Alexphilly

as long as there's time involved and the client doesn't want you do it ASAP, you can always meet the escort on your know to get a feeling. 
Whether a client is paying you more or less is between the client and you. As long as the client pays him HIS fee that's all he should care. 
The Legendary Dave used to charge a fee to set up a 3some or 4some with a client. 
Back to your question, many clients have the fantasy of a 3some and providing it or not is your choice. You can always ask him to make a few suggestions but even if he picks a guy you don't like... it's sex for $ anyways and even if he's not your type he might look waaaay better than most clients. 
 

When one wants another escort to join a session it has nothing to do with him not being engaging but because the excitement it’s so great that you just want two cocks, cocks in both ends. Also, it is not unreasonable to ask a service provider beforehand or during, if they have escort buddies who can join because it is NOT uncommon to find escort or masseurs couples or colleagues that work together or play together without money involved.  Personally, besides reading the profile content I would ask pertinent questions.

Yeah sometimes more than one person can be too much, especially when it’s really unorganized. 

As a client, I've thought about hiring two escorts for a threesome, not because the one escort is inadequate but because threesomes can be a lot of fun. However, I wouldn't mention it during a session for the very reason you mentioned - doing so can make the escort feel inadequate! I also wouldn't expect the escort to coordinate, unless he had other escorts with whom he did threesomes. Even then, I'd still make the arrangements unless the escort wanted to do so.
 

Hi I haven't been posting for a while, but anyway . I've noticed I get turned off from time to time when would ask me do I have a extra friend it makes me think one provider is not enough for the client especially when they ask this during the session. It really takes time to find a extra provider . I have worked other providers in the past but I feel like I can be myself working alone . I've had situations where the client didn't like the other provider  ("friend" )maybe because he wasn't his type or ?? Either way I had to tell the provider that the client isn't interested and you have to go home .. Another instance was when I hooked a client up with a provider which he was a cool guy we would often work together with the client a few times . So I showed up to the clients home and started the session he then asked me to call my friend over .  The provider told me that him and the client had some kinda fallout drama and he's not coming (not sure was it a payment issue.. because every providers rate is different) . Either way I just don't like to be caught between the mess . I just like to work alone  It's less hassle for me .
 

The more escorts involved, the harder is it to control the situation.
I book longer term with the guys I see, meaning, it's not just about the sex, but about the overall experience.  When I agree to invite others into the box, it brings a risk into the meet that I'm not always wanting to take.
Bottom line, I know exactly what I offer and why I'm good at what I do.  Bringing in a wildcard can be fun, but it's also something that can ruin an already good thing.

Hi I haven't been posting for a while, but anyway . I've noticed I get turned off from time to time when would ask me do I have a extra friend it makes me think one provider is not enough for the client especially when they ask this during the session. It really takes time to find a extra provider . I have worked other providers in the past but I feel like I can be myself working alone . I've had situations where the client didn't like the other provider  ("friend" )maybe because he wasn't his type or ?? Either way I had to tell the provider that the client isn't interested and you have to go home .. Another instance was when I hooked a client up with a provider which he was a cool guy we would often work together with the client a few times . So I showed up to the clients home and started the session he then asked me to call my friend over .  The provider told me that him and the client had some kinda fallout drama and he's not coming (not sure was it a payment issue.. because every providers rate is different) . Either way I just don't like to be caught between the mess . I just like to work alone  It's less hassle for me .
 

Probably just say “no” to threesomes plus…Save yourself the headache. It’s not something you offer. You don’t have to provide everything; in fact, it’s better to be up front about it for most clients instead of presenting yourself as offering something you’d rather not. I always ask new guys if they’ll enjoy what I’m looking for, and if they seem hesitant I just tell them it isn’t going to work out. I’ve learned it’s bettet to be direct up front that both of us being awkward. 

Not for me either I like the rush I get doing this , Also I don't want to be anyone's or take on anyone's baggage. I did that once and it worked out well supported me etc etc, but in the end the compatibility disappeared  Because I still wanted to chase that rush again , But we are still good friends I've moved out living on my own not under a contract or agreement I like it this way but that's just me.

A mixed bag which is not a change. Still get time wasters. Still get great clients. Still get not so good clients. Still get okay clients. Still get scared clients. Still get everything in between. Business was slow during the pandemic pre-vaccination in 2020. Then there was an uptick in the spring of 2021. Now business seems to return to normal levels or close to it. I would say the vitality and profitability of the industry correlates with the travel and hospitality industries (except us escorts didn't get the massive bailouts corporations did and we couldn't get unemployment for our type of work). During the height of the pandemic in 2020, things were very rough financially and business was slow or non-existent. Now business seems to be very close to pre-covid levels. Like many restaurants and hotels, business for an escort seems to be going fine now with the usual challenges and difficulties we had prior to covid. Vaccinated and kissing, yes.  

