What’s been the greatest age-gap between you and a sex partner?

[+ Avalon]

I saw this poll over at Gay Star News and thought that it would be an interesting topic to discuss here.

[+ Charlie]

42 years. (I was the younger one)

[BabyBoomer]

31 years. I was the older one.

 

~Boomer~

[+ HornyRetiree]

50 years, I was the older and he was legal and not a teenager.

[Inkdnaija00]

11 years..I was the younger one

[Rudynate]

20 years. I was the younger.

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

25 years. I was the older.

[Smurof]

16 years with me being the older. An appointment with horrible chemistry could have been 23 years age difference, but when he is older and more mature I'd like to try again.

[marylander1940]

I saw this poll over at Gay Star News and thought that it would be an interesting topic to discuss here.

 

A partner, a one night stand or an escort?

[+ Avalon]

A partner, a one night stand or an escort?

 

Makes no difference; whatever you so choose.

[marylander1940]

Makes no difference; whatever you so choose.

 

One night stand: 30 younger

 

Partner: one was 10 years older the other one 15 years younger.

 

Escort: 54 years difference... yes I'm 78 (and pass as 60...) and he's 24.

 

https://rentmen.eu/SeamusOreilly I just reviewed him and recommended him by PM

Edited October 1, 2018 by marylander1940

[MikeBiDude]

44 years, me the older.

Currently an ongoing 42 years me again the older

All the younger guys over 18 btw

[liubit]

40: he had just turned 18. Yummy.

[Guest europeanman]

30 years. He was xxx.

 

Admin Note: 18 is the minimum age to be posted on this site.

Edited October 1, 2018 by Cooper

[MscleLovr]

42 years (me being older) and ongoing

[LookingAround]

40 years

[steed8]

I was 24 years younger than an army colonel who basically doubled my age at the time we met. Initially I always saw him in his uniform given that we met repeatedly in a business setting. But I'll never forget thinking I eneeded smelling salts when he turned up at my door wearing a tight-fitting white Izod polo after we'd exchanged info so as to meet.

We stayed in touch as friends for a few years and then lost contact.

 

Interestingly, about 5 years ago I ran across mention of him innocently while doing environmental research & then went on to look specifically for him.

I know that he is now a widower & I also found a street address. Since finding this info, I've been pondering reaching out to him via a brief note of "Hello". This would not at all be under consideration if I didn't think I knew his character & personality well enough to think that he'd welcome a "hello".

Has anyone here ever done such a thing?

[marylander1940]

I was 24 years younger than an army colonel who basically doubled my age at the time we met. Initially I always saw him in his uniform given that we met repeatedly in a business setting. But I'll never forget thinking I eneeded smelling salts when he turned up at my door wearing a tight-fitting white Izod polo after we'd exchanged info so as to meet.

We stayed in touch as friends for a few years and then lost contact.

 

Interestingly, about 5 years ago I ran across mention of him innocently while doing environmental research & then went on to look specifically for him.

I know that he is now a widower & I also found a street address. Since finding this info, I've been pondering reaching out to him via a brief note of "Hello". This would not at all be under consideration if I didn't think I knew his character & personality well enough to think that he'd welcome a "hello".

Has anyone here ever done such a thing?

 

Do it, go for it!

[BasketBaller]

22 years, I was the younger, and it was a woman.

 

With a man, 12 years and I was younger.

[+ Charlie]

Because I was quite young--17--when I came out, it was natural that most of my gay friends and sexual partners were older than I was. The 42 year difference I referenced in my opening post was a result of being ready to sleep with almost anyone who was willing, and one of my first gay friends was a man who was 59. I was the one who initiated the relationship, and he was somewhat hesitant. I really had no idea how old he was, until another acquaintance invited me to a 60th birthday party for him. Many of the men I had sex with when I was a teenager were in their 30s and 40s, because they were the only ones who had a place where we could do it; I didn't have a place of my own until I was 21, by which time I had already had a lot of sex. As I aged, I still preferred men who were at least my own age and usually older; I only had one serious affair with someone younger (4 years younger). Even when I started hiring escorts, they were rarely more than a few years younger than I was, until I approached retirement, when the mature escort demographic thinned out.

[+ Avalon]

Do it, go for it!

 

Yes! Go for it!

[Gvtire]

I feel strange. With a 14 mos age difference.

[pubic_assistance]

Every year, I bang a 19 year old the difference gets bigger......amazing how math works.

[+ OliverSaks]

He was 81 (even though he told us during the initial email contact that he was 71). I was much, much younger.

[BaronArtz]

Interesting question. I have never, ever done it with someone older than myself, and not even with someone in my age bracket. Always younger. The age gap has grown from 5 to 30 years as I got older. I guess my sweet spot is guys age 18-25.