How often do you hire escorts?

[DallasClient]

I kept track and in the last 90 days I have seen 33. Figure that is too much and am going to cut back. In the past few years I think I have put two through college and paid the child support of an another (the escort's child, not the escort. I like'm young but c'mon).

 

Is there an average number?

[+ Tarte Gogo]

It is hard to say these days, what counts as hiring? A Spa masseur who goes very far, for a tip, counts as an escort hire? A Grindr guys who wants a bit of gas money counts?

 

But in any case, your are meeting more than 1 guy every 3 days.

I much closer to 1 guy every 5 days even if I count the above gray areas.

Impressed with your wallet size!

[DallasClient]

I don't do masseurs, but I am counting Grindr guys in the mix but always pay them about the same as RM guys. I need to cut back though.

[+ tassojunior]

I think once a week is a common spread, especially with a regular.

 

Of course that's the client who has the regular provider once a week. The provider often has several weekly clients. And even those who don't have a regular provider often seem to schedule once a week dates. Twice a week can be affordable too. Trice weekly is the top of most guys' budgets.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

This is the equivalent of asking a group of frequent fliers about their yearly mileage

[rvwnsd]

...Is there an average number?

1.625 per week is the national average.

 

The 0.625 does not kiss.

 

Of course, I am being facetious. There is no average number. It varies by individual.

[+ carlos45]

When I was carrying debt and a student loan, some years back, I hired quite a bit. Sometimes, four or fives times a year. I hired last, about a year ago. Now that I'm debt-free, I don't hire much, anymore.

[big-n-tall]

I don't think there is an average because people do different things depending on their horniness and how much money they have.

 

If you feel you're seeing too many, then cut back. It's going to be hard to pinpoint a frame of reference comparing your situation to others.

 

I've only hired 4 guys this entire year. One, in particular, I've just seen many many times.

[Studsearcher]

Once or twice a month for me, depending on the talent where I’m traveling. I used to hire more often but realized that, in my case, it had become more about the thrill of the hire than the actual session. I also realized there are much cheaper ways to get my thrills, so I made myself cut back.

[Constantine]

I've seen two guys since August. My hiring tends to be very slow for the most part but shoots up exponentially when I'm on vacation. I saw close to 10 guys when I was in London on holiday back in April.

[+ Keith30309]

A couple of times a week when there is some financial element (I.e., that includes guys I know from SA or A4A non-Pro’s) but that’s heavily weighted towards travel times.

[MidwestCoastal]

One weekend with the same guy, once a month. Occasionally add a two hour session or two with a different guy.

 

What I'm more curious about, what income people have in relation to how often they hire. I'm definitely torn sometimes... saving for retirement vs enjoying my current financial situation while I'm still relatively 'young'.

 

One more tangent... I have not had a 'non-hire' hook-up in years. My somewhat pessimistic outlook lately has me wondering - Would anyone fuck me if I didn't pay them? Its definitely putting a negative outlook on me finding a LTR. I'm thinking I should quit hiring for awhile.

[jawjateck]

Much less in the future.

[Harryinny]

I used to hire more often but realized that, in my case, it had become more about the thrill of the hire than the actual session.

 

So true!!!!

[Islesguy]

If I had the money and my two favorite guys lived near me, I would probably keep them on-call. LOL

[+ Tarte Gogo]

One weekend with the same guy, once a month. Occasionally add a two hour session or two with a different guy.

 

What I'm more curious about, what income people have in relation to how often they hire. I'm definitely torn sometimes... saving for retirement vs enjoying my current financial situation while I'm still relatively 'young'.

 

One more tangent... I have not had a 'non-hire' hook-up in years. My somewhat pessimistic outlook lately has me wondering - Would anyone fuck me if I didn't pay them? Its definitely putting a negative outlook on me finding a LTR. I'm thinking I should quit hiring for awhile.

Some young guys definitely like daddies, and may not need the money. You could try for a bit and see if they like your daddy-looks. You have to be psychologically ready to be rejected, ignored and blocked, though.

[+ 7829V]

If I had the money and my two favorite guys lived near me, I would probably keep them on-call. LOL

They’d want a retainer fee

[marylander1940]

I don't do masseurs, but I am counting Grindr guys in the mix but always pay them about the same as RM guys. I need to cut back though.

 

 

Exactly! If you're paying they're escorts.

 

I'm glad you unlike others don't brag on here about saving a $50 bill.

 

I hire 3 times per month.

[Milo Farnsworth]

Not as often as i'd like.

[+ 7829V]

One weekend with the same guy, once a month. Occasionally add a two hour session or two with a different guy.

 

What I'm more curious about, what income people have in relation to how often they hire. I'm definitely torn sometimes... saving for retirement vs enjoying my current financial situation while I'm still relatively 'young'.

 

One more tangent... I have not had a 'non-hire' hook-up in years. My somewhat pessimistic outlook lately has me wondering - Would anyone fuck me if I didn't pay them? Its definitely putting a negative outlook on me finding a LTR. I'm thinking I should quit hiring for awhile.

 

I have a side job/gig and I use that money to hire, dinning out, theater, all the fun stuff. I don't touch my primary income for that. I usually hire 1/wk but I do mostly masseurs. Escorts not that often.

 

Regarding... your second concern, for me is more about convenience, to schedule when I need/want than wasting time on grindr. I have a guy that lives a mile away from me! But is a pain to schedule our calendars or actually meet. He's really hot, but our schedules don't match. Same with others that when I set up a hookup with them, they cancel last minute due to family/friends/etc. With escorts/masseurs is different/easier, specially when they are regulars. In my mind is more convenience that thinking if I can have sex without paying, but I have to admit that when I have sex off grindr, it feels strange not paying, haha.

 

Regaring a LTR, I'm not actively looking. I could say I have 2 guys that are like my boyfriends (but they are not) we spend a lot of time together, one of them sleeps with me 4 nights a week (we rarely have sex nowadays, is more the closeness/affection we have for each other), and the other one sometimes spends the night too. So I have a lot in my plate at the moment I'd say. I'm grateful for all these, I think I'm living the best time of my life (I'm in my early 40s)

[+ oldNbusted]

There is no average number.

 

How could you let your grade school math teacher down like this? Of course there is an average, it's just that none of us know what it is. :D

 

What the OP probably probably really meant is to ask what is typical and that is where you hit the nail on the head:

 

It varies by individual.

[KeepItReal]

How could you let your grade school math teacher down like this? Of course there is an average, it's just that none of us know what it is. :D

 

What the OP probably probably really meant is to ask what is typical and that is where you hit the nail on the head:

Average means you are the best of the worst and the worst of the best. You can do better!

 

[+ oldNbusted]

Average means you are the best of the worst and the worst of the best. You can do better!

 

I want to be different, just like everybody else...

 

[+ keroscenefire]

I'm usually averaging about twice a month. One per paycheck at most is all I can afford.

[myophile]

I'm usually averaging about twice a month. One per paycheck at most is all I can afford.

 

Same here—twice a month/once a paycheck.