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Sorry if this is an upsetting suggestion, but I think it’s important you consider all possibilities here.
 
Is he from another country? If so, he could just be using you for a visa and documents to be able to permanently stay in the country. I personally know quite a number of the Brazilian escorts here in the UK who have married clients just so that they could stay here legally. 

No headshots in the ad
I also as a general rule interpret short text messages, especially in response to longer ones, as generally uninterested. 
 
Me: Hey! I saw your ad and would like to ask a few questions. Could you please tell me your rate? Your ad says you’re versatile. Do you prefer to top? I prefer BB. Is that good? 
Him: Hey. Yeah.
If I have an interaction like that, I just move on. I’m going to get frustrated long before we ever potentially meet. 

Ahmedxxl is the best go for it. He is originally from Algeria. Algerian guys are so sexy. You won’t regret it. 

It’s no different from any top quality service provider who may not actually like you or providing service … but will not let you feel anything other than they deserve your business.
If anyone leaves an experience feeling the provider genuinely enjoyed being with them, whatever that may actually mean in reality is irrelevant - the provider did their job well.

I have to say I am kind of blown away by how good some escorts are.  
My first hire ever was a little less than a year ago. Not sure what I was looking for but expectations weren't high. There were a handful of guys I met who were good, fair, average, and some not great. But I met one dude and when the connection is there and they're good at what they do, HOLY FUCK.  He and I have since traveled out of the country together, etc.  This man really set the bar in my mind so high it was going to be unbreakable. I'm not even talking about just good sex, but he makes me want to be a better person. When I am ready to get off the bike or don't want to do another rep, picturing this guy makes me stay on the treadmill for another few minutes or push through the last few reps a little harder. Love it. 
So last night in a random city, I did the usual homework and hired someone else and it was another version of the first guy above. Just absolutely incredible. This isn't just some of the best sex I have had in my life, or 'paying for sex' but a real high in every way possible. 
Here are some notes on what I have learned: 
Do your homework on providers. The more thorough and well-written their profile is, the better. The time and energy they put into their online persona is directly correlated to the time and energy they will put into you as a client.  Reviews are everything. Both of these guys have 5.0 across the board. One has 60-70 reviews, all five stars. The other has over 120 reviews, again all 5.0. Not 4.7, 4.8, or even 4.9. I'm talking 5.0. If they can pull that off, they are doing something fucking awesome. It's not even up for debate.  Be nice. Be upfront. Explain what you want and approach with respect always.  If you're just looking for quick sex, find a hot guy and have a blast. Sure. That's sort of easy, right? But if you're open, there is so much more you can get from these transactions. Just open your mind and fully figure out what you want and need. 
That's all for now. Later guys.

IME @nycboi Yes…if you share my tastes for spectacular men.
I have dated 2 guys in Brazil separately - each had featured as the cover model for fitness mags like Men’s Health - and I don’t regret it. The men were great in bed. Neither was crass/vulgar, and they did not consider themselves to be ‘garotos de programa’. Each man knew his worth and asked for “help” or “support” that equaled what you’d pay in the US/Europe.

I chatted to one model when he was working at a party (as a server and eye-candy). And I was introduced to the other model by a str8 friend of mine who knew my taste. 

Agree. One of the reasons I ended up deleting that app from my phone is because most people on there are flakes who just want to 'sext' and have endless chat. 

Sorry if this is an upsetting suggestion, but I think it’s important you consider all possibilities here.
 
Is he from another country? If so, he could just be using you for a visa and documents to be able to permanently stay in the country. I personally know quite a number of the Brazilian escorts here in the UK who have married clients just so that they could stay here legally. 

DILLON DIAZ & MICHAEL DELRAY

Sadly that's not an unusual story.
As we get older sometimes we need different kinds of friends. And the reliable love most get from parents is something none of us get to keep.
Planning your old age is tricky because we never really know what's ahead of us. But being a good friend to others who share your outlook in life are your key to feeling safe. Avoid self centered people and reach out to the givers.

Sorry if this is an upsetting suggestion, but I think it’s important you consider all possibilities here.
 
Is he from another country? If so, he could just be using you for a visa and documents to be able to permanently stay in the country. I personally know quite a number of the Brazilian escorts here in the UK who have married clients just so that they could stay here legally. 

I agree that there seem to be a "pimp" that works for these Brazilians. A lot of them lives in Central London, some in expensive flats. Also, I had experiences where escorts living in the same building, in the same floor. 

Sorry if this is an upsetting suggestion, but I think it’s important you consider all possibilities here.
 
Is he from another country? If so, he could just be using you for a visa and documents to be able to permanently stay in the country. I personally know quite a number of the Brazilian escorts here in the UK who have married clients just so that they could stay here legally. 

Sorry if this is an upsetting suggestion, but I think it’s important you consider all possibilities here.
 
Is he from another country? If so, he could just be using you for a visa and documents to be able to permanently stay in the country. I personally know quite a number of the Brazilian escorts here in the UK who have married clients just so that they could stay here legally. 

Sorry if this is an upsetting suggestion, but I think it’s important you consider all possibilities here.
 
Is he from another country? If so, he could just be using you for a visa and documents to be able to permanently stay in the country. I personally know quite a number of the Brazilian escorts here in the UK who have married clients just so that they could stay here legally. 

Does he intend to continue escorting after you marry? Do you intend to keep hiring when you are in the mood? Are you both in agreement about whether or not monogamy is part of the arrangement? Will you both agree to keep talking honestly about issues like these? ( If you protest that they will not come up for either of you, you are both fooling yourselves.) Have you met any of his friends? Has he met any of yours? What will you tell people when they ask how you met? (Believe me, they will.) Are you comfortable about telling the truth to friends? Do you have a lawyer with whom you can discuss the legal and financial situation frankly? Like it or not, marriage is a much more social affair than sexual interaction is.
I am not a nay-sayer about the possibility of genuinely falling in love at first arousal: my spouse and I decided on the day that we met that we would be together forever, and that has lasted 55 years--though not without rough patches, which both of us had to be willing and able to work through. I would still advise you to go slow before making any commitments that would be really messy to disentangle. Vegas777's suggestion above may have been made humorously, but it's not a bad one.