UncutDad Posted January 26 Share Posted January 26 15 hours ago, pubic_assistance said: The conversation here is about older providers AT MASSAGE PARLORS (or whatever those businesses are supposed to be called). NOT guys on the apps. I am well aware that there are PLENTY of old daddy types on the sites. My impression at the "parlors" throughout New York is that *young and cute* is ALWAYS who's sitting up front because that's what sells !! I have, however, been proven wrong over-all as others have mentioned a few places that have an old man or two. But I would point out this is by far, still the exception to the rule, so my "ignorance" as you call it is a matter of paying attention to the conversation and not wandering off on a tangent. The result of the thread is that there's exception to every rule. There's a few oldie but goodies scattered here and there at the "Men's Spa" massage places. Probably hiding in the back because I've never seen one. It's really a distinction without a difference when you liken older MT's as old food and 15 hours ago, pubic_assistance said: The conversation here is about older providers AT MASSAGE PARLORS (or whatever those businesses are supposed to be called). NOT guys on the apps. I am well aware that there are PLENTY of old daddy types on the sites. My impression at the "parlors" throughout New York is that *young and cute* is ALWAYS who's sitting up front because that's what sells !! I have, however, been proven wrong over-all as others have mentioned a few places that have an old man or two. But I would point out this is by far, still the exception to the rule, so my "ignorance" as you call it is a matter of paying attention to the conversation and not wandering off on a tangent. The result of the thread is that there's exception to every rule. There's a few oldie but goodies scattered here and there at the "Men's Spa" massage places. Probably hiding in the back because I've never seen one. I suppose you can call it "just paying attention". But when you refer to a group of people as "old food" or are repulsed by "old men touching you" you just reveal a vapid mind. You're free to disrespect all the groups that you want. If that's what makes you feel valid in life, judge on, man. rhh33, pubic_assistance, + APPLE1 and 3 others 2 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Intosmoothmuscles Posted January 26 Share Posted January 26 Please stay on topic and let’s just discuss older masseurs available . Thank you . pubic_assistance, Monarchy79 and spaman 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PileDriver Posted January 26 Share Posted January 26 my massage therapist doesn't work for a spa. but he his in his 60s. and have had two guys in the past 10 years at spas. not in the U.S. also in their 60s. last time was a duo in Italy. all great massage therapists. great mature guys. and always more than a tug for an end to the massage. not sure why there apparently aren't more older men at spas in nyc. its a shame. and a shame the above discussion above isn't about how to remedy the situation. why not ask the spas? rhh33 and Redwine56 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted January 26 Share Posted January 26 7 hours ago, UncutDad said: If that's what makes you feel valid in life, judge on, man. News flash: People are attracted to what they are attracted to. EVERYONE makes judgements about what and who they are attracted to ( and who they are not ). MOST gay men want YOUNG GOODLOOKING providers. That's why MOST ALL "Men's Spas" staff their business with YOUNG guys. FACT We've heard lots of opinions here as to whether NYC is a landscape for the old-man fetish at spas..and the conclusion was that MOST older providers are working independently. There were a few (very few) exceptions to the rule mentioned which is what the conversation is about: "Massage Parlor with older masseurs". Too many people here, keep rattling-on about the merits of hiring an old man without providing any suggestions about where to find one in a Men's Spa in New York. Please stay on topic. Marc in Calif 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EZEtoGRU Posted January 26 Share Posted January 26 Why is the above poster still allowed to post on this thread? He just keeps saying the same thing over and over again without adding anything new or actually useful. GHart, + Italiano, marylander1940 and 2 others 1 1 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted January 26 Share Posted January 26 7 minutes ago, EZEtoGRU said: Why is the above poster still allowed to post on this thread? He just keeps saying the same thing over and over again without adding anything new or actually useful. Quote and report, don't troll! MikeBiDude and pubic_assistance 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PileDriver Posted January 26 Share Posted January 26 ??? EZEtoGRU. its called a discussion. an adult discussion. and with that push the discussion further or wrap it up? if enough men contact spas looking for older masseurs then it will happen. but, like i have said and public_assistance too. hire a an older private provider. they exist in nyc in large numbers. what i am curious about is why older providers have to be available at spas? is about the money? have no idea. is a fetish? clueless. going to my older therapist next week. into his 60's. a porn stud. nicest guy. top notch massage. top notch banter. for me even though i go on about age its about our rapor. we are similar in age and life experiences. is that the fetish? have no idea. ??? who knows Redwine56, pubic_assistance and marylander1940 