Cade_Maddox ... new price hike?

[MmM]

I’ll tell you the reason... It’s a combination of arrogance, sprinkled with a bit of what I call “sexual- social elitism”.

 

The dirty truth about many guys who hire escorts, is that they believe that they are “better” than sex workers (socially and morally). In many fields of customer service, the paying customer accepts your services, as long as you know (and stay) in your place.

 

The fact that many sex workers are taking more control in their role in the business (by creating empires through Only Fans, or demanding higher rates), is literally a proverbial “middle finger”, to many foul-minded customers, who believed that the workers need their money, more than they needed the sexual gratification, and now that they have less power to barter rates, many are now infuriated.

 

Times have changed, and the sex worker is now equalizing the scales of power (and I love it)

 

To prove my point, look on threads on this site... There are discussions where men literally brag about traveling to second and third world countries, to exploit poor men for sex at cheaper prices, because “The escorts in the U.S. are ridiculous with their pricing.”

 

So what Cade is doing is more than increasing a rate.... He’s sending an impactful message about power, exploitation and sex. And he knows his worth.

You make it sound like a revolution, lol. I've never felt like I was exploiting anyone whenever I hired an escort. I see money as the great equalizer. The men I hire are probably out of my league, and so it becomes a business transaction. The higher the demand, the higher fee they command which limits who I can transact with. Sounds like mere business to me. This of course excludes human trafficking which is despicable and evil.

[lonely_john]

Is this going to be the new IvyLeagueHungVrs thread??!!

Nah. I'm off. Byeeeee.

[cany10011]

Interesting metrics... i used the same search engine and found the german twink I have been following and have met numerous times online for a very reasonable price. He is making 29K a month per the website and yet, i know he is still working his civilian job. Does not make sense to me that he'd be working yet earning 29K monthly from his only fans and he lives in a very modest apartment in germany. I'll ask him next time i chat with him...lol.

[maninsoma]

You make it sound like a revolution, lol. I've never felt like I was exploiting anyone whenever I hired an escort. I see money as the great equalizer. The men I hire are probably out of my league, and so it becomes a business transaction. The higher the demand, the higher fee they command which limits who I can transact with. Sounds like mere business to me. This of course excludes human trafficking which is despicable and evil.

 

I see it more like you. It is a business transaction, and like most businesses there are those where "the common man" can afford to shop and then others where the cost limits the customer base to people with high incomes. Just because someone who makes minimum wage or slightly better buys clothes at Target doesn't mean he is "exploiting" Target by not paying the same as it would cost to buy clothes at Saks Fifth Avenue. Saks isn't sending a message about power and exploitation by carrying luxury brands and pricing them accordingly; they are offering products at a certain price and each individual can decide (a) whether he can afford the price and (b) whether he thinks their goods are worth the price. So, back to Cade -- is he worth $1,000/hour. To some he might be, especially because of his porn background. To some with the means to hire him, maybe they just aren't interested in what he has to offer. And then for many of us, we simply cannot justify spending that much to spend an hour with anyone. That doesn't mean we are looking to exploit people but rather understand that the market is such that not everyone doing this type of work can command that price.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

I’ll tell you the reason... It’s a combination of arrogance, sprinkled with a bit of what I call “sexual- social elitism”.

 

The dirty truth about many guys who hire escorts, is that they believe that they are “better” than sex workers (socially and morally). In many fields of customer service, the paying customer accepts your services, as long as you know (and stay) in your place.

 

The fact that many sex workers are taking more control in their role in the business (by creating empires through Only Fans, or demanding higher rates), is literally a proverbial “middle finger”, to many foul-minded customers, who believed that the workers need their money, more than they needed the sexual gratification, and now that they have less power to barter rates, many are now infuriated.

 

Times have changed, and the sex worker is now equalizing the scales of power (and I love it)

 

To prove my point, look on threads on this site... There are discussions where men literally brag about traveling to second and third world countries, to exploit poor men for sex at cheaper prices, because “The escorts in the U.S. are ridiculous with their pricing.”

 

So what Cade is doing is more than increasing a rate.... He’s sending an impactful message about power, exploitation and sex. And he knows his worth.

 

This reply should be bronzed and stuck to the top of every forum.

[ncc1701d]

Good for him for asking, and good for those who can afford. As long as he's professional about it, as his 15 min of fame will end, and Karma is a bitch. I happy to be a fan of his videos...that southern accent, the body, and yes the passionate kissing/fucking.....very nice.

