carp86

Yep. Visited him a few days ago. The massage itself went beyond, and the beyond was VERY good. He mentioned he's leaving the US over winter but should be returning in the spring. 

For me, the forking path of decision-making goes like this:
(a) Photos
(b) Face photos*
(c) Description/Services offered/Intos
(d) Length in RM and number of reviews (is this a new profile? is this likely to be false? etc)
 
I make a list of those who have passed these initial four filters, then I come to M4M to check for the real user experiences. This last filter determines the overall ranking.
I contact the first on my list, see whether a booking can be done, etc. If no response within a reasonable window of time, I proceed to the next, etc. 
 
 
 
*Faceless profiles get less score, but if otherwise alluring, I will see if they have private photos or can send over DM/Message. If by the end of it I have no face pic, it will be a no for me, no matter what reviewers say. This is based on previous experiences with faceless RM profiles that were disappointing for me. 

Taking the plunge this weekend. Will keep you posted 😮.

Taking the plunge this weekend. Will keep you posted 😮.

No, it doesn't. It was my first time using Zelle and I was also annoyed at that.
In Venmo I only use my initials, and all transactions are set to private. 

My worst experience was being greeted upon arrival with some rant about how people don't do cash anymore (before meeting I have asked whether Zelle or Venmo could work, to which he said yes), followed by him demanding Zelle payment before anything happened.
I wished I had run away. His whole demeanor in those initial 3 minutes were enough red flags to foreshadow the waste of money this was going to be.
I should have left... but didn't. 
I regret it to this day. My worst experience to date. 

Don' take for certain ANYTHING you read on rentmen.  ----- vet, Vet, VET.  research, Research, RESEARCH. 

Remember, he is offering time in exchange for payment. Expectations of anything beyond sharing time in the same space can lead to disappointment. I always bring some knitting just in case - that way it’s only money being wasted 🤓
 

I feel better now. 🤭. 
 

I get a lot of this "masseur" scammers on Grindr, who are just trying to phish for your CC details through "their very secure" website. 
Run to the hills. 

Hookers pretty outdated. Sex workers kind of deserve respect for the service they provide. 

@Roberto If the guy is using Venmo or CashApp - something well know that *maybe* it’s ok.
But, there’s also a scam  on Grindr/Scruff where a great menu of massage services are offered, but in the end they want you to go to a verification “scheduling” site for the $5 deposit. That site will in fact ask for your personal information including credit card. Be careful, I’d avoid

Sounds hot as fuck! 
If you welcome passive by-standers just to observe, give me a shout 🤪

Sounds hot as fuck! 
If you welcome passive by-standers just to observe, give me a shout 🤪

Sounds hot as fuck! 
If you welcome passive by-standers just to observe, give me a shout 🤪

My sure fires initial inquiry that nearly always garner a response is some version of this. 
 
“Hello. I found your ad online and would like to meet you. I’m visiting from New York until Thursday and hosting at the ______ hotel at _______ street. I’m available after 7pm any night this week and would like at least an hour, possibly two hour session to be finished no later than 1am.  I am prepared to pay with cash, Venmo, PayPal, Apple Pay or cash app. Let me know your hourly rate and which day if any you’re available and I’ll share a bit more of what I’m looking for so you can decide if we’re a match. Thanks for your time.”
 
it at LEAST lands me a companion whenever I want one, even if not always my first choice.  

Nope…
Closer…..
Closer…..
The correct answer is "Gastrocloic Reflex".
Time to learn about how you poop children…..
(if you want to skip ahead, although god only knows why you would, the gastrocolic reflex comes in around 11:20)
 

I'm not a doctor and don't play one on TV, but my personal experience is that if I eat anything substantial it will cause the rest of my digestive tract to become active.  I've always thought about it like turning on a conveyor belt, where everything gets moved down the line at the same time. 

If a provider comes over, asks to use the bathroom for #2, you have a small apt and you can hear everything going on in there...would be a total buzzkill for me! 
 
 

Lukas continues to be so fucking hot. 
It seems he has certainly aged well. 

Lukas continues to be so fucking hot. 
It seems he has certainly aged well. 

Lukas continues to be so fucking hot. 
It seems he has certainly aged well. 

Lukas continues to be so fucking hot. 
It seems he has certainly aged well. 

Lukas continues to be so fucking hot. 
It seems he has certainly aged well. 

Lukas continues to be so fucking hot. 
It seems he has certainly aged well.