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Just had a provider refund a deposit. Not because of issues between us but because we determined after communicating that we should wait a bit. I never had a provider return a deposit. That’s a huge plus in my book for this guy. And makes me want to really look him up when it’s a better time for us both.

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As a client moment you ask me my age and ethnicity is when I know I’m wasting my time with that provider...just saying

 

I do ask clients for their age. Only because with the advent of texting, I have to be able to prioritize those who are 19 years old, versus 59 years old. 9 times out of 10, the 59 year old is more likely to meet than the 19 year old.

 

I also don't care if someone says they are 45, and turn out to be 54. What matters is that they are not a minor, and of legal content age of 25 lol.

 

As a matter of fact: when I use Adam4Adam, the profile of a timewaster is one who doesn't fill out their profile completely, and only puts their age and nothing else. How can a person be seriously looking to link up, and have all blank details.

 

Other timewasting characteristics are those who ask for pics (MORE PICS than what I have), how big am I (inches), and asking to meet "now".

 

Fortunately, I already have most all my conversations on a script. Too much deviation from the script usually also gets lowered in priority. I also don't answer uninvited phone calls and have turned my Rentmen messenger to auto reply, in order to cut down on wasting time.

 

As much as I love the biz; I've gotten more seasoned, and become less tolerant to BS. However I'm also learning to be more forgiving because there is no formula. Every client starts out as a timewaster to someone lol. Eventually they'll come to someone. Our phones are ringing much more with Craigslist gone, and if you don't figure out a way to mitigate and prevent the excess waste of time, that can really make for a less fun experience overall.

 

I study my spam emails and notice how some companies email me relentlessly even though I don't respond or shop with them. It made me realize, sometimes you just gotta "beg" clients to meet. I find myself reaching out to clients who've cancelled, reminding them I'm available and inviting to meet. If they are serious, they'll meet.

 

However, I'm not going to chase someone who doesn't respect my time (asking for pictures, being pushy when not getting a response instantly when they've just contacted me the same day, or have flaked multiple times). I only "beg" if the person shows a will and intent to show up. Any cancels when I travel to or plan to host them are unforgivable without a deposit. I can't be bothered with inconsiderate fucks who don't give a fuck.

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I do ask clients for their age. Only because with the advent of texting, I have to be able to prioritize those who are 19 years old, versus 59 years old. 9 times out of 10, the 59 year old is more likely to meet than the 19 year old.

 

I also don't care if someone says they are 45, and turn out to be 54. What matters is that they are not a minor, and of legal content age of 25 lol.

 

As a matter of fact: when I use Adam4Adam, the profile of a timewaster is one who doesn't fill out their profile completely, and only puts their age and nothing else. How can a person be seriously looking to link up, and have all blank details.

 

Other timewasting characteristics are those who ask for pics (MORE PICS than what I have), how big am I (inches), and asking to meet "now".

 

Fortunately, I already have most all my conversations on a script. Too much deviation from the script usually also gets lowered in priority. I also don't answer uninvited phone calls and have turned my Rentmen messenger to auto reply, in order to cut down on wasting time.

 

As much as I love the biz; I've gotten more seasoned, and become less tolerant to BS. However I'm also learning to be more forgiving because there is no formula. Every client starts out as a timewaster to someone lol. Eventually they'll come to someone. Our phones are ringing much more with Craigslist gone, and if you don't figure out a way to mitigate and prevent the excess waste of time, that can really make for a less fun experience overall.

 

I study my spam emails and notice how some companies email me relentlessly even though I don't respond or shop with them. It made me realize, sometimes you just gotta "beg" clients to meet. I find myself reaching out to clients who've cancelled, reminding them I'm available and inviting to meet. If they are serious, they'll meet.

 

However, I'm not going to chase someone who doesn't respect my time (asking for pictures, being pushy when not getting a response instantly when they've just contacted me the same day, or have flaked multiple times). I only "beg" if the person shows a will and intent to show up. Any cancels when I travel to or plan to host them are unforgivable without a deposit. I can't be bothered with inconsiderate fucks who don't give a fuck.

You've got it. You mentioned 85% of what my friend told me on the phone. Despite being in his 20s he's a seasoned guy and very smart as well. I just didn't want to mention all the factors (including race) that he uses because given the popularity of this forum, we wouldn't want to let know the timewasters they have been profiled. :p I also hate timewasters because they have ruined the industry and the mood of many escorts making them angry when one as a client asks 2 or 3 questions they perceive as a waste of time for them.

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Someone describing himself as a cub might show up 50 lbs heavier at his door.

 

...I’m sure there wouldn’t be any complaints about the heavier cub in this photo lol.

