Have you ever rejected someone because he was too big?

[BasketBaller]

On 11/1/2022 at 6:23 AM, LoveAustinCF said:

How big are we talking about? Is he bigger than someone like Sir Peter?
 

Well, he's cut, but... 

[arnie]

It depends on the situation.  If you are into the guy and not just his cock, both of you make it work .  You may not be able to do all the things you  night want to so you accommodate.  If you are just there for the sex, the activities become paramount and if you know you have issues then you choose accordingly.   If the guy is too big or too small, then you really were not into him that much.  

When I am hiring I know my limitations and desired activities and I hire accordingly, and avoid guys that are too big, either too fat or long.  

[+ Charlie]

When I first saw this topic, I wasn't thinking in terms of cocks but of overall size. There was a guy I used to see in a NYC leather bar who was huge, a foot taller than I was and probably more than a hundred pounds heavier. I thought he was very attractive, and one night he was standing behind me in the line for the john. I suddenly realized he was feeling my ass. I knew that cock size was not necessarily related to overall size, but it was probable that he was much bigger than anyone I had ever had, and I wasn't particularly fond of getting fucked anyway. I turned my head and smiled, and asked what he was interested in. He growled, "I want to take you home, throw you in the sling, and fuck the shit out of you." I realized that it would probably turn out to be literally true, so I flashed an even bigger smile and replied, "Thanks for the offer, but I'm only here to drink tonight" BIG LIE! Whenever I saw him again in the bar, I always smiled but avoided getting into a conversation with him.

[Whippoorwill]

Years ago there was an extremely well-endowed guy who lived at the Y and we would jack each other off in the showers and steam room etc. Then we graduated to going back to his room where he immediately made moves to fuck me. I said, "You're not going to fuck me with that huge thing." He replied, "It's the only thing I've got." Well, suffice it to say what I thought was "too big" wasn't, and I learned to love that thing many times over. Fast forward to last year, I was with a super-endowed masseur/escort who was also visiting Hawaii and I quickly turned the massage into sex. After playing around for a while he said "How would you like to get fucked?" I said I would love it, but didn't think I could take it...that I had never been fucked by such a huge cock. We tried and I did...made my whole body feel "full." I was sore but walking on clouds for days, and if we ever end up in the same city again, I'll go for seconds. So no, there is no such thing as "too big." 

[misterhumphries]

On 10/16/2022 at 3:08 PM, Unicorn said:

At a recent dinner party, the subject came up about dating deaf men, and one man said "I had to stop seeing this deaf guy because he was too big for me. He got really mad because he thought it was because he was deaf. But it really was because he was too big. It was hurting me." I'd never heard of this as a reason to stop seeing a man before. Has this ever happened to any of you?

Never. Them big ones are fun to play with. It won't get near my ass but I can still do a lot so it's not ignored. But I draw the line at dicks that are too small. I met a man with micro-penis and way too much pubic hair. I felt so shallow but I had to dump him.

[samhexum]

Jersey Shore boardwalk 'crooked' carny's balls were too big: AG

unusual complaint, and I don't see how it's anyone else's business

[Demmorick]

On 10/16/2022 at 8:40 PM, jeezifonly said:

Women are probably more sensitive to oversized equipment- especially length, where pounding against the Cervix is painful.
The truth for anal sex, is that with preparation, time, patience, adequate foreplay, lubricant and a psychological readiness (hunger) on the part of the bottom, the rectum and large intestine can accommodate quite a bit of length and girth, anatomically speaking. A guy who knows he’s xlarge and shoves it in to the balls on the first go is a person who’s irresponsible and uncaring. But rejection for size need not be a thing if there’s a lot of other good chemistry. Bottoms: Get acquainted with your hole using a dildo that seems just a little more than the biggest real cock you’ve enjoyed. Challenges are for meeting. 💜

Training in all forms help😏 

 

 

[jeezifonly]

I’m just recalling a friend who had found his size limits early on as A Gay. 

