Cade_Maddox ... new price hike?

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Oh boy! A bathhouse blunder that's a success! Sign me the fuck up. I wanna grow up to be just like you!

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[Gymowner]

Great comeback. You were totally out of line with what my intention was as my example. If you dont see that then that's on you... not me.

[Jeffster]

Easy to be dispassionate about him. He seems like a fairly generic top from what I’ve seen, pudding faced, as the Brits would say with oily skin, a criminal record, and a succession of bad hair styles.

 

There always have been a few insanely priced guys, like Kevin Williams in his Garbo phase. There are only so many guys who can pay that and they easily move on to someone new.

 

Only Fans just another content stream and there always have been adjuncts to porn income that help promote the porn or that porn supports—-escorting, personal appearances in the old days. If he gets bored making content or offers nothing fresh—-novel partners, some versatility, etc., his 15 minutes soon will come to an end. Hopefully, he has investments or marketable skills, otherwise he’ll have some marginal existence in some sprawlburg dump and a new set of online mugshots.

 

Truth. To each his own but I can’t get past the always oily face; overly tweezed eyebrows; buttaface; etc.

 

I’ve only seen a few scenes with him and I haven’t watched one more than a few minutes, and not because I came.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Great comeback. You were totally out of line with what my intention was as my example. If you dont see that then that's on you... not me.

 

Your comparison was inept.

 

I couldn't care less what your intention was: You communicated it poorly.

[Gymowner]

Instead of saying that and trying to be positive and helpful to get my message across you tried to slam my intentions and character. Job well done bubs. Even the boys that fawn all over you here will have a hard time backing up your ass on this one.

[Monarchy79]

Calm the fuck down. It was meant as an example when one does something perceived as satisfying they are more inclined to do it again and again. Jesus christ!

 

Sir,

 

You literally compared a working human being to a dog fetching slippers...

 

You don’t see how that could be even remotely offensive?

[guru68]

Here's MY suggestion for "itches"..... It's $3.69.... works wonders on your skin AND your wallet ! For ME, there's NO cock worth $1000.

 

That looks like it might be tough to get up the ass.

[guru68]

Instead of saying that and trying to be positive and helpful to get my message across you tried to slam my intentions and character. Job well done bubs. Even the boys that fawn all over you here will have a hard time backing up your ass on this one.

I would happily back Ben's ass up.

[Gymowner]

Then try to do so guru

[Gymowner]

Sir,

 

You literally compared a working human being to a dog fetching slippers...

 

You don’t see how that could be even remotely offensive?

 

Not how I meant it. And if one perceived it as such yet fully was aware I was trying to help with my example, then saying so in a constructive way would have been much more appropriate than slamming my intention.

[guru68]

Then try to do so guru

I'd love to - alas, I have not made Mr N's acquaintance as of yet.

[CuriousByNature]

Not how I meant it. And if one perceived it as such yet fully was aware I was trying to help with my example, then saying so in a constructive way would have been much more appropriate than slamming my intention.

For what it's worth, I've been in situations where I meant something completely benign, or opposite to how it was taken by someone. It's not a fun position to be in. I don't know either of you, but you both contribute a lot to the forum. One thing I have found is that if my words have triggered or offended someone, it's important to own it and take responsibility - especially when I know my words were not meant to be offensive. Then it's up to others to either accept your explanation or not. You've stated clearly that your words were not meant to offend anyone. I'm sure in hindsight you can see how the post could be misconstrued, particularly by providers who take the responsibility of their vocation/career seriously. Peace to both you and @Benjamin_Nicholas.

[marylander1940]

Your comparison was inept.

 

I couldn't care less what your intention was: You communicated it poorly.

 

Sir,

 

You literally compared a working human being to a dog fetching slippers...

 

You don’t see how that could be even remotely offensive?

 

Reminds me of the unfortunate use of the word "meat" as a way to refer to some providers.

[Gymowner]

actually CuriousByNatur i dont. i try to come up with helpful and constructive ways to approach the escort "relationship" so we can all have a good time with each other. we as people always use comparisons to help get a point across and to help them make more sense. thats what i was doing. has anyone ever heard "he seems so uncomfortable he looks like a duck out of water"? now what does the human being have to do with a duck being out of water? i was trying to do the same here. we use these comparisons all the time. someone just had a bug up his ass. oops... now what does a bug have to do with anything? and if one looks back i put an "lol" after the phrase. it was to be light hearted.

 

Its apparent that no matter how much good one tries to do people will always have issues with them. makes way more sense for me to be far less involved with input here on this board moving forward. i can just as easily get pleasure out of watching the dog fights of others just as easily as getting into them myself. now here i go again! comparing a dog with us humans!