 

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You've got it. You mentioned 85% of what my friend told me on the phone. Despite being in his 20s he's a seasoned guy and very smart as well. I just didn't want to mention all the factors (including race) that he uses because given the popularity of this forum, we wouldn't want to let know the timewasters they have been profiled. :p I also hate timewasters because they have ruined the industry and the mood of many escorts making them angry when one as a client asks 2 or 3 questions they perceive as a waste of time for them.

 

Perfect conclusion. It does. But one thing I’ve noticed, COVID19 has “killed off” a lot of Timewasters ?

 

But maybe now at least people understand, it’s not funny or amusing to waste the time of someone on the frontlines, risking their health. Maybe now they realize it’s a sick, unhealthy, and weird thing to do. Some still haven’t learned, and continue...but they’ll get theirs.

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I do ask clients for their age. Only because with the advent of texting, I have to be able to prioritize those who are 19 years old, versus 59 years old. 9 times out of 10, the 59 year old is more likely to meet than the 19 year old.

 

I also don't care if someone says they are 45, and turn out to be 54. What matters is that they are not a minor, and of legal content age of 25 lol.

 

As a matter of fact: when I use Adam4Adam, the profile of a timewaster is one who doesn't fill out their profile completely, and only puts their age and nothing else. How can a person be seriously looking to link up, and have all blank details.

 

Other timewasting characteristics are those who ask for pics (MORE PICS than what I have), how big am I (inches), and asking to meet "now".

 

Fortunately, I already have most all my conversations on a script. Too much deviation from the script usually also gets lowered in priority. I also don't answer uninvited phone calls and have turned my Rentmen messenger to auto reply, in order to cut down on wasting time.

 

As much as I love the biz; I've gotten more seasoned, and become less tolerant to BS. However I'm also learning to be more forgiving because there is no formula. Every client starts out as a timewaster to someone lol. Eventually they'll come to someone. Our phones are ringing much more with Craigslist gone, and if you don't figure out a way to mitigate and prevent the excess waste of time, that can really make for a less fun experience overall.

 

I study my spam emails and notice how some companies email me relentlessly even though I don't respond or shop with them. It made me realize, sometimes you just gotta "beg" clients to meet. I find myself reaching out to clients who've cancelled, reminding them I'm available and inviting to meet. If they are serious, they'll meet.

 

However, I'm not going to chase someone who doesn't respect my time (asking for pictures, being pushy when not getting a response instantly when they've just contacted me the same day, or have flaked multiple times). I only "beg" if the person shows a will and intent to show up. Any cancels when I travel to or plan to host them are unforgivable without a deposit. I can't be bothered with inconsiderate fucks who don't give a fuck.

Like I said in a subsequent post its all in how it comes off in the communication but you've definitely made some good points

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One of my regular escorts told me that after asking the client some questions like age, ethnicity, and after few message exchanges discussing specs and rate, he already knows who is a timewaster so he will stop responding not caring about the possibility of losing business because the profile is "very consistent". I told him that he might be losing business but he stood by his words. I would like to know the opinion of other working guys.

 

The ones who I find are my time wasters tend to go on about elaborate scenes for a night... Consistent time wasters...

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orville Grand Master

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Think Penthouse Forum scenarios or short stories from Nifty.org ... I imagine the writer gets a thrill thinking his recipient will get aroused.

I had to google it cause I'm not familiar. So you mean a guy who starts talking a lot of details and perhaps role-playing instead of going down to business? If so, I think that would make sense as the general recommendation is to avoid that and when talking to the escort being straight forward.

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Hey, thanks for the input, but I don't quite follow. What do you mean?

Think Penthouse Forum scenarios or short stories from Nifty.org ... I imagine the writer gets a thrill thinking his recipient will get aroused.

Keep in mind this person set a day/time/location...reconfirmed the day before...then the morning of deleted their RM profile and blocked me from the email that they sent this from...

 

As for the role play, I'll be as detailed as humanly possible here so I don't have to be when we meet. I have a terrible time conveying exactly what I want in person. My nerves and excitement get the best of me and I don't want to leave anything out. I also want you to be comfortable and capable of what I'm asking for and totally aware of what I want. Ideally I'd like to cover all the details prior to meeting so we can get started shortly after my arrival.

 

When I arrive, I will change into panties, put on a blindfold and I will need you to tie my hands together. I'll leave it up to you whether you want them tied behind my back or in front of me but I do want my arms restrained to start. Then I'd like you to guide me to the bathroom, put me on my knees, turn off the lights, leave and shut the door.

