So I have a puzzling thought about this kink

[Rand]

Just can’t figure it out. Several times already, on RM, rentmasseur and Grindr I hooked up with guys that really jumping onto rimming me for hours but won’t kiss. Or just a little bit and flipping me over again.  What’s up with that? I know some people think that mouth has more bad stuff than ass hole but still… I’m always fresh and clean in all of my holes lol But… why? Have you noticed that some guys are nastier when they don’t see your face? Or is it a fetish they want to “face” and not deal with a person on the other end?

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not complaining. I love getting my ass eaten. For hours. But I enjoy kissing too and it’s so hot and intimate. 
 

Please share your thoughts. 

[pubic_assistance]

12 minutes ago, Rand said:

I love getting my ass eaten. For hours. But I enjoy kissing too and it’s so hot and intimate. 

Exactly.

"Intimate".

When you're hiring a sex worker you're getting sex, not a boyfriend.

You need to be hiring escorts who specifically offer a "boyfriend experience".

[Rand]

13 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

Exactly.

"Intimate".

When you're hiring a sex worker you're getting sex, not a boyfriend.

You need to be hiring escorts who specifically offer a "boyfriend experience".

That’s exactly what I do. Always. 
BFE is the best for me. 
Alas, here I am 😝 

[+ nycman]

42 minutes ago, Rand said:

Just can’t figure it out....Please share your thoughts. 

If that's your ass in your avatar....I think I know the answer. 

[Rand]

Just now, nycman said:

If that's your ass in your avatar....I think I know the answer. 

It IS my ass on avatar but hey… I have lips too lol

[Phil_musc]

The solution to your problem (and I'm not sure that it is really a problem) is to hire two guys at once - that way both holes can be accommodated. I'm surprised no one else thought of this.

[Luv2play]

You see that in gay porn all the time. But it is an expensive option 

[Rand]

19 hours ago, Luv2play said:

You see that in gay porn all the time. But it is an expensive option 

Indeed. Very expensive. 

[jeezifonly]

@Rand You do appear to have (with utmost respect) an inviting asset.
One variable you don’t mention is how broad a field is included in the type(s) you hire. If your hiring practices are already somewhat narrow by other qualities like age, race, hair, ink, size, s I z e, aspects of the turn-ons for the provider within your type will be the hardest to quantify ahead of time. For some, the most intimate is kissing, for some it’s eye contact or conversation. A little phone convo can help a lot with this. For providers who are in a relationship kissing can be the thing saved for the S.O. Making out and getting rimmed are the two things most likely to be “it depends”, so you are indeed ahead so far. 

[Rand]

9 minutes ago, jeezifonly said:

@Rand You do appear to have (with utmost respect) an inviting asset.
One variable you don’t mention is how broad a field is included in the type(s) you hire. If your hiring practices are already somewhat narrow by other qualities like age, race, hair, ink, size, s I z e, aspects of the turn-ons for the provider within your type will be the hardest to quantify ahead of time. For some, the most intimate is kissing, for some it’s eye contact or conversation. A little phone convo can help a lot with this. For providers who are in a relationship kissing can be the thing saved for the S.O. Making out and getting rimmed are the two things most likely to be “it depends”, so you are indeed ahead so far. 

Usually I hire for BFE experience with pretty standard set of turn ons. Kissing and rimming should be on that list for me to consider that guy. Probably I’m more surprised of the fact how some guys are not comfortable with looking in the face and kissing. 

[jeezifonly]

37 minutes ago, Rand said:

Usually I hire for BFE experience with pretty standard set of turn ons. Kissing and rimming should be on that list for me to consider that guy. Probably I’m more surprised of the fact how some guys are not comfortable with looking in the face and kissing. 

It may be the one thing they save for their private lives. If it’s essential, don’t expect, just ask. 

[marylander1940]

On 1/23/2022 at 10:44 AM, Rand said:

Just can’t figure it out. Several times already, on RM, rentmasseur and Grindr I hooked up with guys that really jumping onto rimming me for hours but won’t kiss. Or just a little bit and flipping me over again.  What’s up with that? I know some people think that mouth has more bad stuff than ass hole but still… I’m always fresh and clean in all of my holes lol But… why? Have you noticed that some guys are nastier when they don’t see your face? Or is it a fetish they want to “face” and not deal with a person on the other end?

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not complaining. I love getting my ass eaten. For hours. But I enjoy kissing too and it’s so hot and intimate. 
 

Please share your thoughts. 

If you post a link to the masseurs and escorts willing to rim a client their phones won't stop ringing with guys offering money.

On 1/23/2022 at 10:59 AM, pubic_assistance said:

Exactly.

"Intimate".

When you're hiring a sex worker you're getting sex, not a boyfriend.

You need to be hiring escorts who specifically offer a "boyfriend experience".

Rimming is part of a real BFE experience but kissing is even more

[Rand]

9 hours ago, marylander1940 said:

If you post a link to the masseurs and escorts willing to rim a client their phones won't stop ringing with guys offering money.

Rimming is part of a real BFE experience but kissing is even more

I thought that kissing is a part of BFE but rimming is something extra you get if the chemistry is right. Well, that was my thought before I started hiring. Personally, I’d kiss almost anyone, given the fact that I like that person. But I’d rimm only someone I truly like and he’s clean. Seems like it’s a reversed situation amongst providers. 

[+ Tygerscent]

On 1/23/2022 at 10:44 AM, Rand said:

Just can’t figure it out. Several times already, on RM, rentmasseur and Grindr I hooked up with guys that really jumping onto rimming me for hours but won’t kiss. Or just a little bit and flipping me over again.  What’s up with that? I know some people think that mouth has more bad stuff than ass hole but still… I’m always fresh and clean in all of my holes lol But… why? Have you noticed that some guys are nastier when they don’t see your face? Or is it a fetish they want to “face” and not deal with a person on the other end?

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not complaining. I love getting my ass eaten. For hours. But I enjoy kissing too and it’s so hot and intimate. 
 

Please share your thoughts. 

I love that you love having your ass eaten… for hours~ (~sigh… swoon… love…~).

 I can’t imagine not kissing~ Maybe it’s them with the oral hygiene issues~ maybe they smoke pot or cigarettes… maybe ate garlic or didn’t brush their teeth cause they weee in such a hurry to meet you and dive into your sweet butt~ 
 Kissing is: a language of its own and novels can be written with just lips and the tip of a tip of a tongue… or too~ 

[Rand]

7 hours ago, Tygerscent said:

I love that you love having your ass eaten… for hours~ (~sigh… swoon… love…~).

 I can’t imagine not kissing~ Maybe it’s them with the oral hygiene issues~ maybe they smoke pot or cigarettes… maybe ate garlic or didn’t brush their teeth cause they weee in such a hurry to meet you and dive into your sweet butt~ 
 Kissing is: a language of its own and novels can be written with just lips and the tip of a tip of a tongue… or too~ 

You are right. Kissing is an art. Especially French kissing. TBO I always ask to French kiss my lips and ass. It’s the best and a major turn on. 
 

Bad kissing couldn’t be any gross. I had a boyfriend who was trying too hard and it felt like he was going to bite my face off with extra saliva. Needless to say we didn’t hang for long.