each other or expectation where their focus should be. Beware you could be in a situation where you got sidelined and not be the focus of the session. IMO, chance of successful group play decreases with providers who are a total stranger - dynamic issue (ego) or they simply lose focus on their client (and it becomes more about them playing with other hot guys).

Been in duo session where (me bottom) the Top spend more time playing with the Vers.

My exp (as a bottom): all tops = focus on me throughout the session. Mix of tops + vers = focus will shift constantly throughout the session. 

That said, best to first understand what you really want to achieve from the session. Providers are human and they all have ego, and as do you.

[hungry4darkmeat]

I’ve also done it before and it was fantastic- just communicate clearly when you’re setting it up and enjoy 

[viewing ownly]

What certainly helps is to see in their profiles if they do 4-hand erotic massage. Chances are high that if this is something they're accustomed to, it should work.

I noticed that one of my favorite penises I've experienced and favorite asses I've experienced are each traveling, and for one day next month, happen to be in the same city. This would be a fantasy of all fantasies to have one sit on my face while the other takes me for a ride while they each French kiss one another. (Truthfully, it's world's cheaper to fantasize about it and let my seed fly than to try to make it a reality).