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted January 26 Share Posted January 26 53 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said: News flash: People are attracted to what they are attracted to. EVERYONE makes judgements about what and who they are attracted to ( and who they are not ). MOST gay men want YOUNG GOODLOOKING providers. That's why MOST ALL "Men's Spas" staff their business with YOUNG guys. FACT We've heard lots of opinions here as to whether NYC is a landscape for the old-man fetish at spas..and the conclusion was that MOST older providers are working independently. There were a few (very few) exceptions to the rule mentioned which is what the conversation is about: "Massage Parlor with older masseurs". Too many people here, keep rattling-on about the merits of hiring an old man without providing any suggestions about where to find one in a Men's Spa in New York. Please stay on topic. Agreed, internet has gotten rid of the "middleman" in many professions including porno where providers now can own their own material and post it online by themselves. Do we need a pawn shop if we can post an ad on CL or Ebay? Etc. We can always fantasize about an ideal world but we must face facts. I'm sure some parlors have one or two older masseurs who are still in the business because they want to. I usually go for guys in their late 20's early 30's but I have a regular in town who is in his late 40s and still looks great. To each his own! Marc in Calif and pubic_assistance 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted January 26 Share Posted January 26 (edited) 9 minutes ago, PileDriver said: ??? EZEtoGRU. its called a discussion. an adult discussion. and with that push the discussion further or wrap it up? if enough men contact spas looking for older masseurs then it will happen. but, like i have said and public_assistance too. hire a an older private provider. they exist in nyc in large numbers. what i am curious about is why older providers have to be available at spas? is about the money? have no idea. is a fetish? clueless. going to my older therapist next week. into his 60's. a porn stud. nicest guy. top notch massage. top notch banter. for me even though i go on about age its about our rapor. we are similar in age and life experiences. is that the fetish? have no idea. ??? who knows Unfortunately there's a totalitarian desired to block/ban others from posting. Sad but true! The OP @thelovebroadcast and others can report inappropriate posts for their removal. Back to subject! The market rules our lives by default, even in NYC some can't get enough choices. Considering many won't hire a masseur in his 60's you could start a thread praising him on here to give him some business. Your choice! Edited January 26 by marylander1940 pubic_assistance 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LookingAround Posted January 26 Share Posted January 26 So what’s the answer to the OP? What NYC spas have older masseurs and who does he ask for? What’s the distillation from all the posts? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PileDriver Posted January 26 Share Posted January 26 seems no spas. so why not rally and ask for it? or else move on and hire from the many hot older but private practice providers in the world/nyc. take the initiative. spas provide a service to meet a demand. period. create the demand or move on. no? lol. seems simple. pubic_assistance 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PileDriver Posted January 26 Share Posted January 26 with that said. have to admit it would be a dream to have an nyc spa with all the providers over 60. does anyone have financing available? 😈 pubic_assistance 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LookingAround Posted January 26 Share Posted January 26 Does anyone want to put their money where their mouth is? Marc in Calif, marylander1940 and pubic_assistance 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thelovebroadcast Posted January 26 Author Share Posted January 26 @LookingAround @PileDriver Hey guys! I listed all the recs on the first page of this thread, but this thread is now three pages deep! Ha ha. Here it is with a couple updates: W Man Spa on 30th Ocean Bodywork in Brooklyn East Men Spa Yeah Man Spa (LES) 27 Men Spa Time's Square Men's Massage Bonus suggestion was Russian Turkish Bath House, but a) I already knew about them and b) I don't find the guys who work there are as fun as they used to be pre-pandemic. Renew on 8th Ave and 48th St Rainbow Spa on 49th St between 8th & 9th Tai Chi spa in East Village Keep in mind that there are explicit M4M massage-type places (like Men Spa, W Man Spa, etc.), but I have to say after living in New York my entire life, it never occurred to me that there are only about 10 of those in the city and there are SO MANY "regular" parlors, so it made me realize... I think the best route is just to keep this conversation going AND just call around and ask for "older masseurs." I've done that with all the parlors listed above and it's honestly less awkward than I thought it'd be. I think I felt a little weird calling especially since women work at those parlors as well, but every one of them (except W Man on 30th) was answered by a woman and they were always very direct and nice about it. Thanks to all the guys who have messaged me privately for sharing their recs and experiences. I'm going to see Peter at Renew next! + EVdude, Marc in Calif, pubic_assistance and 1 other 1 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PileDriver Posted January 26 Share Posted January 26 yep. insist on older and then receive... