To Escorts: What's the Best Overnight Venue?

[orville]

Incall?

Outcall?

Hotel?

Else? (explain)

[Guest Cayden]

Hotel

[Kevin Slater]

I posted this in another thread, but as it somewhat relates, I'll repost it here:

 

Percentage lifetime gigs and revenue to date, by venue:

http://www.laterslater.com/venues.png

 

Kevin Slater

[orville]

I posted this in another thread, but as it somewhat relates, I'll repost it here:

 

Percentage lifetime gigs and revenue to date, by venue:

http://www.laterslater.com/venues.png

 

Kevin Slater

I can't see any image.

[Guest Cayden]

I posted this in another thread, but as it somewhat relates, I'll repost it here:

 

Percentage lifetime gigs and revenue to date, by venue:

http://www.laterslater.com/venues.png

 

Kevin Slater

 

Just curious, these are overnight sessions, or sessions overall?

[Kevin Slater]

Just curious, these are overnight sessions, or sessions overall?

 

Sessions overall.

 

Kevin Slater

[thisidethatside]

this chart ??

 

hotel

 

never hosted

[Quincy_7]

I've never done an overnight but if I ever did, it would be at a very nice hotel, think Four Seasons or Shangri-La.

[orville]

I've never done an overnight but if I ever did, it would be at a very nice hotel, think Four Seasons or Shangri-La.

Show off! You fancy boy ?

[MscleLovr]

I've never done an overnight but if I ever did, it would be at a very nice hotel, think Four Seasons or Shangri-La.

 

If a client may respond to the OP, when I hired I enjoyed overnights with a nice guy. My formula was full sex on meeting, then a good dinner, shorter session before sleeping and receiving a blowjob before breakfast. I always preferred to host at my place as I could be certain of a very big bed, clean linens and large bathrooms. Escorts told me they liked my place.

 

The only exceptions - using hotels - were when I had some group action or multiple play in prospect. I quite deliberately did not choose 5* hotels. My thinking was that it was easier for the working guys to be unnoticed if I chose good and busy 4* places that were well-located. As the host, I wanted to be able to organise room service liquor and wine and have housekeeping provide me with extra pillows and towels.

[orville]

If a client may respond to the OP, when I hired I enjoyed overnights with a nice guy. My formula was full sex on meeting, then a good dinner, shorter session before sleeping and receiving a blowjob before breakfast. I always preferred to host at my place as I could be certain of a very big bed, clean linens and large bathrooms. Escorts told me they liked my place.

 

The only exceptions - using hotels - were when I had some group action or multiple play in prospect. I quite deliberately did not choose 5* hotels. My thinking was that it was easier for the working guys to be unnoticed if I chose good and busy 4* places that were well-located. As the host, I wanted to be able to organise room service liquor and wine and have housekeeping provide me with extra pillows and towels.

Very good, very nice. You must be the favorite client of some escorts.

[Quincy_7]

 

The only exceptions - using hotels - were when I had some group action or multiple play in prospect. I quite deliberately did not choose 5* hotels. My thinking was that it was easier for the working guys to be unnoticed if I chose good and busy 4* places that were well-located. As the host, I wanted to be able to organise room service liquor and wine and have housekeeping provide me with extra pillows and towels.

 

Funny you say that. If you were hiring guys in their 20s I don't necessarily think they would struggle to fit in at a fancier hotel. From my observations of younger people who fly first class and stay in high end hotels, they dress pretty averagely. In fact when I've seen someone at an airport with designer luggage or clothing, they're more likely to turn right than left upon boarding.

[MscleLovr]

I don’t disagree @Quincy_7 but their dress was not my concern.

 

Very high-end hotels are smaller places generally with excellent security. I preferred busy places where businessmen might stay as I didn’t want the reception/front desk to be difficult when 3 or 4 guys arrived singly to visit my hotel room. I‘d generally book a suite and say there’d be a guest joining me overnight. And if asked, which happened once in LA, I’d answer a couple of friends were stopping by for drinks.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Funny you say that. If you were hiring guys in their 20s I don't necessarily think they would struggle to fit in at a fancier hotel. From my observations of younger people who fly first class and stay in high end hotels, they dress pretty averagely. In fact when I've seen someone at an airport with designer luggage or clothing, they're more likely to turn right than left upon boarding.

