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Not sure if this is a topic that's been covered here or not, but here goes. When hiring a pro bottom, what are the expectations around if and when you can expect them to cum? I know that that typically in a gay anal sex situation, both parties tend to make an effort to keep the bottom from cumming until very near the end of the experience. The idea being that you're minimizing the time that the bottom continues to get fucked after having cum, because that can be physically challenging. My question is this: when hiring a paid bottom, theoretically a professional bottom, does that same expectation hold? I can't be alone among tops in this. Some of us are into cum play. Love to fuck a load out of a bottom. Enjoy his his load, share it with him, get us both messy with it. Then take my time in getting myself where I need to get off and breed him. All without worrying if he's okay and if I'm somehow transgressing. Is this a realistic expectation of a pro bottom? Any NYC guys able to recommend specific providers whose skill set includes this kind of sex?

https://rent.men/TristanCarter Anyone try this guy yet? He seems new on the scene, and I'm always looking for NYC bottoms. The photo on the transparent chair is the one that hooked me. Makes me want to explore his... spirit. Great cock. Great ass. Seems to have a sexy attitude? Surely someone's tried...

You can't go wrong with DznNYC. I'm far from a first timer, but... Kind, patient, sexy, and far more vers than his profile makes it appear. rent.men/DznNYC

Of course, baby! You deserve it. I think a lot of guys don’t understand how challenging it is to be a bottom for hire. A lot of us tops who hire come with limitations. We can’t do every position. We’re limited in what cadences or positions or intensities get us off. Some of us - even if very hung - have trouble staying hard. Topping is hard as you age! Some of us hire because we don’t necessarily have to capacity to think of more than getting ourselves off. So it can be challenging for us when we’re trying to top a fickle bottom. It’s one of reasons we seek out professionals! So it can be very very frustrating when you book a bottom who can’t deliver. I can’t do certain shapes or sizes. I can only do this position. You have to do it slower. You have to come from that direction. So when you meet someone like Blake who can do it your way and accommodate your sexual quirks with ease, you want to lift him up! Definitely one of my top three bottoms in NYC.

YES! He looks generally 20’s. Could pass for 21. Could pass for 30. And he is exactly as hot as his photos, though I find him hotter in person because he looks more like a human than like a model. Genuinely mystified that someone could think differently. His rate is between him and the tops who hire him so ask him directly!

Not sure what the sour grapes were here with this provider. Definitely contradicts my experience with him, which is top notch. I've been seeing Blake regularly since the summertime, and he's on par with my favorite bottoms in NYC. Aesthetically he's top of the heap. He absolutely looks like the photos on his profile. As a bottom, he's very generous with his body, inside and out. Very accommodating. Very game to experiment. Very connective. Anatomically gifted as a bottom, in a way best suited to explain over DM. I wish I could understand what goes wrong in these interactions where genuinely stellar providers get slammed here.

You totally earned the search bar lecture, however, they could also just answer your question. It doesn't get much better than Nick Halden. 10/10 Top tier, true professional. Very hot experience.

I feel exactly the same way about @DznNYC Sounds like you and I would be competing for his time, my friend!

So you're saying... Man up and tell him my perversions and see if they match?

I've had some lapsed communications with BiSam. I'm a curious kinkster, but I was never quite able to discern what's on the menu with him. And honestly, talking about kink with a provider is challenging for me. Can anyone speak in a specific way as to what's actually on the menu with him? DM's welcome if it's too much to put in the thread.

It really depends what you're looking for! This guy is my go-to bottom in NYC. He's a terrific bottom, very very connected, very generous with his body. https://rent.men/DznNYC But he's definitely a man. If you're more boy-oriented than man-oriented, Bruiser is also a really good choice: https://rent.men/goodboybruiser He's a very committed bottom. And tiny! So he's easy to toss around. And top notch oral investment.

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I feel like it’s worth securing your spot and a rate sooner than later.

So I don't hire tops that much anymore, but this thread inspired me. I just had a fully TRANSCENDENT experience with Gentleman_Justin. We know RentMen is full of anatomically gifted tops. Justin is certainly that, and then some. And we know tops with STAMINA aren't necessarily rare on RentMen. Justin is that and then some too. But damn... It's truly rare to find an intuitive connective top who's willing to take you on a RIDE. A dynamic ride. It's been a LONG time since I've finished a session with a top thinking about when I can book him again. A true human experience. Worth every penny and then some. Worth noting: my own selfishness almost prevented me from chiming in here. Sometimes when a new escort becomes suddenly popular, his rates go up; his availability becomes scarce. But I couldn't not recognize this true talent. This guy MAY have restored my faith in hiring tops.

There's a wealth of S&M Dom tops available on RM, but can anyone recommend submissives? Guys who are willing to explore bondage, spanking, WS in an S&M context? If anyone has provider experiences they're willing to share, I'm in the market.

What exactly is an "open house?" I have chatted with this provider, but I wasn't invited to any open house! LOL

How do you know this? By reputation?

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I'm a fan of him. He's a working fashion and body model in NYC, and I for sure recognized him from the socials. But speaking with him, seems that he's condom only. I completely respect his commitment to that. But in the age of prep and doxy pep, it's just not what I'm looking to pay for.

Private only! Not interested in sharing.

Can anyone recommend providers willing to play on camera? Nothing crazy. Just sometimes very hot to play with a camera in hand and enjoy after the fact. Not looking to publish anything. Just for my own very very private personal library. Only providers who are comfortable consenting to this kind of thing. Feel free to reply over DM if you think the provider might not be comfortable called out in the forum.

I second this recommendation! It's a very penetrating tongue!

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Valid clarification! Yes, saliva is definitely the ideal alternative to store bought lubricant. It’s also excellent because it encourages the bottom to periodically pause to return to oral service. A favorite act for confident bottoms.