Anyone else doing Adonis NYC tonight?

[Wickedsexy]

For a similar experience lately, I have been preferring to go to the Monster Bar in the village. You can kind of be invisible in a dark corner in the basement of Dance area, as opposed to being one of two people being preyed upon by a dozen dancers.  I also like to dance some times, Music is usually pretty good, and I like drag shows sometimes, and the dancers actually do dance on the stage.  

[Jasrb36]

2 hours ago, Wickedsexy said:

For a similar experience lately, I have been preferring to go to the Monster Bar in the village. You can kind of be invisible in a dark corner in the basement of Dance area, as opposed to being one of two people being preyed upon by a dozen dancers.  I also like to dance some times, Music is usually pretty good, and I like drag shows sometimes, and the dancers actually do dance on the stage.  

Never really went to an Adonis event but this is what I like about Spunk Pieces and Monster. Ive been told the dancers at Adonis are very aggressive.  Ive had a few uncomfortable moments woth dancers at Spunk to be fair but i feel its a well run event overall.

[Anthony]

On 3/22/2025 at 10:59 AM, kyleham said:

Went to Adonis the other night for the first time in a very long long time. BIG disappointment. First, there were only 2 of the dancers there that were listed on the email out of about 10 dancers. Secondly, the fee was $20 to get in for 10 lackluster dancers. Third, of course some of the dancers were very aggressive as no one was doing lap dances-many barely spoke English and hygiene was off. Fourth, when are they going to find a space where they're actual bar tenders who can make drinks? Not very busy and the bar tender was slow. What time too long. I know Tim has another job and is married with kids now but if you don't have the time to manage this properly let some one else do it. It's sad how this had gone down hill and is not fun to go to anymore.

I visited the new location at Madame X on Sunday-Monday and I was legit the only client there. Only 5 dancers were there and one out of the five were shirtless. It was my first time at Madame X and it's been 8 months since I've been to any Adonis event. Madame X had a cool vibe with red chandeliers and red lighting to red carpet; basically  everywhere was red and it wasn't dark at all compared to the other places. As far as the dancers, it's still the same stale Latin/Hispanic men with only one new guy and his images didn't match the ones in the newsletter. Yeah I didn't like the fact that they don't speak English either and could totally tell they aren't interested in personal care either yet show up to events like this. I think Tim literally picked these guys off the streets but actually there are better looking men on the streets of Manhattan *cough* Luigi *cough*. Wasn't too surprised  the fee increased to $20 with all of the inflation. Totally not worth it. Definitely not worth tipping $20 to the dancers. Doorgirl Dana was trying to convince me to comeback  and go to the nude party. Never again. I'm done with this place. 

[kyleham]

Glad I'm not the only one who feels this way.

[Jasrb36]

I may try Side Door tomorrow and the bude party Saturday.  Not really sure what to expect as i dont like being one of few clients and dancers being too aggressive.  Guess ill find out.

[Jasrb36]

Anyone going to the nude party tonight?  I paid and listed my email in the notes as instructed yet i never got a location.   Ive messaged him on paypal and a separate email but never heard back.  Very bad first impression.

[Chidude]

17 hours ago, Jasrb36 said:

Anyone going to the nude party tonight?  I paid and listed my email in the notes as instructed yet i never got a location.   Ive messaged him on paypal and a separate email but never heard back.  Very bad first impression.

He usually sends out the email an hour or two before the party starts.  Tim is very reliable in my experience.  Hope you got the needed info and enjoyed the party. 

[Wickedsexy]

Curious to hear how the nude party went.

[Jasrb36]

3 hours ago, Chidude said:

He usually sends out the email an hour or two before the party starts.  Tim is very reliable in my experience.  Hope you got the needed info and enjoyed the party. 

I got the address from someone else and went lol.  I had a good time. 

[dcbbvers]

2 hours ago, Wickedsexy said:

Curious to hear how the nude party went.

Oddly enough I went to the February and March party -- had a better time in March -- perhaps its because there was a stripper I had not seen before who was very much my type.  But needless to say an influx of a few new dancers would be great.  

[kyleham]

Totally agree. When Tim started he always had new headliners, porn stars and body builders every party. I receive the nude party email list and it seems like the same guys every time. It used to be there were so many guys I never was able to dance with all the ones I wanted to. Now there are a handful of guys and if they're busy I have very few dancers. Adonis is not living up to it's so called name.

[Lazarus]

Who was the special guest that Tim would not reveal at this weekend’s nude party? 

[Wickedsexy]

So I wonder if Buff Daddy's parties are better than Adonis?    They are $40 cheaper. So I am wondering what is the difference?