“oh, honey, the best I could do with one that big, is maybe pat it and blow kisses at it!”

🤣🤣🤣

[BtmBearDad]

50 minutes ago, dudecali808 said:

Some guys know how to use it, some don't

I would concur with this statement! It’s not the size of the ship, it all comes down to the skill of the captain! 😉

Reading this thread, I recall three times this was an issue: 

1.) A still fairly new, young gayling fresh out of college, working the white collar gig, and out for a Thursday Happy Hour with office mates. One of them has some of his mates meet us, spotted one hot fellow, and as soon as our eyes locked we both knew lol Fast forward, later that evening we’re back at his walk up apt on Reade St (which would probably fetch north of $2M today), on the couch, jackets, ties, shirts being discarded when my hand went south on him just as his did on me. I felt it. It was, without exaggeration absolutely huge both in length and girth! I believe I must have tensed up at the realisation of what was on offer, the gent just pulled me in, and whispered in my ear “don’t worry, just think of it as a handle to get me in position for you” This hot guy who would make a size queen faint was in fact a dedicated bottom. No need to decline, but I wonder how things would have gone had he been vers or a top 😳

2.) Several years later, party at a friend’s, met a handsome guy, we’re chatting, the usual flirting going on, then he ups the ante by grabbing my hand, placing it right on his member, as he leans in to whisper in my ear to tell me he’s been hard and leaking since we started talking, and he wants to give me what I was feeling, and make me cum hands free while he’s in me. My virgin ears! He was about 5’8”-5’9” with most of it between his legs. I demurred that night, but exchanged numbers. He did keep after me, telling me how he knows what he’s doing, how I hadn’t really been ducked, how much better it is with a big dick, etc.. I did eventually acquiesce, and he was quite skilled, and patient, and so began a mutually beneficial FWB arrangement for us. 

3.) November before Covid, I was down in FL for some RnR. I was heading to Europe for work shortly, and staying thru the holidays to see family, and wanted some colour before I went. Anyone, an IG friend saw a post of mine, got in touch (he lives where I was) and we met for drinks. Honestly, I thought it was *just drinks* - naive me I suppose 😂 But this hottie had other plans. I actually would have been DTF as he ticked most of my boxes, but I had dinner plans that night. In an attempt I suppose to pique and keep my interest, IG hottie did send me a few intimate pics later that night. Knowing him from IG, I’d never seen him in anything less than a bathing suit, so I was unprepared for the behemoth he displayed. Definitely outside my wheelhouse. I suppose I shouldn’t have been so shocked, he is Brazilian and as a rule those gents seem to be overly blessed 😝 I did decline, telling him he was outside my range of experience. He still keeps in touch, promising me a good time, so who knows - maybe I’ll be swayed! 
 

BBD 

[+ ThroatCummer]

I turned 45 years old this past year and have mostly always been a total top my entire life since I came out when I was 21-22 years old. The few times I got fucked, it was uncomfortable and just not my thing -- and they weren't even especially big.

Truthfully, I can't place my finger on the exact moment about one year ago when I was sitting at my computer and discovered Rent.men for the first time. Although I recall being in the mindset of "If you're gonna pay for this, get exactly what you want..."

The funny part is that position (top or bottom) and cock size never was part of my equation at the time. My focus was mainly on other things such as a bodybuilder-type body, a real masculine presence, natural charisma that isn't "work", having physical features like a short beard or a sandpaper-ish 5'oclock shadow, a few "marks on the body" (e.g., not perfectly smooth skin) and face wrinkles (so let's say over 35 yo), among at least a dozen other things. 

I narrowed my list down from everyone in the USA to just a half dozen guys. Three of the six were semi-local (BOS/NYC/PHL/DC), so I didn't have to travel far for them so they were all on the table for hiring. Of the three, one of them was a total top and a pretty large cock. At least much larger than anything I had let near my hole in the prior 23-24 years. I met with all three and wound up topping the other two, but when I met this last guy, his presence in person was so damned comfortable that I almost immediately confessed to not having genuinely had a good fuck in my life.

