Clients - have you ever cut a session very short....

[Smurof]

because the goods advertised were fantasy and not reality, be it body or penis?

 

I've read plenty of stories of guys who simply walked away when the door was answered because it was not at all the person in the photos (I deeply regret not having the balls to do that just once, as the session was dreadful).

 

I've had a provider cut a session short on me due to being really bothered by things I was saying (bitching about my sorry life, mentioning enjoying massages from women sometimes - that was his last straw). I took that to heart and learned my lesson to try to never say those things anymore. It's worked wonders.

 

I attempt to find out based on reading reviews of potential hires whether the person prefers a hairy or smooth client. It's a luxury for me to be naturally hairy and have the option to be smooth if that's what floats the provider's boat. Most supposedly tell me they really don't have a preference if I ask, which I don't do often. That's the politically correct thing to say, but I like to have my level of hairiness be to their liking, if possible.

[dbar123]

I've never had someone leave early due to something I said, nor have I ever walked out on someone because the ad was inaccurate. No matter what the person looks like, there is always something worthy in the experience.

[+ Lucky]

I have walked out minutes after a "massage" started. It was clear that the guy had no talent (or personality), so I didn't want to waste my time. I can't remember if I paid him, but I might have.

[Guest]

If you read my comments in the thread about Fireside Massage with Johnny, I ran out of his hotel room when he ordered me to sit in a chair. No regrets!

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

If you're wanting the client-view, you might do better to post this in The Lounge.

[Guest]

I've turned around for two different reasons: (1) photos outdated or otherwise inaccurate, or (2) escort demanded payment up-front.

[+ Axiom2001]

I've canceled an appointment immediately after an escort had arrived over an hour late. His excuse being that he was at dinner with friends although we had already confirmed the time. I did NOT give him any part of the established fee either. I watched him return his leather jacket and top and exit.

 

On New Year's Eve a few years back, I was heavily into this sexy, hung escort. At one point he asked me to stop what I was doing and to join him on the bed to talk. I was so pissed with his abrupt request that instead of my joining him in bed, I just dressed. I attempted to give him half his fee, but he vehemently declined. I left being quite disappointed, for I had wanted our time together to usher in a new year and a memory that I could have to bask in the afterglow.

 

Oftentimes, I think about Bill, especially his beautiful 9 inch uncut (biracial, bicultural) cock and his overall sexual expertise. I also think about what he'd perhaps had wanted to discuss. Was he going to tell me that he was the one who stole a fee when he and a friend of his and I were together for a 3way or if he was HIV positive or that he'd wanted a very small loan or his telling me that he had a problem "getting into me?"

 

I hope it was not the latter, for he had superb oral skills and could fuck one into oblivion. He also knew how to use his teeth and mouth to fire up one's very sensitive and torrid nips. And, more importantly, he and I did connect on many levels, something that I'd always appreciated. I enjoyed being in his company, for I'll always fondly remember Bill.

Edited May 6, 2021 by Axiom2001

[Guest]

... I think about Bill... I'll always fondly remember Bill.

I feel a song coming on...

[+ JEC]

A few years ago I booked a guy in Boston for 2 hours, with very little prior chit chat. His online profile had a very jock/bro/guy next door vibe. The person who showed up no jock/bro instead was extremely effeminate, wearing a sweater with "Maude" arms, leggings and really heavy and BAD cologne. He then proceeded to tell me he couldn't bottom for me (my stated expectations) because he "wasn't clean down there". My goal was instantly to get him out of my hotel without making a scene (I was traveling for work and I had work colleagues at same hotel) so....I did pay him his fee, but our 2 hour session lasted 15 minutes. Lessons learned: Do your homework, including stating clearly your expectations. Never book 2 hours on a first meet.

Edited May 3, 2021 by JEC

[Guest Justin7402]

Just once, very hot guy, had done porn with gayhoopla, I had discussed what I was interested in doing with the escort in advance, got there and the escort said he needed to get ready so I sat on the hotel room bed for 30 minutes while he showered etc. Then when it came time to start the escort let me know he didn't want to do the stuff we had discussed in advance, so I picked up my money and started to leave. At first he said I had to pay him for the 30 minutes he spent in the shower, then he tried to physically stop me from leaving but I was dressed and he wasn't so I got the hotel room door open and quickly got down the elevator and left.

[+ José Soplanucas]

Once in Buenos Aires I took an incall service. When I arrived to the guy's place I saw the pictures were real, he was a totally nice guy, but the chemistry was just not there. When he was sucking my flaccid dick, I interrupted the action, apologized, paid him his fee, and left.

