What/ how much can I expect?

[+ glennnnn]

My fav escort is definitely an extrovert and a philosopher and I equally treasure our sexual and intellectual sharing. I cum away with a drained body but a full brain. He's my open window on the 21st century in general and current m/m culture in particular, a big brother I call often for advice. My life is richer because of Nate.  RENTMEN/LONGBEACH/YOURHUNK

 

PLEASE NOTE THIS HAPPINESS HAS SLOWLY DEVELOPED OVER ABOUT 6 ASSIGNATIONS  WITH HIM INCLUDING A  WEEKEND DATE.

Edited January 24, 2023 by glennnnn
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[Jamie21]

3 hours ago, keroscenefire said:

I think potentially think introverts could do very well at connecting with people one on one. I'm introverted myself as well and I'll hide in the corner of a large party but will have a great one-on-one conversation with 1-2 people all night. Introverts often are good at listening and making deeper connections. And I agree that many of my favorite escorts are ones a little more introverted. 

Me too. You’ll find me in the kitchen at large parties chatting to one or two people. Unless of course it’s a sex party, then I’m happy to be in the middle of the action and with an audience! I still don’t understand why that is but I’m happy to keep exploring it to understand it better 😂

[TokyoNewbie]

Thank you so much for so many comments.

 

I gave another try with the same provider and this time it was very hot. Thank you so much for your advices.

Maybe the biggest difference might be that at the first occasion we could not open the wine I brought because there was no opener, second time I brought a sparkling one, so no opener was necessary??? 

[carp86]

On 1/22/2023 at 5:24 AM, TokyoNewbie said:

Recently I had an opportunity to hire a provider, and after that I have been contemplating what we can expect from a professional provider….

 

He is really good looking, better than the photos in his rentmen profile, very responsive, not overrated etc. etc. also good conversationalist. He supplied what was expected, but I was kind of disappointed…. I felt like it was more like mere business transaction and my partner was trying to get to the goal as economically as possible.

Probably that is a right way as business, and also probably I was not his type…. But still I wished some qualities such as passion, horniness, lust etc. would be more present in our session, though I understand even for professionals, to pretend/act those would be not easy…

I wonder if I am to optimistic, naive or greedy…. If you would share your experiences/ ideas, I would be very grateful.

 

Yep, I can relate to this. While I am not looking for love in these encounters, sometimes you find a provider that make you FEEL desired. Even when it is just 'make believe' in the end, it makes the experience amazing and you keep wanting to hire again. As other have said, a lot of it boils down to the professionalism of a "true" escort who puts the client at the center and works to please them, making sure they are getting a good experience and leave with a smile in their faces. That's an art and skill not everyone on RM has, unfortunately, even for the same price range. Last year I passed through several meh experiences one after the other that made me question whether I was just wasting money finding a needle in a haystack. 

I am lucky enough to have found two such providers and even when they are far from me geographically, I try to hire them when they come my way or I happen to be in their town. I always feel great afterwards and the smile doesn't lie  
 

[+ glennnnn]

Yes, I have two wonderful gents that I try to see often. They each make me feel  very respected and treat me lovingly. I do worry that my fondness for them is too much for such ephemeral relationships. I don't know much about their lives really but the same can be said for most human interactions- shallow and transient.

 It's the getting  naked and fucking that makes fondness and liking feel like love. One may like the postman ,but you don't have  intimate knowledge of how his cum tastes or if he is cut or intàct, or is a bottom or a top. 

He may like you but saying good morning isn't like an open mouth kiss or a hand job. 

That info is for lovers to gather and repeated intimate relations may foster tender and confusing emotions that seem like the L word.

Does this mean I will stop hiring N or R? Don't be silly. I love them and they love me.      🥰

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[Jamie21]

1 hour ago, glennnnn said:

One may like the postman ,but you don't have  intimate knowledge of how his cum tastes or if he is cut or intàct, or is a bottom or a top. 

Hmmm… I liked one of my postmen, who would sometimes deliver more than letters. He always wore shorts, even when it was freezing…best calves I’ve ever seen. His cum tasted sweet, he was intact and was top. The Royal Mail was exemplary in those days. 

[pubic_assistance]

13 hours ago, TokyoNewbie said:

I gave another try with the same provider and this time it was very hot

Most providers will value a potential regular customer over a one-off.

Thus opening the door to a more natural human interaction, and possibly affection.

Champagne is nice too. 🍾

[Thelatin]

Interesting topic.  My regular has become more of a “boy friend” experience, always meals and other activities, we talk everyday.

The person I get a massage from though…good grief.  Talk about making me feel wanted.  Nasty. 

[Trick]

I made an instant connection with my most recent hire, DavisTopBrazil. What stood out during my time with him was that he was enjoying it. Whether he was acting or not, I couldn’t tell.  Too bad he is not local so I just have wait for the next time he visits.  As someone has posted, this provider belongs to the “2 out of 10” that give such “performance.”

One would be surprised that I had this kind of experience with Cade Maddox for $165 when he was just starting out.  He started the session saying with his hot deep voice, “I’m here to take care of you, to make sure you are happy.” He sure did.

[D21howie]

On 1/24/2023 at 10:53 AM, glennnnn said:

My fav escort is definitely an extrovert and a philosopher and I equally treasure our sexual and intellectual sharing. I cum away with a drained body but a full brain. He's my open window on the 21st century in general and current m/m culture in particular, a big brother I call often for advice. My life is richer because of Nate.  RENTMEN/LONGBEACH/YOURHUNK

 

PLEASE NOTE THIS HAPPINESS HAS SLOWLY DEVELOPED OVER ABOUT 6 ASSIGNATIONS  WITH HIM INCLUDING A  WEEKEND DATE.

I have been seeing him for quite a few years now.  Very well educated.  Anytime I have an event I call him to see his availability and he gets back to me in a timely fashion.

[BtmBearDad]

I don’t think your expectations are too high, but as others have noted, much of what you’re looking for will come down to the provider. In this hobby, not all cats are grey in the dark. 

Some gents are able to provide that intimacy right from the get go, others will need a few engagements to get there, and there are those where it will always feel transactional regardless of number of engagements. Depending on a client’s needs/wants/desires, all three can work - whether you want the one off intimacy, the build up with someone who knows you, or the down n’ dirty physical act - there’s a pot for every lid. 

I would echo the the suggestions made about doing research on providers. Read their profiles, use a VPN to read their reviews, come here and search their name or post a 411 query for feedback. Or post a general query that you’re an “X” looking for a “Y” in “Z” city who can provide an intimate encounter, etc..

The type of providers you are looking for do exist -  you may have to kiss a few frogs along the way, but you’ll find one that ticks your boxes eventually! Just always be upfront with any potential provider about what you’re looking for, activities you wish to engage in, your expectations. 

Good luck! 👍🏻
BBD 

[+ newatthis]

1 hour ago, BtmBearDad said:

you may have to kiss a few frogs along the way, but you’ll find one that ticks your boxes eventually

the image of a frog ticking a box....

[pubic_assistance]

8 minutes ago, newatthis said:

the image of a frog ticking a box....