That was ALL he needed to hear. 

Fast forward about nine months to today, and I can still replay the entire thing in my head moment by moment. It was some of the hottest sex I have had in my life. He was so skilled he made me freaking love it. There wasn't a single moment where I felt uncomfortable or like it was too big. I single-handedly witnessed what a truly amazing top someone can be when they know what they're doing. 

I'm thankful he and I don't live in the same city because otherwise I would be filing for bankruptcy at the moment. LOL. 

Edited February 19, 2023 by ThroatCummer

[CuriousByNature]

7 hours ago, ThroatCummer said:

I turned 45 years old this past year and have mostly always been a total top my entire life since I came out when I was 21-22 years old. The few times I got fucked, it was uncomfortable and just not my thing -- and they weren't even especially big.

Truthfully, I can't place my finger on the exact moment about one year ago when I was sitting at my computer and discovered Rent.men for the first time. Although I recall being in the mindset of "If you're gonna pay for this, get exactly what you want..."

The funny part is that position (top or bottom) and cock size never was part of my equation at the time. My focus was mainly on other things such as a bodybuilder-type body, a real masculine presence, natural charisma that isn't "work", having physical features like a short beard or a sandpaper-ish 5'oclock shadow, a few "marks on the body" (e.g., not perfectly smooth skin) and face wrinkles (so let's say over 35 yo), among at least a dozen other things. 

I narrowed my list down from everyone in the USA to just a half dozen guys. Three of the six were semi-local (BOS/NYC/PHL/DC), so I didn't have to travel far for them so they were all on the table for hiring. Of the three, one of them was a total top and a pretty large cock. At least much larger than anything I had let near my hole in the prior 23-24 years. I met with all three and wound up topping the other two, but when I met this last guy, his presence in person was so damned comfortable that I almost immediately confessed to not having genuinely had a good fuck in my life.

That was ALL he needed to hear. 

Fast forward about nine months to today, and I can still replay the entire thing in my head moment by moment. It was some of the hottest sex I have had in my life. He was so skilled he made me freaking love it. There wasn't a single moment where I felt uncomfortable or like it was too big. I single-handedly witnessed what a truly amazing top someone can be when they know what they're doing. 

I'm thankful he and I don't live in the same city because otherwise I would be filing for bankruptcy at the moment. LOL. 

Are you willing to divulge who this individual is... even by PM?  Curious minds would like to know...

[MassageDrew]

I dated a guy many years back and he was hung, about 8.5 maybe 9. I wouldn't say I rejected him because of it but I was reluctant to get intimate with him because I was intimidated and I kept thinking of how painful it might be being with someone that size. Our relationship didn't last long so we never got around to doing it lol. I haven't met anyone close to his size since so I cannot even imagine what it would feel like. I am perfectly happy, though, being with someone not quite as endowed.

[starman05]

I was messing around with a guy one time and I didn’t think I wanted to get fucked but I felt so safe and was so turned on and I trusted him and I said ok I’m ready! 

he chuckled, kissed me on the forehead, and said, ‘oh baby I’m not going to fuck you.’

looking back, he didn’t say why but I got the impression it was because he felt I couldn’t handle his size - huge! 

I let out a ‘oh, thank God!’ and we sent back to making out.

 

 

 

Edited February 23, 2023 by starman05
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[liubit]

My boyfriend has a gorgeous, very large and very thick dick. Although I can be an eager bottom, I have never been able to take him, so I top him instead. Thank God he is as versatile as I am….

[+ Italiano]

I was very recently with this guy whom I had an amazing time with. Supersexy, great body, amazing kisser, eager to please and BIG THICK cock.

https://rent.men/Xponential

The fucking attempt were difficult, eventually he was able to put it in and started to pump, but it was honestly more painful that pleasurable, even if the way he enjoyed doing it turned me on.

I was sore for almost a week...I would love to hire him again, but I am not sure if I would bottom again