Well as for me I really stop getting up in arms about cancellations or flakes I don't expect much unless they are actually on the road or have given me some legit confirmation. And besides that I know certain keywords that send red flags to me that signals flaking or bsing so really they aren't waisting my time only theirs sometimes I play the game with them sometimes I don't and just happily block . Luckily it's good to save money just in case you get some low days and have plenty of things to do outside of the game . The main thing I learned is don't count on clients 

Not for me either I like the rush I get doing this , Also I don't want to be anyone's or take on anyone's baggage. I did that once and it worked out well supported me etc etc, but in the end the compatibility disappeared  Because I still wanted to chase that rush again , But we are still good friends I've moved out living on my own not under a contract or agreement I like it this way but that's just me.

Not for me either I like the rush I get doing this , Also I don't want to be anyone's or take on anyone's baggage. I did that once and it worked out well supported me etc etc, but in the end the compatibility disappeared  Because I still wanted to chase that rush again , But we are still good friends I've moved out living on my own not under a contract or agreement I like it this way but that's just me.

Not for me either I like the rush I get doing this , Also I don't want to be anyone's or take on anyone's baggage. I did that once and it worked out well supported me etc etc, but in the end the compatibility disappeared  Because I still wanted to chase that rush again , But we are still good friends I've moved out living on my own not under a contract or agreement I like it this way but that's just me.

Well he's in Philly as we speak he doesn't look hot at all nothing unique about him just a few homemade tattoos Imo 😂😂 https://rentmen.eu/THE_INK/#platinum

Is he cross-eyed? I don't mean that to be funny. None of the pics were head-on that I accessed, and got the impression that he might be. Either way, I agree he's attractive. 

Judging.book by its cover, but he looks like trouble.
Fresh outta the San Quentin exercise yard.

Surprised to hear that twinks patronize baths!

Haven't been to any for a long long time  but I've heard form friends that Some people are still afraid to go due to covid . I particularly don't like BH just a bit too sleazy for me and here in Philadelphia they are pretty sleazy a lot of unsavory characters lurking in those places in Philadelphia BH, Well we do have a pretty good one called clubphilly but the rest of them Adonis etc etc sleazy and I carry myself pretty well but even I'm afraid lol 
 

My God I thought this topic was dead already.

There was another one, probably before your time because it closed in 2014, called the All-Male Sansom Cinema, on 13th Street just off Sansom.  It had the main movie theater, a mini-theater, and the Tom-Cat Bookstore on-site.  I went once back in the 90's and never went back.  It had a bad vibe, the crowd was sketchy and I didn't feel safe. 
 

Haven't been to any for a long long time  but I've heard form friends that Some people are still afraid to go due to covid . I particularly don't like BH just a bit too sleazy for me and here in Philadelphia they are pretty sleazy a lot of unsavory characters lurking in those places in Philadelphia BH, Well we do have a pretty good one called clubphilly but the rest of them Adonis etc etc sleazy and I carry myself pretty well but even I'm afraid lol 
 

I used to frequent several of the gay bathhouses (here in the UK we call them 'gay saunas') in London. I was a regular patron at Chariots Shoreditch and Chariots Vauxhall before they closed down and also Sweatbox, Soho (which is still open). I used to absolutely love those places and I'd say the majority of my sexual conquests and encounters over the years have taken place in those establishments.
Now I don't go to them anywhere near as often as I used to (they were all shut down the past year due to Covid anyway).
Most of the sex I have nowadays is with escorts - which I actually much prefer. 

The Adonis was a shit hole when I went there over 20 years ago.  I can't imagine what it's like now.  The floor in the first floor bathroom literally sagged from water damage. The patrons were hit and miss....more miss than hit, but when it was a hit, it was good.  Usually closeted college jocks from one of the local universities looking to get off. I'm surprised they're still open.  

Yah, see I don't do appointments 3 and 4 months in advance. Back in the days of Rentboy and men4rent, I used to get those requests more often and they'd stick. Nowadays, unless it's a long time regular or overnight who's asking to meet in a different city...I'll tell them to contact me 1 to 2 days prior.
I'm not a stickler for scheduling by the minute and hour on the dot, but taking the time to coordinate a visit, finding out when the provider can come is better than trying to haphazardly get someone to arrive...when there may have been no expectation of that happening. 
Yes, I'm available today. No I'm not available to arrive (or have you arrive) in 5 minutes. Like let's talk about that. People want to come over asap like I'm running a barbershop. I'm not a barbershop lol. I even noticed my barber got irritated today when a client called him too close to the time he leaves. I'm like, i feel your frustration lol.