NYC Providers who orgasm

[Guest]

Haven’t had a provider in NYC (or anywhere else) whom I’ve seen or felt actually cum during our session. Their explanation typically would be “I didn’t know you wanted that” despite me saying otherwise before the sessions. Are there any NYC providers who actually orgasm during sessions and I’ve just hired the wrong ones? 

[Trick]

Most of those I’ve hired in NYC have had orgasms.  During the pre-meet convo, when setting the time, I asked them what time they were most likely to cum.  They have been willing to provide such information.

[Guest]

1 hour ago, Trick said:

Most of those I’ve hired in NYC have had orgasms.  During the pre-meet convo, when setting the time, I asked them what time they were most likely to cum.  They have been willing to provide such information.

Thanks. I’ll try that and maybe I’ll finally get lucky. 😂 

[marylander1940]

3 hours ago, GlamNYC said:

Haven’t had a provider in NYC (or anywhere else) whom I’ve seen or felt actually cum during our session. Their explanation typically would be “I didn’t know you wanted that” despite me saying otherwise before the sessions. Are there any NYC providers who actually orgasm during sessions and I’ve just hired the wrong ones? 

Offer a tip, it's a job, if someone wants to see them right after you and he happens to be out of shape it might take them a full blue pill to get it up and keep it. 

[Guest]

2 minutes ago, marylander1940 said:

Offer a tip, it's a job, if someone wants to see them right after you and he happens to be out of shape it might take them a full blue pill to get it up and keep it. 

I’m a generous tipper, I think. Typically $100 for $300/hr rate. Then I repeat with the same providers, and still no orgasm from them. Starting to think I’m the problem. 😂 

[DznNYC]

Some clients I can’t tell either way if they care if I cum.  There have been plenty of times - primarily as a bottom - when I haven’t cum at all.  Not because I wasn’t enjoying myself, just because they didn't seem interested in me cumming.  Didn’t feel like that’s what it was about.   Though you’re making me wonder how many of those guys were disappointed!

I do have regulars who are clearly very invested in my orgasm and I always cum for them.  

Have you made it clear that it’s important to you?

[Guest]

55 minutes ago, DamizzonNYC said:

Some clients I can’t tell either way if they care if I cum.  There have been plenty of times - primarily as a bottom - when I haven’t cum at all.  Not because I wasn’t enjoying myself, just because they didn't seem interested in me cumming.  Didn’t feel like that’s what it was about.   Though you’re making me wonder how many of those guys were disappointed!

I do have regulars who are clearly very invested in my orgasm and I always cum for them.  

Have you made it clear that it’s important to you?

Yes. Then they say they’ll cum next time but it never happens. I have yet to meet a provider to fulfill that promise. 

[BrklynNYC]

I've had some that orgasm, some will charge more for it. I prefer to see them cum, but I also understand thats not possible when they have to see other clients within a certain timeframe. 

[LostUpstate]

I’ve only had one provider come to completion, and I’ve probably only hired about 6 or 7 guys total. It was a nice surprise when he did, and it was a geyser!

[pubic_assistance]

Depending on the provider, they may be saving up for the next customer.  Particularly when it's guys just passing through for a few days. They may have three different men they need to fuck that same day. If you specifically want them to nut, then it's just a matter of asking.

Edited January 15, 2024 by pubic_assistance
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[Trick]

5 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

Depending on the provider, they may be saving up for the next customer.  Particularly when it'd guys just passing through for a few days. They may have three different guys they need to fuck that same day. If you specifically want them to nut, then it's just a matter of asking.

Some guys who know I like cum put me on their last appointment for the day so they can “CUMplete” the task.

Edited January 14, 2024 by Trick

[Guest]

24 minutes ago, Trick said:

Some guys who know I like cum put me on their last appointment for the day so they can “CUMplete” the task.

Where do I find providers who would do that for me? After 10 years of hiring, I finally should meet one. 😂 

[+ GoingGood]

I realize the topic refers to NYC but it’s interesting to look back as to how many providers had orgasms. I have hired for both massage and escort in the past.   I really think I have had more on the massage side orgasm than the escorts.   I do hire for MT and HE with the Masseur so that may be a factor.  