[Monarchy79]

You make it sound like a revolution, lol.

 

Honestly, I find it to be quite revolutionary;

Especially the benefit that OnlyFans (and similar platforms) has provided people in the industry. For decades, people in the sex and porn business have been exploited with bad contracts, poor treatment from slimy directors and producers, and have used a platform that was originally NOT created for sexual services, and used this mechanism to perform on their own terms, make their own money, and command their own pricing, giving them the upper hand. And the fact that this has led many (like Cade), to command his desired pricing, is outstanding.

[Monarchy79]

Just because someone who makes minimum wage or slightly better buys clothes at Target doesn't mean he is "exploiting" Target by not paying the same as it would cost to buy clothes at Saks Fifth Avenue.

 

You’re absolutely right. But that’s not what anyone is asserting here.

 

What I was asserting (following along with your analogy) was that someone who makes minimum wage is upset that the brand he wants to buy is sold at Saks, and he thinks that Saks should lower the pricing to conform to his desire for that product. ?

[+ Yellowrod]

If he is making that much on OF then I hardly think he has to do this sort of work at all. He has another agenda. He is trying to sift out the "whales" from the plebians finance wise. If he can hook a fat old whale he can set up his lifestyle. What better way than find a guy that can afford to pay more than 3 times the going rate?

Isn't that, according to rumor, what happened to Joey Stefano with a certain mega-billionaire? Before Joey passed away, of course, in his prime years. Not naming the "billionaire" here as not sure about protocol of disclosing real names on the board.

[BuffaloKyle]

I agree that it's great that guys can now make a much better living since the creation of OF. Just stinks for us because if they become popular enough they don't need escorting anymore.

[mike carey]

This reply should be bronzed and stuck to the top of every forum.

Spoken by another man who happily sets his own rules of engagement in the business.

[former lurker]

Am I the only one who finds that with many of these super-high-mileage older guys I'd probably pay just as much to not have to do anything with them ?

 

no. you make no sense.

[Alec]

I’ve written this before and I’m certain it applies here. With the emergence of social media, Instagram, facilitating meetings and companionships with desired “models” etc. the rates are stratifying all over because some gents are just DMing their desired mate with offers and creating a bee paradigm that those in the more “mainstream” or traditional sex work arena i.e. rentmen are now wanting to catch up to. In simple terms, the hot guy wants to value himself at the same rate the other hot guy has or is selling himself at. I know guys in Dubai, Mumbai, NYC, Miami, London that are indeed a grand or few to meet. They probably don’t watch the clock but it’s a single session. And many very wealthy men are indulging this because they’re getting access to ~that~ person, model, actor, porn star, etc. you can see this too with the “Brazilian dolls” as they’ve been sometimes labeled here escorting for something between 400-600 an hour. They’re trying to approximate via rentmen what happens more elusively and lavishly via social media. I know many here are reluctant to believe it but the sort of gents on here and their expectations and modus operandi for supply and demand and patronizing this business isn’t the be all end all for how the business is done or run. Luckily I don’t think this standard rentmen (200-400/hr) model is going to be supplanted but it will have more range and scope and surely guys like Cade Maddox are going to try and ambitiously perform at what they think the highest levels are.

So the attractive men in Dubai r escorts? Where can I read more about this?

[buckguy]

Easy to be dispassionate about him. He seems like a fairly generic top from what I’ve seen, pudding faced, as the Brits would say with oily skin, a criminal record, and a succession of bad hair styles.

 

There always have been a few insanely priced guys, like Kevin Williams in his Garbo phase. There are only so many guys who can pay that and they easily move on to someone new.

 

Only Fans just another content stream and there always have been adjuncts to porn income that help promote the porn or that porn supports—-escorting, personal appearances in the old days. If he gets bored making content or offers nothing fresh—-novel partners, some versatility, etc., his 15 minutes soon will come to an end. Hopefully, he has investments or marketable skills, otherwise he’ll have some marginal existence in some sprawlburg dump and a new set of online mugshots.

[Studsearcher]

I sometimes wonder if the high end market is more like the rich, obnoxious gays you see on reality shows like Below Deck or the rich closet case businessman with a family. Maybe it’s both, but I know it’s not me.

