Reaching orgasm faster

[CheckCar]

Any tips for those of us who take forever to reach orgasm and ejaculate?

I know drugs like Cialis help with erections, but any suggestions for aids that help achieve orgasm faster? I’m starting to feel guilty for how long my partners have to wait. 

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Stop thinking about Margaret Thatcher

[Rudynate]

I have just stopped worrying about it.  I can cum in no time when I'm beating off, but it takes me forever with a partner - even with my husband.  I still have a great time with guys, but I just don't orgasm or cum that much.   I don't expect providers to come either - so I'm easy to satisfy.

[CheckCar]

2 hours ago, Rudynate said:

I have just stopped worrying about it.  I can cum in no time when I'm beating off, but it takes me forever with a partner - even with my husband.  I still have a great time with guys, but I just don't orgasm or cum that much.   I don't expect providers to come either - so I'm easy to satisfy.

I’m the same—no trouble when solo, but takes me forever when with a partner. I was really hoping there might be a pill for that. 

[Rudynate]

May be PT-141

[Guest]

On 3/18/2022 at 8:55 AM, CheckCar said:

Any tips for those of us who take forever to reach orgasm and ejaculate?...

Well, you can experiment, but stimulation of the nipples causes a release of oxytocin, the "love hormone," and is a sexual stimulant for many. You can start with some light stimulation. Also, armpits produce pheromones which are sexual stimulants as well, so consider asking your sexual partners to avoid wearing underarm deodorants or anti-perspirants prior to sexual activity. When I ask my partner "Chris" if he might be in the mood for romance the next day, he knows it's my way of asking him not to put on deodorant in the morning. You have to go into this with an open mind.. 

[pubic_assistance]

There is no universal key to orgasm.

Excitement can be the thrill of connection and it can be the fear of strangulation.

Both positive and negative impulses can get you there

You just need to understand your turn ONS and be willing to share those with your partner.

[jeezifonly]

Just watched a Netflix doc on female sexual pleasure, and one of the points about the brain’s involvement in orgasm translates across gender. The brain is interpreting the physical sensations of the sexual touch and manipulation at the same time it’s interpreting all the other stuff that it does every minute to keep us alive and safe. The same way “dead puppies, dead puppies” is used as a deliberate boner- killer, any number of signals being regularly processed can accidentally interrupt the sequence we are used to that push us over the edge. It could be the vibration of a silenced phone across the room, a tingle or itch on your foot.
I think one of those interrupters can be the presence of a partner. Being aware of their rhythm as different from yours, are they having fun? or wondering if they are going to come along with you…It could be a subconscious thought about if you’re going to come or not, or sudden awareness that the edge has a curb, and you aren’t goin over it…  Ejaculation can be reflexive, achieved in men without our mental participation. It’s not necessarily pleasurable on its own, and orgasm can happen without shooting. 
Accelerator and brakes

Oh well, next time. 
 

[Harryinny]

As an uncut top, I seldom come when wearing a condom; without, it is a lengthy but amazing buildup, particularly with a bottom that likes the feel of an uncut cock. With handjobs I can go fast or for a long time.  

[+ Lucky]

1 hour ago, Harryinny said:

As an uncut top, I seldom come when wearing a condom; without, it is a lengthy but amazing buildup, particularly with a bottom that likes the feel of an uncut cock. With handjobs I can go fast or for a long time.  

Thank you for the update.

[Guest]

Yohimbine works.  It was recommended by my urologist.  But buyer beware - for me, it causes my heart to race for hours.  I experimented with removing some of the powder from the capsule, but imprecision is an issue.    In addition, some suppliers are known to lace it with caffeine without appropriate labels and that just magnifies the heart racing.  So, it works, but I don’t use it.  

[CheckCar]

On 4/16/2022 at 7:01 AM, BnaC said:

Yohimbine works.  It was recommended by my urologist.  But buyer beware - for me, it causes my heart to race for hours.  I experimented with removing some of the powder from the capsule, but imprecision is an issue.    In addition, some suppliers are known to lace it with caffeine without appropriate labels and that just magnifies the heart racing.  So, it works, but I don’t use it.  

Yikes. I take meds for heart rate issues, so anything that accelerates my heart rate is a no-go for me. Thanks for the heads-up.

[BuffaloKyle]

I wish I had this problem! When I top I really find it hard to last with most bottoms. I'm thicker than average so if a guy is tight it's a lot of pressure around my cock and gets me to blow. I used to hook up regularly with a guy who was into getting fisted. I found I could fuck him as long as he wanted then since I'd fuck him after fisting him and opening him up good. He was almost perfect, only thing that sucked for me was he was not into kissing. When I'm getting sucked or jerked off I usually am good at lasting until the guy wants me to blow. As long as he's not jerking my cock up and down like crazy.

[DannyVento]

If you are looking for answers to how to have the best orgasm for men https://blog.uberhorny.com/what-men-can-do-to-make-their-orgasms-even-better/ , you should be aware of all the sensitive spots in a man’s body. Being educated about the spots gives options to experiment comfortably. One such spot is the perineum which is also known as the taint. It is the area in between your anus and testes. Being a tiny space full of nerve endings makes it a tickling spot. Nevertheless, the tickle turns into something else when your taint is pressed when you are turned on. If you are masturbating, you can touch that area yourself. However, the best results occur when your partner touches the area like a soft massage while giving you a bj. 

Edited April 23, 2022 by DannyVento