Archangel Posted August 2, 2023 Share Posted August 2, 2023 Sorry if this is the wrong forum…Feel free to relocate it! I have a regular who’s spooked me. We were discussing plans for January at the cabin. All normal. I was going to book his flight yesterday but then he said he wanted to wait because he had a fight with his boyfriend and wants to make sure it’s okay before booking. Well, I don’t want to pay the flight and Mr. Boyfriend decides down Mr. Escort isn’t going…I’m torn if I should trust him if he says his BF is good with it that it’s good or if I should trust my anxiety – something that never really works out… So…Operation Second Option… Can anyone recommend anyone reasonably priced for a BFE for three nights who can be “dominant” but not get carried away? Like assertive? Also not much older than like 35…Someone who can hold a conversation but isn’t super needy as far as attention. Extra points if he’s twinky or a muscle guy… AngusStevensxxx 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted August 2, 2023 Share Posted August 2, 2023 3 minutes ago, Archangel said: Sorry if this is the wrong forum…Feel free to relocate it! I have a regular who’s spooked me. We were discussing plans for January at the cabin. All normal. I was going to book his flight yesterday but then he said he wanted to wait because he had a fight with his boyfriend and wants to make sure it’s okay before booking. Well, I don’t want to pay the flight and Mr. Boyfriend decides down Mr. Escort isn’t going…I’m torn if I should trust him if he says his BF is good with it that it’s good or if I should trust my anxiety – something that never really works out… So…Operation Second Option… Can anyone recommend anyone reasonably priced for a BFE for three nights who can be “dominant” but not get carried away? Like assertive? Also not much older than like 35…Someone who can hold a conversation but isn’t super needy as far as attention. Extra points if he’s twinky or a muscle guy… I smell drama. Move on! Have you booked a trip for him before or do you usually just hire him for 1 hour appointment? Does he ask permission from his BF to see you for 1 hour or that only applies to weekends with clients? His BF should know clients like you and others make possible their lifestyle. What's your budget? Where's the "cabin"? Maybe we can tell you someone who won't need to fly and will just drive or take the train to the "cabin". Danny-Darko and Wanderoz 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Archangel Posted August 2, 2023 Author Share Posted August 2, 2023 (edited) We’ve done multiple days before. This is a different boyfriend. Cabin is in the Poconos. Budget is somewhat fluid, but needs to be reasonable. It’s not a “cabin.” It’s a bona fide cabin. Edited August 2, 2023 by Archangel Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jeezifonly Posted August 2, 2023 Share Posted August 2, 2023 You’re both a known, paying client, and a homeowner who decides which guests are welcome. If I were in the position you’re in, I’d say This Archangel, thomas, Danny-Darko and 1 other 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Archangel Posted August 2, 2023 Author Share Posted August 2, 2023 I always feel obligated with guys I’ve seen before if I engage them again. You’re right, of course. I have no obligation. He probably doesn’t feel any. Danny-Darko 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Archangel Posted August 2, 2023 Author Share Posted August 2, 2023 I’m surprised there are no recs! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Danny-Darko Posted August 2, 2023 Share Posted August 2, 2023 43 minutes ago, Archangel said: I’m surprised there are no recs! I haven't hired him but he's on my saved profile list to possibly try one day. Maybe you might like him? FrenchThick - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in New York City, NY | RentMen RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in New York City, NY - FrenchThick: French Fun ChasingGirth and marylander1940 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blck37 Posted August 2, 2023 Share Posted August 2, 2023 Spending 3 nights with someone you have never met before (no past sexual engagement) and has no rapport....yeah sounds like a great plan in the brewing. Personally wouldnt do it....its 3 nights with a total stranger in a cabin..... Though i wonder, whats your plan if the provider somehow not met your expectation on day 1? What would you do? Ask him to leave and fly another in a substitute? Danny-Darko, lanyc, BonVivant and 1 other 1 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Archangel Posted August 2, 2023 Author Share Posted August 2, 2023 1 hour ago, blck37 said: Spending 3 nights with someone you have never met before (no past sexual engagement) and has no rapport....yeah sounds like a great plan in the brewing. Personally wouldnt do it....its 3 nights with a total stranger in a cabin..... Though i wonder, whats your plan if the provider somehow not met your expectation on day 1? What would you do? Ask him to leave and fly another in a substitute? I’ve done it often. In fact, my worst experience of extended time with a guy was someone I’d seen for much shorter durations over several years. After that trip, I decided never again although shorter visits had been good. Sometimes new blood is more fun too. The novelty etc. I’m not worried about the time. I wasn’t asking for suggestions on how long to make my stay with the guy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Archangel Posted August 2, 2023 Author Share Posted August 2, 2023 @Danny-Darko, I usually don’t reach out to guys who don’t post a face picture. Have you communicated with him at all? From the profile writeup it’s nice to see he doesn’t seem like a troglodyte. