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[tallandark]

Hey, Is there a place where clients can talk about what they like, are looking for etc., so that providers can reach out if they think they fit the bill?

[tallandark]

I'd love to know if there was a kind of reverse RM for clients looking for guys that fit their interests. Where providers could look and reach out to clients.

[Smurof]

tallanddark, be a pioneer and try something like this. Ideas are often seen as crazy when they're different than what we're used to. Example : Milk, ON my cereal?? Why would I put my beverage on top of my cereal, what are you, insane? Note to all : I still eat my cereal dry and drink milk separately so I'm aware that today I'm the insane one. 

[+ IronMaus]

M4Mforum and RentMen can work well for this. When a client puts enough information in their profile for me to understand whether I could offer what they want, I'm inclined to message them and say just that. Many of my long term clients began with me messaging them first.
The reviews used to work for this when people reviewed more - based on who you review and what you say, escorts can get a good sense of your desires and whether we'd get along.

[Thomas_Belgium]

Hi,

Some days ago I tried this on my Grindr profile but didn't got a date yet.

[+ DrownedBoy]

On RM, you can have a profile as a client. But I never heard of an escort browsing those pages, or if they even can.

[Cure69]

On 8/11/2021 at 4:30 PM, IronMaus said:

M4Mforum and RentMen can work well for this. When a client puts enough information in their profile for me to understand whether I could offer what they want, I'm inclined to message them and say just that. Many of my long term clients began with me messaging them first.
The reviews used to work for this when people reviewed more - based on who you review and what you say, escorts can get a good sense of your desires and whether we'd get along.

Your advice is very helpful. But what about men like myself, I'd love to add images of myself but because I'm new to exploring my sexuality (unknown to everyone in my family), I'd refrain from posting a photo but would likely include lots of information about my likes and dislikes ...

... So, would an escort ever consider profiles without photos?

[Jamie21]

The interesting part of being a sex worker for me is that I don’t know who is coming to see me, obviously if they’re a regular I do, but many clients are new so I’ve no idea what they look like until the moment we meet. If I was to ‘select’ my clients that air of mystery is lost. 

Some clients send pictures and some send a description, even asking me if they’re ok to book a session, as in fit enough or sufficiently hung. I really don’t need to know, or mind how big you are or whether you’re overweight or skinny. All I need to know is that you’re healthy (and no Covid!) and will be fresh and clean. 

I also certainly haven’t got time to be scrolling through client profiles to select those I deem good enough to visit. 

So it’s a nice idea but I think most providers wouldn’t be interested. 
 

[Jarrod_Uncut]

So, there was once a site called Men4Rentnow.com that did a similar feature. Clients would post (albeit it was kind of a Craigslisty kind of way with very limited lines that wasn’t helpful) what they wanted and the rate they were willing to pay…and we could browse those listings and reach out to them. 
 

Its not a “bad” idea, but how effective it is would depend on how specific the search is. However, you may want to try Adam4Adam.com. This gives you chance to browse providers and “wink” at them or imply that you’re open to a “companion/generous”. However, it’s a bit harder deciphering who’s who and best to stick with paid pro members, versus random hits asking if you’re “generous”. 

[+ IronMaus]

On 8/12/2021 at 4:24 PM, Cure69 said:

Your advice is very helpful. But what about men like myself, I'd love to add images of myself but because I'm new to exploring my sexuality (unknown to everyone in my family), I'd refrain from posting a photo but would likely include lots of information about my likes and dislikes ...

... So, would an escort ever consider profiles without photos?

Of course! Photos aren't necessary. Just describe who you are, what you are looking for, and use the "physical" and "preferences" sections to be more thorough. This lets us know what you are looking for, removes a lot of pretense, and will attract more desirable attention for you.

[Cure69]

1 hour ago, IronMaus said:

Of course! Photos aren't necessary. Just describe who you are, what you are looking for, and use the "physical" and "preferences" sections to be more thorough. This lets us know what you are looking for, removes a lot of pretense, and will attract more desirable attention for you.

Thank you! This is great. Descriptions I can do! 😁 I'm really looking forward to this.

[Guest davebk]

I'm amazed by the number of providers on RM who will engage with me about a session and chat quite a bit but never click to take a look at my profile.

The ones that do are typically more likely to get my business because they tend to grab on to something I say and present those things as options for the session, letting me know I'll be in good hands.

[italianboyph]

I don’t think there is a reverse thing, but just as you can search for providers on RM we can search for clients in different areas as well. Part of being a provider is not knowing who’s walking in the door. There’s sorta an anticipation with that for me. I’ve had some clients send pictures, or some already have them listed on their profiles. I usually list what I’m into sexually so it gives a better idea.

[JustScott]

4 hours ago, davebk said:

I'm amazed by the number of providers on RM who will engage with me about a session and chat quite a bit but never click to take a look at my profile.

The ones that do are typically more likely to get my business because they tend to grab on to something I say and present those things as options for the session, letting me know I'll be in good hands.

I only recently filled out the “about me” portion of my RM profile.  I was pleasantly surprised when one provider I was communicating with commented on how helpful that information was.  As with all things YMMV but this guy checked me out after I contacted him and, yeah, that makes me more likely to book with him.  With this hobby, communication is key, but there are few absolutes about how, when, and where.  I figure if putting information on my profile helps, why not?

[jeezifonly]

Rather than a photo, I uploaded a courtroom artist sketch. Will that be off-putting? There’s a lot of color used, so the Orange doesn’t stand out as much. 🤞🏼

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

9 minutes ago, jeezifonly said:

Rather than a photo, I uploaded a courtroom artist sketch. Will that be off-putting? 

 

I object.

Permission to treat the witness as hostile.