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted January 26 Share Posted January 26 (edited) On 1/15/2024 at 4:48 PM, thelovebroadcast said: but I do prefer them to be from a different country. Ouch... Discrimination based on national origin. It might be hard to keep foreign-born men over 40 employed at massage established because the work involved in renewing their work visas. Many young men come over with student visas. Edited January 26 by Vegas_Millennial marylander1940 and pubic_assistance 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted January 26 Share Posted January 26 On 1/18/2024 at 2:17 PM, EVdude said: “Mature” is in the eye of the beholder. Very true. I've met a few men in their 20s and 30s who act very mature. I continually meet many men in their 60s who are very immature. pubic_assistance, Redwine56 and marylander1940 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted January 26 Share Posted January 26 I think what hasn't been established here is what @thelovebroadcast meant when he asked about "older". Is that over 40 ? Over 50 ? Marc in Calif 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted January 26 Share Posted January 26 3 hours ago, PileDriver said: with that said. have to admit it would be a dream to have an nyc spa with all the providers over 60. does anyone have financing available? 😈 3 hours ago, LookingAround said: Does anyone want to put their money where their mouth is? Not trying to drag this out of subject but I've always talked about some of the billionaires on here creating a bunny ranch for men in Nevada. Back to subject: 1 hour ago, Vegas_Millennial said: Ouch... Discrimination based on national origin. It might be hard to keep foreign-born men over 40 employed at massage established because the work involved in renewing their work visas. Many young men come over with student visas. It's official most Americans think they're too good to lift their fat asses from the sofa to drive Uber or lower their pants for money, they also lack work ethic to do most manual labor. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SouthOfTheBorder Posted January 26 Share Posted January 26 16 minutes ago, marylander1940 said: creating a bunny ranch for men in Nevada. excellent idea - bc gay men with the ability to travel will go to rural Nevada and see guys that can’t make it in the big cities. makes total sense. marylander1940 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted January 26 Share Posted January 26 (edited) 8 minutes ago, SouthOfTheBorder said: excellent idea - bc gay men with the ability to travel will go to rural Nevada and see guys that can’t make it in the big cities. makes total sense. You don't get sarcasm, do you? In Nevada or anywhere else where it's legal. Massage so far is allegedly legal. Edited January 26 by marylander1940 pubic_assistance 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PileDriver Posted January 26 Share Posted January 26 Lol. Maybe Arizona is a better location . Or mid Florida ? A retirement community ? With architecture to accommodate/facilitate assignations. marylander1940 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ APPLE1 Posted January 27 Share Posted January 27 On 1/15/2024 at 11:28 PM, LookingAround said: Chicago has a spa that employs older masseurs. I know the post is for NYC, but quit playing the I know a secret game. LOL! Give us the name of the Chicago spa! Inquiring minds want to know! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LookingAround Posted January 27 Share Posted January 27 15 hours ago, APPLE1 said: I know the post is for NYC, but quit playing the I know a secret game. LOL! Give us the name of the Chicago spa! Inquiring minds want to know! Sir Spa Marc in Calif and + APPLE1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monarchy79 Posted January 28 Share Posted January 28 On 1/26/2024 at 9:51 AM, pubic_assistance said: News flash: People are attracted to what they are attracted to. EVERYONE makes judgements about what and who they are attracted to ( and who they are not ). MOST gay men want YOUNG GOODLOOKING providers. That's why MOST ALL "Men's Spas" staff their business with YOUNG guys. FACT We've heard lots of opinions here as to whether NYC is a landscape for the old-man fetish at spas..and the conclusion was that MOST older providers are working independently. There were a few (very few) exceptions to the rule mentioned which is what the conversation is about: "Massage Parlor with older masseurs". Too many people here, keep rattling-on about the merits of hiring an old man without providing any suggestions about where to find one in a Men's Spa in New York. Please stay on topic. Says the person who got OFF topic. The OP specifically asked for spas with Older masseurs. You decided to give your personal opinion of what you thought about older providers. Not once did anyone in this thread ask for your personal opinions on age or personal preferences. But I do want to congratulate you. I want to award you with the “Troll of the thread” award. 🍾🏆🥇🏆🎖️ as you have gone above and beyond, to not only veer off topic, but to insult other members on this thread. I commend you for your outstanding efforts. Congratulations!!! -and to the moderator… we don’t need this thread closed, nor do we need any adversarial actions. If you want to hold someone accountable. It’s @pubic_assistance. His exchanges in the threads clearly prove this.- Good Day Everyone!!! 😘 Marc in Calif, pubic_assistance, JackNYC and 3 others 1 1 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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