[BALCONY]

The March nude party was the most well-attended and lively in some time. I don’t think it’s my imagination that things have got more and more free-wheeling in the lap dance room. Had fun but the presence of female bartenders was, as usual, a minus for me. Had several dances. One guy tried to charge me for five songs when we barely did three. But two other dancers were fantastically generous. Something quite unusual happened as well: a non-dancer attendee cruised the heck out of me all evening.  Hardly the norm in this atmosphere where the focus is overwhelmingly on the dancers, not on regular guys like me. 

[Jasrb36]

On 4/1/2025 at 1:47 AM, BALCONY said:

The March nude party was the most well-attended and lively in some time. I don’t think it’s my imagination that things have got more and more free-wheeling in the lap dance room. Had fun but the presence of female bartenders was, as usual, a minus for me. Had several dances. One guy tried to charge me for five songs when we barely did three. But two other dancers were fantastically generous. Something quite unusual happened as well: a non-dancer attendee cruised the heck out of me all evening.  Hardly the norm in this atmosphere where the focus is overwhelmingly on the dancers, not on regular guys like me. 

I didnt mind the female bartenders but it was my first time at this party.   Had a good time and went in the private room with one dancer.  Saw a few familiar faces from Spunk including one i like to try to avoid.   Ill be able to attend the next one but then ill be wont be able to  until August due to work schedule.  As for number of songs I usually dont pay attention and tip more based on how long i have a dance for with a set range per minute depending on the experience.  What were the dancers charging per song?  Ive had something similar happen at red Eye before where they claimed 5-6 songs when it was only 2-3 and around 10 minutes maybe.

Edited April 2 by Jasrb36

[Anthony]

On 3/31/2025 at 12:24 PM, kyleham said:

Totally agree. When Tim started he always had new headliners, porn stars and body builders every party. I receive the nude party email list and it seems like the same guys every time. It used to be there were so many guys I never was able to dance with all the ones I wanted to. Now there are a handful of guys and if they're busy I have very few dancers. Adonis is not living up to it's so called name.

It has declined so much its not even worth checking for Tim's email anymore. They are all copy and paste with the same exact photos of the same dancers he has been using for years now. Extremely lazy. Every now and then there would be a new dancer or someone that comes up from Florida or the South or Midwest. That's the only time it gets somewhat exciting. Hasn't happened in a while. 

[Anthony]

On 4/1/2025 at 1:47 AM, BALCONY said:

The March nude party was the most well-attended and lively in some time. I don’t think it’s my imagination that things have got more and more free-wheeling in the lap dance room. Had fun but the presence of female bartenders was, as usual, a minus for me. Had several dances. One guy tried to charge me for five songs when we barely did three. But two other dancers were fantastically generous. Something quite unusual happened as well: a non-dancer attendee cruised the heck out of me all evening.  Hardly the norm in this atmosphere where the focus is overwhelmingly on the dancers, not on regular guys like me. 

What are you basing this off of? The parties and events have been extremely slow. When was the other time you went to the nude party? 

[+ BOZO T CLOWN]

On 3/27/2025 at 2:11 PM, Anthony said:

..... As far as the dancers, it's still the same stale Latin/Hispanic men with only one new guy and his images didn't match the ones in the newsletter. Yeah I didn't like the fact that they don't speak English either and could totally tell they aren't interested in personal care either yet show up to events like this. I think Tim literally picked these guys off the streets but actually there are better looking men on the streets of Manhattan *cough* Luigi *cough*. Wasn't too surprised  the fee increased to $20 with all of the inflation. Totally not worth it. Definitely not worth tipping $20 to the dancers. Doorgirl Dana was trying to convince me to comeback  and go to the nude party. Never again. I'm done with this place. 

The fact that the nightly Adonis events consist of almost entirely Hispanic (Dominican/Cuban) guys is probably unavoidable in NYC. However, Tim should step up his game to get some diversity within that group. Almost all of these guys were created from the same mold - poor English skills, bearded, heavily tattooed, roid guts, poor hygiene, and aggressive to the point where some are borderline predatory!
It's depressing and frustrating....
Nothing sadder than a depressed and frustrated clown. Poor Bozo 😧.

BTC
🤡

Edited April 5 by BOZO T CLOWN

[BALCONY]

On 4/4/2025 at 4:50 PM, Anthony said:

What are you basing this off of? The parties and events have been extremely slow. When was the other time you went to the nude party? 

I’ve been to four parties in the last six months. Attendance was down and the energy was lethargic. Then suddenly the March party was crowded and lively like the old days. 

[adamdub]

Has anyone been to the VV Bar Wednesday night Adonis party? I see in the emails they have a shower show. The normal VV bar shower shows are kind of tame for my taste, but I was wondering if the Adonis branded ones get a little wilder.

I was wondering if it's just go-go boys or if they have the normal adonis strip club layout- I couldn't really get a sense of the vibe from the emails.

[+ goosh69]

Only fans etc has lowered the number of hot escorts and strippers.