 

Besides pros, something like that used to happen to me quite often with regular hookups. I am doing much better since I am videoconferencing before meeting.

[thickornotatall]

I've never had someone leave early due to something I said, nor have I ever walked out on someone because the ad was inaccurate. No matter what the person looks like, there is always something worthy in the experience.

Not really..

[+ Lucky]

A few years ago I booked a guy in Boston for 2 hours, with very little prior chit chat. His online profile had a very jock/bro/guy next door vibe. The person who showed up no jock/bro instead was extremely effeminate, wearing a sweater with "Maude" arms, leggings and really heavy and BAD cologne. He then proceeded to tell me he couldn't bottom for me (my stated expectations) because he "wasn't clean down there". My goal was instantly to get him out of my hotel without making a scene (I was traveling for work and I had work colleagues at same hotel) so....I did pay him his fee, but our 2 hour session lasted 15 minutes. Lessons learned: Do your homework, including stating clearly your expectations. Never book 2 hours on a first meet.

I had a nonescort situation similar to this. I met a guy, a billion years ago,of course, at the Ritch St. Baths and I fucked him silly. So I got his number and made a date. I picked him up, and,for the first time, realized that he was quite effeminate, even to the point of wearing a fur coat and what was close to a purse. I panicked as I didn't want to go anywhere where I might be recognized. It was totally stupid of me, I realized later. He was a nice guy, a great fuck, and I couldn't get into the effeminacy. We ate at an odd place and I took him home. I wish I could do it over again and treat him better.

[jawjateck]

I have ended several appointments early, and I don't just mean an hour or two....a day or two. Physical appearance or hygiene were never the issues. Dreadful personalities or disinterest in my wants/needs are enough for me to end a dull meeting. I'm not going to fake my way through a meeting that is not fun. I'd rather call it quits, pay the guy, and do something else, than try to gut out a bad meeting. The money has already been spent; I'd rather not waste anymore of the more valuable commodity.....my time.

[+ Lucky]

I have ended several appointments early, and I don't just mean an hour or two....a day or two. Physical appearance or hygiene were never the issues. Dreadful personalities or disinterest in my wants/needs are enough for me to end a dull meeting. I'm not going to fake my way through a meeting that is not fun. I'd rather call it quits, pay the guy, and do something else, than try to gut out a bad meeting. The money has already been spent; I'd rather not waste anymore of the more valuable commodity.....my time.

@jawjateck I see that you don't accept PM's. Could you please PM me as I have a question for you on my husband's behalf.

[marylander1940]

As posted by others before I have walked out of the hotel room if the guy doesn't look like his pics or clearly lied about his stats.

 

I have also decided not to proceed with an appointment if his place is a mess...

 

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[EZEtoGRU]

This happened to me a zillion year ago....pre-internet. In both cases I was overseas and one had to contact an "escort service" by phone to find a companion. One time was in Amsterdam and the other time was in Sao Paulo. In both cases, both escorts that were sent to my hotel were not even close to what I requested. Within five minutes of them arriving, I paid them the full amount and asked them to leave. It was complicated back then if you were in an overseas city and didn't know how to find someone that met your needs. "Escort Services" would send whomever was available.

[lonely_john]

the pictures were real, he was a totally nice guy, but the chemistry was just not there. When he was sucking my flaccid dick, I interrupted the action, apologized, paid him his fee, and left.

Now you got me curious. Would you care to elaborate? If too private feel free to PM.

[BtmBearDad]

I have ended two sessions early that I can recall.

 

Once, some 15-20 years ago now, I was in London on business, and arranged some play with a gent from an agency I had used previously. Now normally, I’d want a face pic, and this gent’s profile on their site only had a shadowy face pic, but the agency assured me, and having no issue with them previously, (in fact, I only had raving successes with their gents/recommendations), I chanced my arm. Appointed hour comes, he knocks at my door, I open, and there standing in front of me is the new associate I had hired just 3 days previously. Awkward!! ?

 

Second time, about 5-6 years ago, I was in LA, and a forum member texted me that a particular provider he knew I was interested in was in LA too. I got in touch, everything went smoothly setting up time, expectations, etc.. He arrives, we begin, but I just couldn’t get into it. I remember being angry, frustrated - here I was with a gent that ticked every box for me - who if I was asked to describe the future Mr BBD, would have been him - and there was me, not into it at all. ? He was such a professional, and gentleman - kept offering “what if I do this...how about I try this...” I declined, assured him it was nothing to due with him, apologised, and even tho it was only 30-40 mins into a 2 hour session, gave him his full payment. He did try to decline, but I insisted. Again, being a gentleman, he noted how his evening was now free, assumed mine was as well, and offered to buy me a drink. I agreed, and it was a really enjoyable evening - tho not what I planned.

