What a nasty piece of work

[sjmuktop]

Just read through this profile:

https://www.sleepyboy.com/show_escort.php?id=34147&version=2

The utter contempt he feels for his clients and prospective clients just screams through every sentence. 

Edited September 15, 2021 by sjmuktop

[Quincy_7]

Physically, he's completely unattractive to me. Nothing compared to Grant, who is a London favourite of mine: https://www.sleepyboy.com/uk/london/escort/Britboygrant

 

[sjmuktop]

Just now, Quincy_7 said:

Physically, he's completely unattractive to me. Nothing compared to Grant, who is a London favourite of mine: https://www.sleepyboy.com/uk/london/escort/Britboygrant

 

I know Grant is very popular and has a good reputation, but he isn't my type personally. The only reason being that I am into darker guys and Latinos 😈

[Quincy_7]

6 minutes ago, sjmuktop said:

I know Grant is very popular and has a good reputation, but he isn't my type personally. The only reason being that I am into darker guys and Latinos 😈

There's always been a good number of Brazilians whenever I've been in town. Not sure if the pandemic has affected that.

[sjmuktop]

4 minutes ago, Quincy_7 said:

There's always been a good number of Brazilians whenever I've been in town. Not sure if the pandemic has affected that.

Nope, it hasn't been affected at all. They're all still here, though a few did go back to Brazil during the early days of the pandemic and first lockdown we had here.

I'd say around half or even more than half of all the gay male escorts working in London are from Brazil. 

 

[jtwalker]

oh yay, another thread bashing providers...

That'll convince more providers to join.

[Lazarus]

I can’t believe this waif expects people to believe he is straight! 

[lonely_john]

3 hours ago, sjmuktop said:

I know Grant is very popular and has a good reputation, but he isn't my type personally. The only reason being that I am into darker guys and Latinos 😈

It looks like we were separated at birth? But I respectfully disagree ... Grant looks HOT and I would love to try him out on my next visit to the UK. 😛

Edited September 15, 2021 by lonely_john

[+ Lucky]

I found his profile to be fascinating. It's a very informative piece of work.

He is clear that he is about the money. Who else specifies a taste for millionaires? 😄

[Pd1_jap]

16 hours ago, jtwalker said:

oh yay, another thread bashing providers...

That'll convince more providers to join.

Dude, chill. I don't really care if providers are on here. I want to know about client's experience. 

[gallahadesquire]

3 hours ago, Lucky said:

I found his profile to be fascinating. It's a very informative piece of work.

He is clear that he is about the money. Who else specifies a taste for millionaires? 😄

I always expected that they’d taste like chicken. 

[+ Lucky]

1 hour ago, Pd1_jap said:

Dude, chill. I don't really care if providers are on here. I want to know about client's experience. 

Some of us do care. To gratuitously take someone's profile and slam the guy here even when he is not been a topic of discussion is reprehensible, in my opinion. You could go through Rentmen and find lots of profiles that you don't like, but why bring them here when no one has discussed hiring the guy?

And to call a provider, or anyone for that matter, a "toxic piece of garbage" should get you banned.

[sjmuktop]

1 hour ago, Pd1_jap said:

Dude, chill. I don't really care if providers are on here. I want to know about client's experience. 

Escorts provide a service, just like many other self-employed and business people do. 

It's important that bad businesses, shoddy tradesmen or other people who provide bad service or appear to have attitude problems and treat their customers/potential customers with arrogance and contempt are exposed.  

@Jarrod_Uncutcomes on here complaining about clients and prospective clients who have treated him badly and wrong-footed him all the time (I say that with much love, Jarrod, because you have every right to do that) - so if it's okay for providers to do that on here, then it should be okay for us clients to do the reverse.

Edited September 15, 2021 by sjmuktop

[+ Lucky]

4 minutes ago, sjmuktop said:

Escorts provide a service, just like many other self-employed and business people do. 

It's important that bad businesses, shoddy tradesmen or other people who provide bad service or appear to have attitude problems and treat their customers/potential customers with arrogance and contempt are exposed.  

@Jarrod_Uncutcomes on here complaining about clients and prospective clients who have treated him badly and wrong-footed him all the time (I say that with much love, Jarrod, because you have every right to do that) - so if it's okay for providers to do that on here, then it should be okay for us clients to do the reverse.

The guy had no connection to this whatsoever. No one here was talking about hiring him, and neither were you. It was a gratuitous slam, which seems to be something you like to do.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

57 minutes ago, sjmuktop said:

@Jarrod_Uncutcomes on here complaining about clients and prospective clients who have treated him badly and wrong-footed him all the time (I say that with much love, Jarrod, because you have every right to do that) - so if it's okay for providers to do that on here, then it should be okay for us clients to do the reverse.

