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On 5/19/2023 at 6:52 PM, tassojunior said:

gotta say, following Colin Simpson's been a hoot this year with his fights with wife. Now that they're back he's deleting several but he kept me on one (he'll be back). It got viciously worse for four days then they made up next day. Of course that was April.....

 

 

Colin is one of my big crush. Definitely would love to have a taste :D

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I'm more concerned that if Meta can easily match folks up and they (and google) freely give info to companies and governments through companies, how long before governments start coming after or banning from entrance to US clients as well as providers? CBP at airports is already banning through facial recognition men and women who have ever listed as providers as immoral. Why the guys are all putting their cellphone in front of their face on ads now or going headless. Imagine when one gets tagged as a client (ie: sexual predator in today's world.)

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I’m not great at the tech aspects of socmed apps. 

Some contacts with whom I interacted show up spontaneously and the profile pic clues you in, but are “private” with option to request to follow. They may have a gazillion contacts and that seems counterintuitive. I assume they are always tied up vetting follow requests. I assume that these slipped past the ether firewalls into my suggestion feed. If they are not private, of course I looky look.

Group email remains the most popular  (ersatz?) social media platform for most of my longstanding connections.

I once joined a WhatsApp group. Very unwieldy even for a very circumscribed science topic.

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A provider I used to see found me on insta.  I thought about it……. I don't think there is a right answer to this. It boils down to comfort level, and how comfortable you are mixing providers with your personal private life.  

I personally know someone who does allow several providers ( regulars , I suspect) who he likes / is comfortable  on his personal locked insta. And follows back of course.  Weirdly enough this same person allows his own siblings on, but not his own mother, who doesn't follow him  .   That arrangement works for him.  For what it's worth, my niece won't let my sister ( her mom) on her insta, so I won't judge people who do this.  Not everyone gets along with their own mother or wants to share.

For me, my insta is basically people i know personally, whom I have met, and have an active cordial relationship with. The number count is low as a result. I don't just let anyone in - less is more. I actually let only 1 escort on, one that I had a good relationship with and was retiring from the business, going to graduate school in Spain.

There is no right answer, you should do what is right for you. which is what I did. 

In this case deny. 

For those who have the energy, you can easily set up multiple accounts, one for the your regular life and another naughty one full of sexy men, and have all the hookers follow it.

Be sure to send me handle so I can check it out 😋

 

 

 

 

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Update  So the same former provider reached out to yesterday (again)  After a short chat decided to let him on.  I don't usually do that.

I thought about this yesterday - someone who I used to know well  ( ironically a member of this forum)  blocked me on Linkedin but kept me on insta for reasons known to him . It all boils down to preference / comfort level and what barriers / lines apply to you. For me, my insta is a very personal collection of things I have done, places, and the people on there are people I know / have met. That standard doesn't apply to everyone.

Anyway this Russian provider who I know well, messaged me asking for advice on jobs / recruitment. He works in tech and is very accomplished python coder, and  understands LLMs ( AI language models)   and is currently living in London, after being granted Asylum in the UK - as an objector ( not easy - can you believe the current Tory gov wanted to send him to Rwanda? ) .  

I put him in touch with some people i knew for non escort work, and he just told me he's going to for his first interview at a start up next week, at an AI startup, thanks for my intro. 

I think his all boils down to individual circumstance - no right or wrong answer

 

 

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On 5/29/2023 at 11:16 AM, tassojunior said:

I'm more concerned that if Meta can easily match folks up and they (and google) freely give info to companies and governments through companies, how long before governments start coming after or banning from entrance to US clients as well as providers? CBP at airports is already banning through facial recognition men and women who have ever listed as providers as immoral. Why the guys are all putting their cellphone in front of their face on ads now or going headless. Imagine when one gets tagged as a client (ie: sexual predator in today's world.)

I'm sure they (META and private companies) are doing that already!

It's a new world. 

No, they don't go after it because it's immoral because they're coming here to work illegally. Whether we like it or not, that's the law, and some might even think about overstaying their Visa waiver for years, I know a guy from Uruguay who's been doing that for over 20 years.

Btw we're still far from Chinese level of vigilance but the technology already exists! 

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I’ve had  a similar situation happen to me.  I met a well-liked escort in this forum and soon after, his real name, profession and the firm he works for showed up in website suggestions on my browser.  I’ve been planning to tell him about it but he hasn’t been back to my city since.

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My social media story is a masseur in my town that also has a RM profile as an escort, but in Facebook, he popped up as a minister of a local church. In the "works at" section of his profile he has "It's Complicated". I imagine it is. I wonder what he does when one of his clients is also a member of his congregation (just vague curiosity, at the end of the day, people can choose to do whatever they want).

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