[jeezifonly]

5 minutes ago, Benjamin_Nicholas said:

 

I object.

Permission to treat the witness as hostile.

You can badger me six ways to Sunday, Counselor. I grant the right for you to inspect my briefs, with a quid pro quo of my complete access to your motions. 😂

[Islesguy]

On 8/12/2021 at 7:11 PM, DrownedBoy said:

On RM, you can have a profile as a client. But I never heard of an escort browsing those pages, or if they even can.

There is member provider here who reached out to me after reading my client profile on RM. We have had good conversations but haven't met up yet because we live in different states. Hoping to meet him at some point.

[HotWhiteThirties]

On 8/11/2021 at 3:30 PM, IronMaus said:

M4Mforum and RentMen can work well for this. When a client puts enough information in their profile for me to understand whether I could offer what they want, I'm inclined to message them and say just that. Many of my long term clients began with me messaging them first.
The reviews used to work for this when people reviewed more - based on who you review and what you say, escorts can get a good sense of your desires and whether we'd get along.

I once maintained a personal RM page with pictures and a thorough description of what I was into. I will say the approach of @IronMauswas warm and appreciated, so much so that even though I have since taken down my profile, it made a positive impression on me that lingers still. (I took my profile down last spring when covid began doing it's deed amongst us all, as I decided there wasn't much point in having all of that out there as travel had stopped and my opportunities to meet dissipated.) IM's approach wasn't intrusive, but was warm and appreciated. I still hope that one day we might cross paths. 😁

On 8/12/2021 at 6:24 PM, Cure69 said:

Your advice is very helpful. But what about men like myself, I'd love to add images of myself but because I'm new to exploring my sexuality (unknown to everyone in my family), I'd refrain from posting a photo but would likely include lots of information about my likes and dislikes ...

... So, would an escort ever consider profiles without photos?

So, when I had my page, I kept quite a few pictures up, but I understand your position as I have similar concerns. Ultimately, in addition to the reasons I stated above, it added to my decision to take down the page. Having all of that floating out in the ether with no viable way to engage in the current environment and under my circumstances made me uncomfortable and a senseless risk. However, if my opportunities to meet guys increased again, I might reconsider having it back up. Not sure. My profile did have a lot of body pics, but no face photos - and I didn't send face photos except on rare occasions and AFTER a relationship/communication with a trusted (amongst forum members) provider was established. That only occurred once or twice privately. Bottomline, I get your concern, but I felt those pics I did have in addition to my history of reviews linked to my profile amd my description of interests helped legitimatize me to providers, and many would routinely reach out to me if I visited their profiles. I never found it terribly bothersome if they did. I appreciated they were active and engaged for the most part. 

Edited August 17, 2021 by HotWhiteThirties

[Cure69]

18 hours ago, HotWhiteThirties said:

I once maintained a personal RM page with pictures and a thorough description of what I was into. I will say the approach of @IronMauswas warm and appreciated, so much so that even though I have since taken down my profile, it made a positive impression on me that lingers still. (I took my profile down last spring when covid began doing it's deed amongst us all, as I decided there wasn't much point in having all of that out there as travel had stopped and my opportunities to meet dissipated.) IM's approach wasn't intrusive, but was warm and appreciated. I still hope that one day we might cross paths. 😁

So, when I had my page, I kept quite a few pictures up, but I understand your position as I have similar concerns. Ultimately, in addition to the reasons I stated above, it added to my decision to take down the page. Having all of that floating out in the ether with no viable way to engage in the current environment and under my circumstances made me uncomfortable and a senseless risk. However, if my opportunities to meet guys increased again, I might reconsider having it back up. Not sure. My profile did have a lot of body pics, but no face photos - and I didn't send face photos except on rare occasions and AFTER a relationship/communication with a trusted (amongst forum members) provider was established. That only occurred once or twice privately. Bottomline, I get your concern, but I felt those pics I did have in addition to my history of reviews linked to my profile amd my description of interests helped legitimatize me to providers, and many would routinely reach out to me if I visited their profiles. I never found it terribly bothersome if they did. I appreciated they were active and engaged for the most part. 

Wonderful, simply wonderful. Thank you for taking the time to write me. I sincerely appreciate this. 😌

[MikeBiDude]

On 8/14/2021 at 8:26 AM, davebk said:

I'm amazed by the number of providers on RM who will engage with me about a session and chat quite a bit but never click to take a look at my profile.

RM allows you to hide your visits to profiles. I have my visits set to hidden, perhaps some escorts do the same?

[+ RJD]

2 hours ago, MikeBiDude said:

RM allows you to hide your visits to profiles. I have my visits set to hidden, perhaps some escorts do the same?

I set mine to hidden after I was contacted incessantly by a provider after I viewed his profile once.  He's been unflatteringly discussed here in a dedicated thread.  I don't mind being contacted by a provider if he sees I viewed his profile.  It shows ambition and who knows, he may be friendly enough to pique my interest. But this guy was pinging me every day, sometimes more than once, and was too pushy in his approach.  It was actually a turn-off.      

[Thomas_Belgium]

Hi again

My Grindr profile with a description what I'm looking for didn't work. It's over two weeks I tried but the only messages I got were "hi" and similar.

[armiller1979]

I recently got together with a provider who contacted me first. He later said that since I had checked out his profile so many times, there's a good chance I'd take him up on his offer.  Needless to say, he was correct.  I'm not sure if I would have even known that he was in town if he hadn't reached out.  I do appreciate it if a provider reaches out first, as it dissipates a lot of the anxiety about sending that first message.  I do have information on my profile, which just makes it easier when communicating on RM.  I can say, "check my profile" rather than typing out what I'm into each and every time.