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Roger Smith

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Can anyone recommend a good NYC bottom provider who's into breeding?

I've had such a frustrating search for something that now seems like a straightforward cornerstone of modern gay sex.  I'm a top who loves to finish the way god intended.  But every provider I meet or talk to either:

  • Won't bottom
  • Will bottom but requires condoms or won't let you breed
  • Will let you breed but just lays there and waits for it to be over
  • Won't kiss

What ever happened to enthusiastic breeding bottoms?? 

So I figured I'd solicit recommendations from experts.  Would love to hear your experiences, here or by DM. 

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47 minutes ago, 30somethingsexybear said:

just looked at your modeling page, v3ry nice. Finishing inside you would prob feel like a warm hug for one's cock.

Please share the page. Would love to check it out. 🙂

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On 12/27/2023 at 9:33 AM, Roger Smith said:

Can anyone recommend a good NYC bottom provider who's into breeding?

I've had such a frustrating search for something that now seems like a straightforward cornerstone of modern gay sex.  I'm a top who loves to finish the way god intended.  But every provider I meet or talk to either:

  • Won't bottom
  • Will bottom but requires condoms or won't let you breed
  • Will let you breed but just lays there and waits for it to be over
  • Won't kiss

What ever happened to enthusiastic breeding bottoms?? 

So I figured I'd solicit recommendations from experts.  Would love to hear your experiences, here or by DM. 

I'm amazed about this subject being an in issue... isn't it implied that a top likes to cum inside a bottom just like most straight guys like to cum inside a pussy? 

In the era of PrEP when BB is no longer a Russian roulette some providers require a condom? 

Sorry you've had this problem and must be explicit about it with providers, considering you're in NYC I'm sure you'll find someone who fits the bill. 

"Will let you breed but just lays there and waits for it to be over" Isn't that what you and most tops want? 

Summoning our top in NYC @nycman 

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10 minutes ago, marylander1940 said:

I'm amazed about this subject being an in issue... isn't it implied that a top likes to cum inside a bottom? 

@nycman 

My primary issue may be that I’m spoiled and impatient?   LOL 

My long term regular bottom has been temporarily unavailable.  So I’m admittedly new to searching profiles. 

Naturally, if you search bottoms nobody comes up.  (Apparently even escorts have bottom shame?)  If you search versatile and then do a visual search based on attraction, come to find out, you hit a lot of walls!  
 

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1 minute ago, Roger Smith said:

My primary issue may be that I’m spoiled and impatient?   LOL 

My long term regular bottom has been temporarily unavailable.  So I’m admittedly new to searching profiles. 

Naturally, if you search bottoms nobody comes up.  (Apparently even escorts have bottom shame?)  If you search versatile and then do a visual search based on attraction, come to find out, you hit a lot of walls!  
 

I wanted to coin the term "bottom shame" before you Sir joined this site.

Search for "versatile", you're in NYC, everything is there!

Btw I'm still amazed something as obvious as "breeding" in this ear of PrEP and DoxyPep could be an issue instead of implied! 

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49 minutes ago, marylander1940 said:

"Will let you breed but just lays there and waits for it to be over" Isn't that what you and most tops want? 

Summoning our top in NYC @nycman 

Lmao….why do I suddenly feel like Dr. Bombay?

bewitched logo-classics GIF

To answer the question, this top does not want you to just "lay there" and "take it". I would classify that person as a "do me" or "lazy" bottom. I’m sure there are men into that, but not me. Scream, moan, howl, beg….do whatever works for you, but just let me know you’re taking my cock like a champ….and loving every minute of it. 

Yes, there is the occasional over the top "going for the Oscar" bottom performance that is ridiculous, but I’d take that any day over fucking a lifeless sack of potatoes. Sex is a two way street. You damn well better be giving it as well as you’re getting it…or you won’t be back. 

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10 minutes ago, nycman said:

Lmao….why do I suddenly feel like Dr. Bombay?

bewitched logo-classics GIF

To answer the question, this top does not want you to just "lay there" and "take it". I would classify that person as a "do me" or "lazy" bottom. I’m sure there are men into that, but not me. Scream, moan, howl, beg….do whatever works for you, but just let me know you’re taking my cock like a champ….and loving every minute of it. 

Yes, there is the occasional over the top "going for the Oscar" bottom performance that is ridiculous, but I’d take that any day over fucking a lifeless sack of potatoes. Sex is a two way street. You damn well better be giving it as well as you’re getting it…or you won’t be back. 

You missed the other part of the question: bottoms who don't allow breeding....

I was hoping you would name names.

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11 minutes ago, marylander1940 said:

You missed the other part of the question: bottoms who don't allow breeding....

I was hoping you would name names.

A gentleman never names names….grin

I grew up with condoms. For me they’re not really an issue.

If a guy wants to use condoms, I use condoms. No problem.

It’s sad that bottoms who want you to use a condom almost apologize in the same breath. You can even tell they’re surprised / relieved when I reply "no problem". Call me old fashioned, but I can’t imagine trying to coerce someone into barebacking. 

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1 hour ago, marylander1940 said:

I'm amazed about this subject being an in issue... isn't it implied that a top likes to cum inside a bottom just like most straight guys like to cum inside a pussy? 

In the era of PrEP when BB is no longer a Russian roulette some providers require a condom? 

There's more out there than just HIV. Some guys still like to be careful or at least selective about who breeds them. Getting other STIs can be expensive. They may need to take time off or they could get a bad rep and lose repeat customers if there's a perception of them giving a client an STI. 

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Unfortunate luck is all I can attribute the initial poster's frustration. It does seem to me in 2023 that the tops that insist on using a condom are like old people in grocery checkout lines breaking out a personal check to write - wrong - and start over. It's scarce. For so many guys, the hurry of tearing a package and worrying about putting it on backwards is just a figurative boner kill. 

For me, I DO appreciate people like Zack in Las Vegas from Rent Masseur who spell it out. No condom, no sex. They're looking out for themselves, and there's nothing wrong with that.

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