How much of a one-hour session is actual sex?

[jbsjbs99]

How much of a one-hour session is actual sex? Is it 20, 30, 40, 60 minutes, et? I'd appreciate a timetable of your typical session broken down by minutes.

 

Just trying to figure out what is typical -- because it seems to vary by provider.

[Keenan]

I'd say "if" sex does happen since it doesn't always happen that after initial introduction and other parts that it's probably about 20 minutes +/- some. This doesn't include the foreplay.

 

Keenan

[jbsjbs99]

Thanks Keenan. I always include foreplay with sex

 

So how much time would you think is foreplay plus sex?

 

I'd say "if" sex does happen since it doesn't always happen that after initial introduction and other parts that it's probably about 20 minutes +/- some. This doesn't include the foreplay.

 

Keenan

[cany10011]

My encounters are usually like:

10 minute conversation

5 minute shower

25 minute foreplay and sex

5 minute shower again

2 minutes for putting on shoes and saying goodbye

[MartyB]

it's not standard and depends on a regular escort versus a first time meet. With a regular escort I would say 30 to 45 minutes of sex. No need to chat until after we've had out fun. With a first timer need to chat a bit because sometimes texting and working out what we both "enjoy" takes a bit of time to work out. But I've been shocked when it's "magic" and it's nice chemistry and heat and things flow organically that's awesome.

[bnm73]

I never objected to "diving right in," if I can use a play on words. Sometimes it was "open door, take a quick look, and lock lips."

 

That said, I didn't rely on the internet back then, so I already had a "feel" (forgive this play on words, too) of who I was with and what was expected before we went back to his place, a hotel room, etc. These days when you've never met -- much less seen -- each other first, I imagine that there is a bit more "meet and greet" time included...which means less time for the fun stuff.

[LivingnLA]

For me, the entire hour is interactive, but a significant chunk of it is verbally interactive. At least, that's my client perspective and probably just my personality quirk. Foreplay for me is communication and making some connection, however limited. That's also probably why I don't typically do 1-hour sessions. It's not enough time for me.

[bigvalboy]

At my age it's about 5 mins, give or take....

[+ sf westcoaster]

Time spent depends on what you consider "actual sex".

[LJNYC83]

I’m game for whatever. I like to follow my client’s lead. And I’m not one to watch the clock, so if we talked a bit and then got to having sex, I would hardly care if it went over a bit if we are having fun.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Breaking it down like this takes every ounce of fun out of a meeting. If this is how someone thinks about meeting with an escort, perhaps they should reevaluate.

 

If minute-to-minute is of importance, discuss it privately with your guy. There is no hard and fast rule on any of this.

[FTM Zachary Prince]

Well it depends... how long can you last before you explode?? I tend to push my clients up against a wall and have my tongue and fingers inside their nooks and crannies within moments of my hotel room door closing. First impressions really set the tone. It’s not unusual for me to drop to my knees right there behind the door. Oh... you need a shower? OK, I guess I can give you a moment for that. After all, my tongue wants to be able to go *everywhere*. My sexual repertoire is so varied that an hour is really not enough time for my sessions. It’s why I have a two hour minimum. The sex I have with my clients tends to take a minimum of 1.5 hours between oral every which way, fucking in both directions, prostate stimulation, tease & denial (more oral), and the big finish. And usually guys cum so hard that they need 5-10 minutes before they can form complete sentences let alone get showered and dressed. So I don’t really have an answer for how much sex happens in a one hour appointment. One hour appointments don’t exist for me. When I used to schedule one hour appointments, I was kicking people out well before either of us wanted them to have to leave. My 90 minute appointments consistently ran overtime. Hence now I have a two hour minimum and all my clients seem happier. The way I personally like to have sex, I don’t even understand how to fit it all into a one hour booking. Whenever guys come to me for an hour thinking they only want to try X and Y activities, they always end up wanting to do more once we are together.

 

I agree with the other comments that say every encounter is different tho. You shouldn’t really try to pin a number of minutes on the sexual activity you should expect from any particular length of appointment.

[instudiocity]

Breaking it down like this takes every ounce of fun out of a meeting. If this is how someone thinks about meeting with an escort, perhaps they should reevaluate.

 

If minute-to-minute is of importance, discuss it privately with your guy. There is no hard and fast rule on any of this.

Especially when some of us don't get hard fast! LOL!

[instudiocity]

... The sex I have with my clients tends to take a minimum of 1.5 hours between oral every which way, fucking in both directions, prostate stimulation, tease & denial (more oral), and the big finish. And usually guys cum so hard that they need 5-10 minutes before they can form complete sentences let alone get showered and dressed...

The way I personally like to have sex, I don’t even understand how to fit it all into a one hour booking.

TART!

LOL!

[ServeUncutUncle]

With the right guy I like to get my Moneys worth and cum twice in a session. If its not a double session then he's not the right guy for me, so 20 mins and Thank You.

[mike carey]

Meh, the whole hour is actual sex. Talking about it, playing around, PIA sex all counts. The division between those is up to you. How could a tight embrace not count?

[Kinky Boyfriend]

I think one trouble in answering this question comes from the idea of "actual sex" - that itself means different things for different people.

 

What people seek from a sexual encounter varies person to person.

 

Soft intimacy, naked cuddling, bound and gagged, fisting - these are all activities that tap into one's sensual, sexual self.

[Kinky Boyfriend]

Also - treating sex as pretty much anything other than an explorative conversation about connection and affirmation that we're having using our bodies and psyches is doing ourselves a disservice, in my opinion.

[+ Reisr30]

I have not yet set up an hour meeting. The shortest meeting I schedule is 3 hours and usually it’s a 4 hour meetings so we can get to know each other and not feel rushed. Am I strange for doing so?

[big-n-tall]

Depends on the booty.

Edited August 17, 2018 by big-n-tall

[MartyB]

I have not yet set up an hour meeting. The shortest meeting I schedule is 3 hours and usually it’s a 4 hour meetings so we can get to know each other and not feel rushed. Am I strange for doing so?

No. But if your in a market like NYC a 4 hour meeting would be a very steep $ amount. Not many of us can swing that kind of luxury.

[+ GregM]

I have not yet set up an hour meeting. The shortest meeting I schedule is 3 hours and usually it’s a 4 hour meetings so we can get to know each other and not feel rushed. Am I strange for doing so?

 

Nope. If that's what you like that's what you like. Personally I prefer the multi hour appt for those very reasons. The pump n dump appts are fine but the multi hour ones are the best so that things can happen organically and not be rushed.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[Rudynate]

I never objected to "diving right in," if I can use a play on words. Sometimes it was "open door, take a quick look, and lock lips.

 

 

That's what I like.

[HotWhiteThirties]

I have not yet set up an hour meeting. The shortest meeting I schedule is 3 hours and usually it’s a 4 hour meetings so we can get to know each other and not feel rushed. Am I strange for doing so?

 

I’m with you. For me, if I can’t swing at least 2 to 3 hours, then I’ll wait until I can!

[jbsjbs99]

Thanks everybody, especially those who gave me specific times. I wasn't expecting this much discussion -- this is my most responded-to post so far. All the info is helpful.

 

And as much as I would like multi-hour sessions all the time, the budget doesn't allow for that.

 

Keep the comments coming!