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in most aspects of life, don't forget that..... 
We Reap What We Sow

If you’re going to use BIG words…at least learn how to spell them. 
It’s "ultracrepidarians".
Or use simple words…..like "cunt".

Whenever I’m at a bar and someone is crying into their beer
that no one likes them, I usually observe several things…….
A) no one wants to be around someone who’s feeling sorry for themselves,
so the behavior is a self fulfilling prophecy. Buck-up butter cup. 
B) the pity party host, is usually fixated on the "perfect 10’s" in the room and 
ignoring the other 99% of the room. Look around with your eyes wide open.
There are usually several interested men sitting right next to you that
you’ve overlooked. 
C) alcohol never helps the situation. 
D) if you really think you’re that much of a shit show that no one wants to 
be around, (you’re not but let’s assume you honestly feel this way) then start
taking inventory and start changing the things about yourself that you can.
None of us is gonna get new genes or win the lottery, but we can all improve
our bodies and start being more responsible with our spending. Baby steps.
E) non-arrogant self confidence is sexy as fuck. Learn to project it. Personally, 
having a killer wardrobe helps me pull this one off. But find whatever gives you
confidence in being you, and use it to your advantage. 
F) escorts are a temporary fix but looking to them to solve this problem is delusional.
They're like crutches. There’s nothing wrong with crutches when you need them, 
but they’re never going to help you fly. 

If that's your ass in your avatar....I think I know the answer. 

Difficult to do dainty kisses. You’re not kissing your grandmother!…. I love kissing and am slightly disappointed if my client doesn’t want to be kissed (although I don’t show it…I hope!). Kiss with abandon, kiss with eyes open, hold his head, explore his neck, ears, chest, all over his body, that’s how I like to kiss. 

Reminds me of a sociology professor I had who basically said that employers pay employees to set themselves (particularly their emotional selves) aside.  His point was that workers are not just paid to accomplish a task but also to do so without letting themselves get in the way of work.  My favorite escorts have been men who are a good mix of being genuine and providing fantasy.  If someone is too detached, it's very difficult for me to have fun.  I have no delusions that these guys would have chosen to get in bed with me if they weren't working, but a good escort is someone who can create pleasure in the moment with clients and not convey, even subtly, that the only reason they are there is money. 

Similar situation happened to me, perhaps even worse: I actually arrived at the guy's place, parked my car, texted him for the apartment number, and was told "Sorry I cannot host"
Tried to leave a warning on RentMasseur and it was rejected.

From what I can see providers can get negative reviews removed from RM quite easily which is unfortunate. 
I've had a provider confirm a meeting twice, only to cancel with no explanation. In fact, he didn't cancel, he went silent around the time of the meeting when i had arrived near his place. he messaged the following day saying he was busy! Pointless leaving a review on RM as I'm sure it would disappear again very quickly 🙄

There speaks a professional. Well said. I totally agree. I always think “this client has chosen me for his massage / fun…out of all the other options available to him he has chosen me. What a fantastic compliment that is! I shall make sure that he feels fantastic about that choice and really make his day”. 

There's an old saying that rings true for this topic.
It's not what you say, but how you say it.
Of course an escort makes choices in his clientele.  Everyone has preferences, limits and lines.  However, it's HOW you say 'no, thank you' that separates a great escort from just another five-and-dime hooker.  You never go out of your way to make someone feel less-than.  You spare people's feelings, always. 
We're in the business of making people feel great and it defeats the purpose if we act like we're cruising Grindr.

While I don’t send pictures, I will painful describe myself if asked. 
In fact, I most likely "undersell" the product just like I do in real 
life hook ups. I’m always happier when the other person opens 
the door and they’re relieved by what they see versus disappointed. 
If we’re not a match, for whatever reason (racism, bigotry, 
homophobia, body nazism, etc.) I’d rather know before I plan my
evening and open my wallet. Guys who get butt hurt about this
always amuse me. Wait?….you want to spend time with a dude who 
is repulsed by you and is willing to chew his arm off to get
away from you? Come on!
Too many fish kids. Move on and find the right one. 

The pictures in the first ad are of former Sean Cody/Men.com model, Jarek/Jarec Wentworth.
Last I heard, Jarec was still in the US and hadn’t emigrated to Ireland, so the first ad is likely a fake.

Thanks for these recommendations -- greatly appreciated. 

So… Hemorrhoids and skin tags occur with relative frequency and they’re neither contagious nor infectious for the most part if they are truly hemorrhoids and skin tags. I do feel that Service Providers have both an obligation and opportunities to learn about what is infectious and what is not, what is a sexually transmitted infection and what is not. I understand where a service provider might be off put/confused/concerneded when they come in to a meeting completely unaware and have to make an instant assessment to something that may or may not have an impact on their health or ability to work if they are exposed to something unexpectedly. Having to take off of work for two weeks or more when your only income or necessary income is being a Service Provider a dilemma~ A Client who is married or partnered may have their own concerns~ Compassionate communication is the key~
I have had a number of Clients with these conditions as well as other things like: eczema, psoriasis, arthritis, pigmentation issues, scars from radiation treatments when they had cancer, C-pap machines, you name it… Sometimes they may have had their prostate biopsied or they may be recovering from a stroke, heart attack or any number of things~ 
 While these are things to be aware of, they are not detrimental or necessarily a deal breaker to fun play and really happy session together.
 I realize that this is not a perfect world, (and to its benefit not a perfect world for other reasons), but, it also may be beneficial for people who are playing frequently to go and get tested for STI’s quarterly, (or more depending on their play styles)~ That way… you can communicate with a person that you are going to play with that your STI‘s have come back clean, but, that you have this other thing going on that isn’t infectious or contagious.
 That type of communication may better establish the necessary trust to work through a situation together in a way that enables you to have a wonderful time together~ 

Calling other people "dude" or "rudest person" just because you wanted to bed them and you did not does not make you seem exactly polite. It tells about you, not about me. I respond to all polite inquiries, however, I do not think demeaning words or requests warrant a response.

Understood. To each his own. And he is smoking. KingRicco in NYC advertises as straight but you wouldn’t know it. Quite the performer!
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