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Archangel Posted August 4, 2023 Author Share Posted August 4, 2023 Happy to report that I was able to secure a booking because of this thread. I decided to trust my gut and go with someone other than Mr. Drama. Thanks! MscleLovr 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wolfer Posted August 4, 2023 Share Posted August 4, 2023 (edited) 46 minutes ago, Archangel said: Happy to report that I was able to secure a booking because of this thread. I decided to trust my gut and go with someone other than Mr. Drama. Thanks! Who did you end up booking? Edited August 4, 2023 by Wolfer Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ azdr0710 Posted August 4, 2023 Share Posted August 4, 2023 I'm still wondering what's the difference between a "cabin" and a bona fide cabin....... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Coolwave35 Posted August 4, 2023 Share Posted August 4, 2023 I hired this dude for a 3 day weekend in Mexico after talking for about a week and never meeting and he was incredible. Sometimes it just works. newdad, + azdr0710, HoseMaster and 2 others 2 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
newdad Posted August 4, 2023 Share Posted August 4, 2023 12 minutes ago, Coolwave35 said: I hired this dude for a 3 day weekend in Mexico after talking for about a week and never meeting and he was incredible. Sometimes it just works. Any pics of the chest and abs? 😃 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Coolwave35 Posted August 4, 2023 Share Posted August 4, 2023 11 minutes ago, newdad said: Any pics of the chest and abs? 😃 Yah but they all include face and he asked me not to post the face. h Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
newdad Posted August 4, 2023 Share Posted August 4, 2023 (edited) 29 minutes ago, Coolwave35 said: Yah but they all include face and he asked me not to post the face. h Can you black it out by using one an app or something? KInd of like this below. No biggie if it's too much work. We understand. Edited August 4, 2023 by newdad Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MscleLovr Posted August 4, 2023 Share Posted August 4, 2023 4 hours ago, Archangel said: I decided to trust my gut and go with someone other than Mr. Drama. Good for you @Archangel I have always trusted my instincts. IME when there’s hesitancy or drama about a future trip, it means the escort isn’t committed; problems can turn into last-minute schedule changes, and that can prove expensive. Archangel and marylander1940 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Coolwave35 Posted August 4, 2023 Share Posted August 4, 2023 (edited) 10 hours ago, newdad said: Can you black it out by using one an app or something? KInd of like this below. No biggie if it's too much work. We understand. Sure. Edited August 4, 2023 by Coolwave35 newdad, 56harrisond and HoseMaster 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
newdad Posted August 4, 2023 Share Posted August 4, 2023 2 hours ago, Coolwave35 said: Sure. Wow. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Archangel Posted August 4, 2023 Author Share Posted August 4, 2023 11 hours ago, azdr0710 said: I'm still wondering what's the difference between a "cabin" and a bona fide cabin....... @marylander1940 was the first to say “cabin.” My mind rushed to a Criminal Minds episode “cabin.” 😂 It’s just an air b&b cabin. Maybe Marylander can tell us why he used scare quotes 🤷🏼♂️ marylander1940 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Archangel Posted August 4, 2023 Author Share Posted August 4, 2023 7 hours ago, MscleLovr said: Good for you @Archangel I have always trusted my instincts. IME when there’s hesitancy or drama about a future trip, it means the escort isn’t committed; problems can turn into last-minute schedule changes, and that can prove expensive. I’m going to be curious if he contacts me back… Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted August 4, 2023 Share Posted August 4, 2023 2 minutes ago, Archangel said: @marylander1940 was the first to say “cabin.” My mind rushed to a Criminal Minds episode “cabin.” 😂 It’s just an air b&b cabin. Maybe Marylander can tell us why he used scare quotes 🤷🏼♂️ It was in my intention to bring that to your mind! I hope everything works out fine! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BonVivant Posted August 4, 2023 Share Posted August 4, 2023 On 8/1/2023 at 11:08 PM, Archangel said: Sorry if this is the wrong forum…Feel free to relocate it! I have a regular who’s spooked me. We were discussing plans for January at the cabin. All normal. I was going to book his flight yesterday but then he said he wanted to wait because he had a fight with his boyfriend and wants to make sure it’s okay before booking. Well, I don’t want to pay the flight and Mr. Boyfriend decides down Mr. Escort isn’t going…I’m torn if I should trust him if he says his BF is good with it that it’s good or if I should trust my anxiety – something that never really works out… So…Operation Second Option… Can anyone recommend anyone reasonably priced for a BFE for three nights who can be “dominant” but not get carried away? Like assertive? Also not much older than like 35…Someone who can hold a conversation but isn’t super needy as far as attention. Extra points if he’s twinky or a muscle guy… All it means is that the Escort has a private life and a partner and that is his priority. You are business. He’ll see if he can make your dates or not. So what’s the big deal? If he can’t make your dates, hire someone else. 🤷🏽♂️ You freaking out means you have issues with the Escort. Are you in love….? Archangel and Walt 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Archangel Posted August 4, 2023 Author Share Posted August 4, 2023 1 hour ago, BonVivant said: All it means is that the Escort has a private life and a partner and that is his priority. You are business. He’ll see if he can make your dates or not. So what’s the big deal? If he can’t make your dates, hire someone else. 🤷🏽♂️ You freaking out means you have issues with the Escort. Are you in love….? + Coolwave35 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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