 

Make me wait for 5-10 minutes... as long as you think is necessary. I like to build the anticipation and agonize about not knowing what awaits me or how bad it will be.

 

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The Role Play:

I am a beloved and high ranking enemy officer with the East army and was recently captured during a battle between our factions. I am being held hostage in a remote location as a prisoner of war. After my initial interrogation by your intel team, they have concluded that I likely have critical information but it will be extremely difficult to extract.

 

Considering I'm a such high ranking officer, your commanding general has decided to take a different approach with me regarding my interrogation. An technique that has never been used before but could possibly force me to give up any pertinent information regarding the East and will certainly destroy the morale of my men.

 

The general's plan is to have one of his top tier and most aggressive soldiers enter my interrogation room and torture me by brutally fucking my throat with zero remorse. In the most aggressive, degrading, humiliating and demoralizing way possible. Such treatment may force me to divulge any info I have and the interrogation/torture will be recorded on video and uploaded to the internet to be used as propaganda for both of the East and West armies to see.

 

He's betting that when the soldiers of the East see their most beloved and fearless leader restrained, in panties, in his most vulnerable state being throat fucked into submission by the enemy and left gasping for air in a pile of spit and cum, it will completely destroy their moral. He also knows that such will vastly improve the moral of the west and possibly lead them to total victory over the East.

 

Your unit has set up multiple video cameras in my interrogation room (we won't actually be recording anything), they have blind folded me, restrained my hands and stripped me down to panties.

 

Your general has ordered you to carry out the torture/interrogation session. You are an exceptional soldier, known for your aggression, brutality and absolute willingness to help the West in any way possible. He also was made aware that you have the tool and mentality to efficiently complete this mission.

 

My interrogation time has been set and I have no idea what awaits me. I have been in the interrogation room alone for hours, in the dark, blind folded, restrained and on my knees. You receive the order to proceed with the mission. Shortly after you get the green light, you barge into interrogation room and carry out your mission.

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Given the nature of this role play, I really want this to feel like pure torture. I absolutely love getting my throat fucked. Everything about it, the tears, gagging, spit, choking, air deprivation and the submission aspect. I want it hard, fast and relentless. I may not seem like I'm enjoying myself during and I may fight back a little. Don't let that slow you down... I love it rough and it fits this role play perfectly. I don't want anything to feel scripted, you're in control and I will submit. I love not knowing what's coming and want no chances for breaks or to get comfortable. Like I said, pure torture. Feel free to call me names and I love heavy verbal abuse and humiliation but kept within the realm of the role play. All I ask is that you stay in character until we are finished.

 

Here is a list of what I'm into and NOT into:

 

What I'm into:

Not knowing what's next

Spanking (DON"T LEAVE MARKS)

Whips (DON"T LEAVE MARKS)

Extreme verbal abuse & yelling

Humiliation

Choking with your hands and cock

Big dildos being forced down my throat - if you're into it

Extreme gagging

Air deprivation

Light slapping (DON"T LEAVE MARKS)

Hair pulling

Forced into different positions (every position possible... I want all of them)

Spit

Thrown around and manhandled

Sucking balls and taint

Cock rings

My head and hair being used as leverage for deeper and faster fucking

Not letting up even when I struggle

I'll rim if you want but it's honestly not my favorite thing to do

 

NOT Into:

Anything penetrating my butt

 

Safe word is RED

 

In closing, I apologize for the long email but I appreciate you taking the time to read through it. I just wanted to get everything on the table. If this is something you don't think works for you, please tell me.

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Jamie21 Grand Master

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Age and ethnicity are not questions I ask. Obviously clients have to be over 21 but apart from that I never ask. However there are signs that clients give that indicate they’re a time waster for example, asking for discounts, lots of questions about what will happen, them sending pictures of themselves - guys, I’m not interested in what you look like, I’ll see you when you turn up.

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Bottom line, it's not how old you are, but how old you LOOK.

 

Self-care... It's a real thing. Especially when you're in a looks-based biz ;)

I’ve always felt this goes both ways. Both for client and escort. Over the years I have striven to maintain my looks, such as they are. This means eating well, exercising well, getting enough sleep, not taking drugs and drinking moderately. Sticking with this regime over many decades, I have been able to maintain my weight in a narrow range, avoided looking older than my years and in fact feel pretty good about my looks at 73. I look for the same in an escort. As I age, the age of escorts I will hire has kept pace. I still want someone younger than myself but anywhere between late 20’s to late 40’s is fine with me, depending on their looks of course. I feel you can read a lot in a person’s face, rather than just their body. If they have abused their bodies, the face will usually tell. Minding of course whether they have had recourse to cosmetic surgery :).

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