 

I’ve found that a higher price does not equal a better experience, and as prices have risen and experiences have lessened I’m spending far less. In 2018 I spent $26,000 on the hobby. In 2019 $8,000 and in 2020 a whopping $400 (though COVID was definitely a factor).

 

I honestly wouldn’t have a problem paying up to 500/hr if I knew it would be worth it. Unfortunately I’ve paid top end rates for well reviewed guys and not been impressed. Now I just assume my standards are out of line with the hobby and it’s made me rather jaded toward hiring.

 

If I do start hiring again I’m just glad I’m not in a market where I’m competing with guys who spend thousands of dollars for companionship without physical interaction.

[KrisParr]

I’m making a list, and checking it twice ... once COVID ends, there are many extraordinary men out there in the 300-500 range which I consider affordable. Why are we even considering such high priced merchandise? I must be missing something.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

This thread is definitely going as expected.

 

As I've said before, a lot of these replies say more about the poster than the subject.

Edited January 24, 2021 by Benjamin_Nicholas

[Maximiliam]

I’m making a list, and checking it twice ... once COVID ends, there are many extraordinary men out there in the 300-500 range which I consider affordable. Why are we even considering such high priced merchandise? I must be missing something.

350 is my limit and even then I need to know if they are extraordinary. I will never pay 350 and over . Nope not feeding their ego

[MassageAdam]

https://rent.men/Cade_Maddox

 

So I usually do my due diligence, rather quietly, on this awesome forum before making any decision to (or not) hire. From what I've seen Cade has come off as a great provider with a pornstar background that's on the higher end of the typical price range for some our fave guys... BUT when I took note that he would be in South Florida, where i've been holed up for a majority of last year and all of this one, I kindly reached out on RM messenger and before we could even get into semantics he let me know that he would be $1,000/hr... now I get that he's a delectable hunk of the porn star variety but...... HUH????

 

If he's getting it, get it - but i have definitely come across members here who have paid much more reasonable rates for an hour with Cade and I'm just a tad confused about the more than 100% increase... anyone with recent experience or.. perhaps.. ANY type of explanation lol?

He does nothing for me... I wouldn't even pay $100 for him.

[Maximiliam]

He does nothing for me... I wouldn't even pay $100 for him.

Agree to me he look like an alien .

[Gymowner]

That is probably his “wife”.

Yikes!

I sometimes wonder if the high end market is more like the rich, obnoxious gays you see on reality shows like Below Deck or the rich closet case businessman with a family. Maybe it’s both, but I know it’s not me.

 

I’ve found that a higher price does not equal a better experience, and as prices have risen and experiences have lessened I’m spending far less. In 2018 I spent $26,000 on the hobby. In 2019 $8,000 and in 2020 a whopping $400 (though COVID was definitely a factor).

 

I honestly wouldn’t have a problem paying up to 500/hr if I knew it would be worth it. Unfortunately I’ve paid top end rates for well reviewed guys and not been impressed. Now I just assume my standards are out of line with the hobby and it’s made me rather jaded toward hiring.

 

If I do start hiring again I’m just glad I’m not in a market where I’m competing with guys who spend thousands of dollars for companionship without physical interaction.

 

i think a good way to do this if one has the ability to pay more is in reverse of what is stated. pick a guy that you find very attractive. pay him his fee. if he works out TO YOUR LIKING and gives you a wonderful experience then sit him down and tell him you would like to pay him X (more than his fee) but with stipulations. they can be anything from calling the same day within a few hours and he has to drop what he is doing to get to you for that fee or maybe its you being able to flip your desires each session and he has to be totally flexible and eager to do so as well.

 

many escorts would find this a wonderful "win/win" and look forward to the extra money as 1. well....extra money and 2. knowing they are pleasing an individual for the generous reward. kind of like giving your dog a treat when he gets your slippers. much more inclined to do so when he gets the treat!!! lol

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

kind of like giving your dog a treat when he gets your slippers. much more inclined to do so when he gets the treat!!! lol

 

What an ugly fucking comparison.

 

Couth up man.

[Gymowner]

Calm the fuck down. It was meant as an example when one does something perceived as satisfying they are more inclined to do it again and again. Jesus christ!

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Calm the fuck down

 

This isn't me bent out of shape.

 

I'd have to give a shit about you for that to happen.

[Gymowner]

Oh boy! A bathhouse blunder that's a success! Sign me the fuck up. I wanna grow up to be just like you!