[Trick]

23 minutes ago, The Big Guy said:

I realize the topic refers to NYC but it’s interesting to look back as to how many providers had orgasms. I have hired for both massage and escort in the past.   I really think I have had more on the massage side orgasm than the escorts.   I do hire for MT and HE with the Masseur so that may be a factor.  

When the masseur mentions HE, my follow up question is “Whose HE?”

[Whippoorwill]

A couple of years ago I had a masseur visiting Hawaii who came all over me just after I did. It was a nice surprise. I came back a couple of days later, and before the massage he apologized to me that he couldn't cum because he had another appointment after me. Fair enough. Last appointment of the day was the winner with him. 

[Guest]

1 hour ago, sfhairyman415 said:

For me, it is the opposite.  All the escorts cum (at least once depending on the length of the appointment) and very few of the massage providers don’t. 

All? Damn I’ve been hiring the wrong ones for 10 years. 😂 

[rvwnsd]

5 hours ago, GlamNYC said:

Where do I find providers who would do that for me? After 10 years of hiring, I finally should meet one. 😂 

A couple of things:

1. Ask them to cum.
2. Ask them to schedule you as their last appointment so they can come.

In other words, "ask."

On 1/13/2024 at 10:46 AM, GlamNYC said:

I’m a generous tipper, I think. Typically $100 for $300/hr rate. Then I repeat with the same providers, and still no orgasm from them. Starting to think I’m the problem. 😂 

Not sure why you would tip, generously or otherwise, if the escort didn't satisfy you.

 

 

[marylander1940]

11 hours ago, MmM said:

I've had some that orgasm, some will charge more for it. I prefer to see them cum, but I also understand thats not possible when they have to see other clients within a certain timeframe. 

Exactly, it's their business and most of the time they're hired by guys they wouldn't pick on Grindr. 

 

6 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

Depending on the provider, they may be saving up for the next customer.  Particularly when it'd guys just passing through for a few days. They may have three different guys they need to fuck that same day. If you specifically want them to nut, then it's just a matter of asking.

Exactly! Common sense!

Some days are busier than others.

[NYXboy]

I have found some providers cum and some do not- the bottoms tend to be cooler about cumming, as I think it may be easier for them to see more clients that day - but for tops it would be harder after cumming to perform again I imagine.   I have one boy I see who always does though.

 

 It is definitely worth having the discussion with them at the start of the session, but I would bear in mind that although the guys (good ones) are talented - they are not robots - no one can always guarantee that they can blow a load. 

[Trick]

For those who want the provider to know that they’re expected to cum, how do you word it so it doesn’t sound like you’re treating them like a robot but you really want them to cum.

[Walt]

7 minutes ago, Trick said:

For those who want the provider to know that they’re expected to cum, how do you word it so it doesn’t sound like you’re treating them like a robot but you really want them to cum.

"I don't really want to treat you like a performing robot, but I think it's very hot when a guy cums. Can you cum when we get together?"................................"Cool. Thanks!"

[Your Man in Arlington]

I've never requested it from a provider, but based on my notes 5 out of 13 (4 out of 8 NYC based) have done so and 2 (1 NYC) absolutely insisted they get to do so before we finished up.

Agree with the majority opinion above, ask if it's important to you. I've been increasingly more interested in it, so may do so myself in the future. 🤔

[+ FrankR]

1 hour ago, NYXboy said:

  I have one boy I see who always does though.

 

 It is definitely worth having the discussion with them at the start of the session, but I would bear in mind that although the guys (good ones) are talented - they are not robots - no one can always guarantee that they can blow a load. 

Is it somebody you can recommend? If so, please provide a link to a thread or profile… Of course there are no guarantees, but a recommendation may be a good start.

[Guest]

59 minutes ago, Your Man in Arlington said:

2 (1 NYC) absolutely insisted they get to do so before we finished up.

I wanna meet these hot providers someday! 🍆 🥛  😋

[Trick]

1 hour ago, Walt said:

"I don't really want to treat you like a performing robot, but I think it's very hot when a guy cums. Can you cum when we get together?"................................"Cool. Thanks!"

This is how I word  it.  
“I find it very satisfying to get a guy to cum. Are you cool with that?”