 

Much of a premium airline cabin is now made up of mileage redemptions and auto-upgrades, so you're often seeing frequent fliers up front who usually dress for the tarmac, not the runway.

 

And I'd agree about those with 'LV' luggage (or similar): They've spent a small fortune on that crap, but forgo paying for a first class seat. I'd personally rather build a rapport with an airline and be treated well thanks to my loyalty/business.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Very high-end hotels are smaller places generally with excellent security. I preferred busy places where businessmen might stay as I didn’t want the reception/front desk to be difficult when 3 or 4 guys arrived singly to visit my hotel room.

 

If there's going to be a parade, I'd agree that less is more in terms of visibility.

 

Otherwise, a high end hotel knows full-well that keeping a guest's discretion is always important. If an escort is visiting or staying with a client at a Four Seasons, Aman, Raffles, Peninsula, etc, it's in that property's best interest to be professional and tread lightly.

 

The problem isn't that they know what's happening (which they do), but that they'd make the guest uncomfortable about it at any point.

[Guest]

Incall?

Outcall?

Hotel?

Else? (explain)

 

I think the answer depends on the existing comfort level between the escort and client. With a pairing that have already had multiple and lengthier meetings, I would say the location is of secondary importance to the chemistry. Of course, if it's in the budget, travelling together or even booking a hotel close to planned activities (dining, shows, nightlife, etc) in your own town can make for a real night to remember.

 

For a newer client, who is taking a chance on an overnight sooner in a client-escort relationship, my experience is that familiar surroundings (i.e. their place, or a hotel they've gotten settled into) can help set them at ease, and enable them to guide the flow of the evening.

[Alex93108]

On 5/18/2020 at 2:30 PM, Benjamin_Nicholas said:

 

If there's going to be a parade, I'd agree that less is more in terms of visibility.

 

Otherwise, a high end hotel knows full-well that keeping a guest's discretion is always important. If an escort is visiting or staying with a client at a Four Seasons, Aman, Raffles, Peninsula, etc, it's in that property's best interest to be professional and tread lightly.

 

The problem isn't that they know what's happening (which they do), but that they'd make the guest uncomfortable about it at any point.

When I travel I tend to stay at nice places ( when I can afford it and when it makes sense. I can not rich and can't always afford it  ) but mostly because I enjoy the treat / experience - and its also a security / safety thing for me, in places where English is not widely spoken / security can be an issue.  Makes me feel safe as well as pampered.  I like to be pampered….especially when I am traveling

Aman will not let anyone who is not a registered guest into their property. Period. Other hotels of that level are bit more flexible , depends on the city/country.   I have plenty of experience with hotels of that caliber. How I go about this is to have the following conversation.

At the front desk

Me : "Hi - I am having a friend who isn't staying here visit me at the property. What is the protocol?"

Desk person : "Is he / she going to stay with you?"

Me: "No he's just visiting me for a few hours"

Desk person : "Have him drop by the desk. Is he coming on in his vehicle?

Me "Yes, he's arrving via an uber ( provide details )

 

The friend arrives

Me: "Hi - this is my friend who is visiting me . I will step out to the bar / lounge / other part of the lobby etc - you can ask him to come by when you are done signing him in"

Desk person "Certainly, Mr. Jet low….."

Front desk person and local friend speak whatever native language they speak. What usually happens is the front desk person makes a copy of ID etc - its all very safe.

And for hotels of this caliber - usually someone will come and offer a drink to my friend while he is made to wait. It takes no more than 3-5 minutes max. 

A few minutes later, a member of the staff escorts my friend to me, while I wait comfortably in the respectable part of the hotel lobby. My friend and I walk to my room, where the appointment begins.

You see its all very civilized, and proper!

 

Alternatively sometimes, I might get the concierge to handle this for me - it depends on the hotel you are staying.  Some hotels have special entrance and exists for such friends - which the concierge can facilitate, if I am not mistaken the Imperial Hotel in Tokyo, where friends ( "urisen") can discreetly enter and exit, via a separate discreet entrance  ( I miss Japan, haven't been in many years) 

Generally i think my friend and the concierge also have a certain understanding, and often know each other from my experience.

 

I have thought about sneaking my friend in, but I think that will cause problems - I also want to be / and appear respectable in a place like an Aman property - where the other guests also paid for the same kind of tranquil serenity….