[guru68]

/\/\/\ This /\/\/\ if the money is pouring in from Fans pages, you don;t need all the BS that comes with 'scorting

That's so true. I wonder about the longevity of OF pages. If you could manage to keep things fresh and interesting long term, that would be something. It's inevitable, of course, that existing content will eventually "get out".

[mike carey]

I’m making a list, and checking it twice ... once COVID ends, there are many extraordinary men out there in the 300-500 range which I consider affordable. Why are we even considering such high priced merchandise? I must be missing something.

The reason some people are considering high priced merchandise is that their tolerance for paying $n is related to how much money they have as well as their understanding of what is a 'market' rate. I'm more guided by that market rate but I'm not everyone. If my income were $10m pa I wouldn't blink at $1k per hour if I liked the look of the guy. I earn somewhat less than that (several orders of magnitude as it happens), so I think hard before hiring at rather lower rates, but that's me.

As I've said before, a lot of these replies say more about the poster than the subject.

And not necessarily in a bad way, many reflect the view that his price is simply outside their range. The 'who does he think he is' crowd, and the 'I wouldn't pay that much for him' ones not so much. Turning your unwillingness or inability to pay someone's rate into a comment on the provider does exactly what you suggest, Benjamin.

[+ dupontversDC]

I hired Cade several times a few years ago when he was living in DC. His rate was very reasonable then, in fact, he was probably underpriced. I'm glad for him that's he's hit it big. Although I'd love to see him again, I won't pay the current rate. I had great appointments with him, but we all have to evaluate what we're willing to splurge on, and to what extent we're willing to splurge.

 

In a few years if he's not as much the "it boy" and his rates moderate, I'd gladly see him again, and I'm sure to ask about what the $1000/hour client crowd is like versus others.

[Monarchy79]

actually CuriousByNatur i dont. i try to come up with helpful and constructive ways to approach the escort "relationship" so we can all have a good time with each other. we as people always use comparisons to help get a point across and to help them make more sense. thats what i was doing. has anyone ever heard "he seems so uncomfortable he looks like a duck out of water"? now what does the human being have to do with a duck being out of water? i was trying to do the same here. we use these comparisons all the time. someone just had a bug up his ass. oops... now what does a bug have to do with anything? and if one looks back i put an "lol" after the phrase. it was to be light hearted.

 

Its apparent that no matter how much good one tries to do people will always have issues with them. makes way more sense for me to be far less involved with input here on this board moving forward. i can just as easily get pleasure out of watching the dog fights of others just as easily as getting into them myself. now here i go again! comparing a dog with us humans!

 

Excellent word play to defend your previous statement, but we all know good and well the differences between the various human-to-animal comparisons.

 

Comparing human disagreements to dog fighting is minimal...Comparing humans to dogs in a subservient, degrading context is another....You know the difference;

We all know the difference.

 

What I don’t understand is why can’t people simply apologize for writing offensive things when called out on it? You made a loaded statement, that a professional in that specific industry told you was offensive, and you went through every method of defending your statement, rather than just apologizing.

 

It’s still a relatively new year. Let’s continue a good path of positivity by being authentic, forthright, and accountable.

 

There’s a lot we can learn from each other on these forums, even from our mistakes.

[Cooper]

Admin Note: Can we stay on topic? The subject is: Cade_Maddox ... new price hike?

[CuriousByNature]

actually CuriousByNatur i dont. i try to come up with helpful and constructive ways to approach the escort "relationship" so we can all have a good time with each other. we as people always use comparisons to help get a point across and to help them make more sense. thats what i was doing. has anyone ever heard "he seems so uncomfortable he looks like a duck out of water"? now what does the human being have to do with a duck being out of water? i was trying to do the same here. we use these comparisons all the time. someone just had a bug up his ass. oops... now what does a bug have to do with anything? and if one looks back i put an "lol" after the phrase. it was to be light hearted.

 

Its apparent that no matter how much good one tries to do people will always have issues with them. makes way more sense for me to be far less involved with input here on this board moving forward. i can just as easily get pleasure out of watching the dog fights of others just as easily as getting into them myself. now here i go again! comparing a dog with us humans!

Well, I guess sometimes its harder for us to put ourselves in other people's shoes and understand how our words can be taken differently than intended. If you don't see how the phrasing could be misinterpreted, then I understand why your reaction was as defensive as it was. But many others do see how it could be taken incorrectly, even if you don't. Words have power, and nobody chooses their words perfectly every time they post. It would be a shame if you became less involved with your input - I hope that doesn't happen.