[Luv2play]

I have ended two sessions early that I can recall.

 

Once, some 15-20 years ago now, I was in London on business, and arranged some play with a gent from an agency I had used previously. Now normally, I’d want a face pic, and this gent’s profile on their site only had a shadowy face pic, but the agency assured me, and having no issue with them previously, (in fact, I only had raving successes with their gents/recommendations), I chanced my arm. Appointed hour comes, he knocks at my door, I open, and there standing in front of me is the new associate I had hired just 3 days previously. Awkward!! ?

 

Second time, about 5-6 years ago, I was in LA, and a forum member texted me that a particular provider he knew I was interested in was in LA too. I got in touch, everything went smoothly setting up time, expectations, etc.. He arrives, we begin, but I just couldn’t get into it. I remember being angry, frustrated - here I was with a gent that ticked every box for me - who if I was asked to describe the future Mr BBD, would have been him - and there was me, not into it at all. ? He was such a professional, and gentleman - kept offering “what if I do this...how about I try this...” I declined, assured him it was nothing to due with him, apologised, and even tho it was only 30-40 mins into a 2 hour session, gave him his full payment. He did try to decline, but I insisted. Again, being a gentleman, he noted how his evening was now free, assumed mine was as well, and offered to buy me a drink. I agreed, and it was a really enjoyable evening - tho not what I planned.

Great stories. I wonder how I would have handled the first encounter. My mischievous side would have urged me on to completing the transaction. But then my sober side would have said no way if we were going to be working in the future on a professional basis. A horny dilemma indeed.

[Guest Justin7402]

I have ended two sessions early that I can recall.

 

Once, some 15-20 years ago now, I was in London on business, and arranged some play with a gent from an agency I had used previously. Now normally, I’d want a face pic, and this gent’s profile on their site only had a shadowy face pic, but the agency assured me, and having no issue with them previously, (in fact, I only had raving successes with their gents/recommendations), I chanced my arm. Appointed hour comes, he knocks at my door, I open, and there standing in front of me is the new associate I had hired just 3 days previously. Awkward!! ?

 

Second time, about 5-6 years ago, I was in LA, and a forum member texted me that a particular provider he knew I was interested in was in LA too. I got in touch, everything went smoothly setting up time, expectations, etc.. He arrives, we begin, but I just couldn’t get into it. I remember being angry, frustrated - here I was with a gent that ticked every box for me - who if I was asked to describe the future Mr BBD, would have been him - and there was me, not into it at all. ? He was such a professional, and gentleman - kept offering “what if I do this...how about I try this...” I declined, assured him it was nothing to due with him, apologised, and even tho it was only 30-40 mins into a 2 hour session, gave him his full payment. He did try to decline, but I insisted. Again, being a gentleman, he noted how his evening was now free, assumed mine was as well, and offered to buy me a drink. I agreed, and it was a really enjoyable evening - tho not what I planned.

 

Oh god, how did things work out in the office after that first story?

[lonely_john]

and there standing in front of me is the new associate I had hired just 3 days previously. Awkward!! ?

Curious again!

Did the meeting take place?

Did you keep him as an employee?

In what quality?

[BtmBearDad]

Great stories. I wonder how I would have handled the first encounter. My mischievous side would have urged me on to completing the transaction. But then my sober side would have said no way if we were going to be working in the future on a professional basis. A horny dilemma indeed.

 

There was definitely the battle between the angel voice, and the devil voice playing out in my head! He was really quite the looker, and I knew from the agency’s site, had a great body, but as you said, knowing we’d have a professional relationship, the angel prevailed. I will admit, it was a bit of a thrill seeing him in the office, noticing the glances he got, and knowing I had seen, at least in pictures, everything that was underneath that suit ???

[BtmBearDad]

Oh god, how did things work out in the office after that first story?

 

While I had hired him, I wasn’t still in London when he started. When I was next in the office, I thought I needed to address our last meeting. I took him to a conference room, said something like what he does on his own time is none of my business, just as what I do on mine is none of his. I knew he got it when I said we should just forget about meeting at the hotel, and he replied “what meeting?” winked, and then asked about a project he was working on. He may have been young, but he knew the score.

[BtmBearDad]

Curious again!

Did the meeting take place?

Did you keep him as an employee?

In what quality?

 

While I recognised him, I was kind of on auto-pilot from the surprise, and invited him in. I apologised, said it wouldn’t be a good idea to keep the appointment, he agreed, we shook hands, and he left. The fellow at the agency had a good laugh when I told him why I cancelled lol

 

Yes, he stayed on at the job, and was actually a great employee.