Edited January 24, 2022 by jetlow

[Jamie21]

You’re clearly a professional @jetlow🙂. I agree with you, the Japanese have these etiquette things managed expertly. Appearances matter there.

[Rod Hagen]

On 1/23/2022 at 10:41 PM, jetlow said:

Aman will not let anyone who is not a registered guest into their property. Period. Other hotels of that level are bit more flexible , depends on the city/country.   I have plenty of experience with hotels of that caliber. How I go about this is to have the following conversation.

 

I love them, and also Aman's are funny to try to visit if you're not staying there.  Aman Tokyo, they held my luggage while I had a WONDERFUL lunch there.  I told Amangiri that I'd be passing by and would I be able to make a lunch reservation? "Call us the morning of" in other words, we want to assess the level of privacy/celebrity in-house, that day.  Aman Turks and Caicos is nearly impossible to get to if you're not staying there.  By the time I arrived for lunch, I had to turn around without going in because I did NOT want to be on that road at night in a rental car. 

Amangani is great for dinner if you're not staying there, or of course if you are.

[Rod Hagen]

On 1/23/2022 at 10:41 PM, jetlow said:

The friend arrives

Me: "Hi - this is my friend who is visiting me . I will step out to the bar / lounge / other part of the lobby etc - you can ask him to come by when you are done signing him in"

Desk person "Certainly, Mr. Jet low….."

Front desk person and local friend speak whatever native language they speak. What usually happens is the front desk person makes a copy of ID etc - its all very safe.

And for hotels of this caliber - usually someone will come and offer a drink to my friend while he is made to wait. It takes no more than 3-5 minutes max. 

 

 

 

I've told this story before, but YEARS ago I was to see a client at the Hotel Bel Air, I only knew his first name and his room number.  Having been there many times beforehand, I should have known better.  The front desk refused to call him without his last name, the front desk wanted to know at least why I was there, and I couldn't call him because I had no cell service in Bel Air.  We worked it out eventually, basically because I refused to leave, find better cell reception, call him to get his last name, then come back.

[Alex93108]

Hotels like that have polite ways of saying no which I am all too familiar with. You just need to be able to read between the lines.  The Mandarin Oriental in Central Park for example, will not let you sit in their lobby and have a drink - unless you are staying at the hotel. They have all kinds of ways / tricks employed to accomplish this, and will politely say "no"

As a matter of courtesy I usually exercise my method ( see above post) both for the comfort of the provider - as well as my personal reputation at certain hotels.

For those wanting true discretion, a more downmarket hotel is cheaper, if not sensible assuming security is not a concern ( I've done that)  Expectations need to be adjusted : . Just don't expect housekeeping to come over and change the sheets  after or bring you a nightcap in the evening.  

 

Edited January 28, 2022 by jetlow

[Storm4U]

Hotel or the client's home, wherever he is most comfortable. 

Edited January 28, 2022 by Storm4U

[+ Tygerscent]

On 5/17/2020 at 12:32 PM, orville said:

Incall?

Outcall?

Hotel?

Else? (explain)

I enjoy hosting, (hotel, home or Airbnb). I like to have the rooms set up and organized for all night long fun~ If I travel out, I often don’t have time to set much up and it can be disruptive to the natural flow of things~ 

 I often choose places that suit my needs in terms of beds, linens, towels, showers or bath tub, (some Clients prefer tubs over a shower). I may or may not pick a place proximal to good food but, can make up for that with adventure~ Since I see 99.9% bottoms, food isn’t of much interest to them for hygiene reasons~ In that case, I find a place that has something light or with breakfast~ For other appointments, I want access to theaters, symphony, arenas/colosseums for concerts, a track for racing cars or go carts, hiking, swimming, kayaking, hang gliding, plane gliding, ballooning or canoeing… that sort of thing~ 
 

Edited February 6, 2022 by Tygerscent

[DapperGent]

It is interesting this topic is suppose to be on escort’s choices for overnight stays and instead everyone here is hating on people that want to spend their money on luxury items? Really?! 😒😒😒😒

Edited March 8, 2022 by DapperGent

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

1 hour ago, DapperGent said:

It is interesting this topic is suppose to be on escort’s choices for overnight stays and instead everyone here is hating on people that want to spend their money on luxury items? Really?! 😒😒😒😒

Don't you know that the calling card of the insecure is to find fault with everyone and everything else? 

Edited March 8, 2022 by Benjamin_Nicholas