The main difference being that he paints in broad strokes and doesn't name-names.

 

When you namecheck an escort and provide a link, it's a whole different ball game.  

As you can see, it encouraged others to climb out from under their bridge and make much worse comments.

There's no place for this kind of teenage pile-on bullshit here. 

Being critical with cause is one thing.  Being an asshole is quite another.

Edited September 15, 2021 by Benjamin_Nicholas

[+ Coolwave35]

4 hours ago, Lucky said:

I found his profile to be fascinating. It's a very informative piece of work.

He is clear that he is about the money. Who else specifies a taste for millionaires? 😄

I admire his clarity actually. 

[sjmuktop]

11 minutes ago, Benjamin_Nicholas said:

When you namecheck an escort and provide a link, it's a whole different ball game

If it causes this particular escort to reconsider his nasty tone, arrogance and rudeness then it's a good ball game in my view.

Bad providers who provide a service (of any kind) to members of the public and/or those with a negative attitude towards their potential paying customers absolutely deserve to be exposed.

11 minutes ago, Benjamin_Nicholas said:

Being critical with cause is one thing.  Being an asshole is quite another.

You've not even bothered to read the post, have you? The cause of the criticism is in what contempt he has for potential clients of his. 

If you think bad providers should be free of criticism, that's fine. But I don't believe that's how things should be.

Edited September 15, 2021 by sjmuktop

[lonely_john]

1 hour ago, sjmuktop said:

Escorts provide a service, just like many other self-employed and business people do. 

It's important that bad businesses, shoddy tradesmen or other people who provide bad service or appear to have attitude problems and treat their customers/potential customers with arrogance and contempt are exposed.  

@Jarrod_Uncutcomes on here complaining about clients and prospective clients who have treated him badly and wrong-footed him all the time (I say that with much love, Jarrod, because you have every right to do that) - so if it's okay for providers to do that on here, then it should be okay for us clients to do the reverse.

I don't think a forum policy directed to allow revenge comments on this forum would favour its growth.

Edited September 15, 2021 by lonely_john

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

6 minutes ago, sjmuktop said:

If it causes this particular escort to reconsider his nasty tone, arrogance and rudeness then it's a good ball game in my view.

Bad providers who provide a service (of any kind) to members of the public and/or those with a negative attitude towards their potential paying customers absolutely deserve to be exposed.

You've not even bothered to read the post, have you? The cause of the criticism is in what contempt he has for potential clients of his. 

If you think bad providers should be free of criticism, that's fine. But I don't believe that's how things should be.

Of course I read the post.  Don't be daft.

I never excused his behavior.  I commented on yours (a bit), but mostly on others who made it personal and ugly, real quick.

We both agree that there are a lot of guys who aren't cut out to be escorts.  Let them figure it out.  The market will tell them and they'll be gone.

What I don't like is an anonymous dogpile, especially when said-escort isn't even here to defend himself or comment.

It's not what you say, but how you say it: From the sensationalistic headline alone, I knew this wouldn't go well.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

12 minutes ago, Coolwave35 said:

I admire his clarity actually. 

In an odd way, I do too.  It's not exactly how I'd suggest he package it.

There's no gray area, that's for sure.

 

[Pd1_jap]

32 minutes ago, Lucky said:

The guy had no connection to this whatsoever. No one here was talking about hiring him, and neither were you. It was a gratuitous slam, which seems to be something you like to do.

Who made you arbiter of acceptable commentary in this message board? If you want to be that person why are you wasting time here? There are billions of neo Nazi discussions happening all over the internet. Please take your critical eye for justice to those places. You are needed there. 

Me and my fellows in this thread are here to commiserate on the crazy dealings we have to put up with just to talk to these guys. It also sounds like OP wants a sounding board to see if anyone else thinks the ad is unreasonable.

Sorry if you are offended but offense does not equal injustice. 

[+ azdr0710]

jeez, laugh at it and move on to the next profile if you don't like one.....(first world problems?)........ I don't need to "commiserate" with other forum members about "crazy" profiles.......I eliminate them right then!.......everybody has a story!

[Guest]

This thread is getting toxic so I thought we needed a pallet cleanse...

[sjmuktop]

4 minutes ago, Woofiecmh said:

This thread is getting toxic so I thought we needed a pallet cleanse...

Does his tattoo say; 'Death Before Dishonor' ?

[Guest]

Just now, sjmuktop said:

Does his tattoo say; 'Death Before Dishonor' ?

Apparently it does, he's an ex marine but I didn't notice because I was staring at his nipples