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I watched a youtube interview of Austin Wolf and he publicly stated he has an addition to sex.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AUINxz_PlwU&t=1s

I watched a youtube interview of Austin Wolf and he publicly stated he has an addition to sex.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AUINxz_PlwU&t=1s

I tend to catch up on my tv shows/netflix shows while walking or jogging on the treadmill.
Good luck on the 5k!!!

I started the NHS Couch to 5k on 2nd of March;  have worked up to an hour on the treadmill alternating 1.5 minutes jog, 3.5 minutes walk; and have dropped about 10lbs...   
For those who took up jogging later in life - any suggestions to improve progress or make this fun???  

lol I know what you mean. I remember travelling abroad and whenever I hears a gentleman say "pardon" instead of "what?" it turns me on a little bit. lol.

lol I know what you mean. I remember travelling abroad and whenever I hears a gentleman say "pardon" instead of "what?" it turns me on a little bit. lol.

A deep voice

I’ve had many great massages over the years, and several masseurs who I saw many times. My favorite was someone I found on Masseurfinder - blonde and handsome, and advertising “strictly therapeutic”. I contacted him and asked if he’d consider mutual nude/touch and release, and was surprised when he answered “Sure - I can do a nude session with release, and I’m happy to serve Gay and Bisexual clients and don’t have any aversions to nudity from male or female clients”.  Ok! So I went for my first massage and we had a great connection, and he’s a very, very sensual, masculine guy. Definitely gay, but you probably wouldn’t know it if you met him. Nothing went too far that day, but I continued seeing him once every week or two for over a year, and things got more and more intimate. Once I had him to my place for an extra long session (3 hours) and gave him the gate codes and left the front door unlocked. I told him whenever he arrived to come in unannounced and come to the master bedroom. I was in my bathtub with low lights, candles, and eyes closed. He tiptoed in, kissed me gently on the forehead and began rubbing my neck and shoulders. After a few minutes, he shed his clothes and climbed into the tub - facing me, and rubbed my legs and feet. And once my feet were good and clean from the soapy water, he sucked my toes (a HUGE turn on if you’ve never had it done to you). He then leaned in and we made out for a few minutes, then got out of the tub, and he dropped to his knees and blew me, edging me perfectly. I had the table set up in the bedroom, and we headed that direction when he grabbed me tightly, rubbing my back as we fell onto the bed. We then had one of the most exciting sessions of massage and sex that I’ve ever had. Flip/flop, mutual head, mutual rimming, incredible deep kisses, incredible tender kisses and explosive orgasms. Thrilling. Not too long after that, he met a great guy and they’re now living together, and he stopped doing anything except legit massage. They’ve become good friends of mine (I’m not sure exactly how much his boyfriend knows) but I have the great memories of “the old days”. And he’s still fun to discreetly flirt with  

I was similar back in high school. I didn't even know about anal sex since sex ed back when I was in high school didnt' talk about gay sex or anal sex. I still remember watching my first gay porn film at age 18 and that's when I realized men did it from the backside.
As a teenager I had wet dreams making out with guys I had crushes on but for some reason never dreamt about anal sex back then... but I still knew I was gay.

The first time I had sex with a man, I was shocked to discover that men actually inserted their cocks in one another's asses. I had always assumed that men had sex together by kissing while rubbing against one another. [OK, I was only 17, and had never had sex with anyone of either gender.] It took me awhile to get used to the anal thing, but I took to oral sex easily.

I remember years ago stopping by a road side "Adult Bookstore" after attending the Butler County Fair in Western PA. My friends and I were all horny and ended up all getting our dicks sucked glory-hole style. On the drive home we all talked about having this amazing blowjob. The guy's mouth was so silky it was like fucking a pussy. Then one of my friends said " I don't think that dude had any teeth" ....we all screamed. 😱 *Good times* 😉

https://www.icegay.tv/movies/2856280/rubhim-sexiest-massage-ever
One of my faves...

Sure, so erections are almost certainly gone (maybe with Trimex not entirely gone?)  You can still get sucked.  You can certainly still suck. :-)    AND I have seen some guys without prostates get reasonably hard (again, Trimex?) Libido really depends on your personality, if you're a horny guy, you'll stay a horny guy.  Otherwise, it's something you'll have to work on, so focus on the things you like.  You can still get fucked, and it still feels good because it's all epithelial tissue in there, highly stimulate-able, it just doesn't have the added bonus of prostate stimulation. You can enjoy getting your ass eaten.   Some pee on me without meaning to, some don't.  Orgasms are impacted.  And of course kissing and cuddling and nipple play and armpitting licking and snuggling are all still on the table.  So, much is gone, but there's still a lot.  
Does any of that help?  

I've working in tech most of my career, in my early career I got laid off a few times.   When I got laid off I would focus on contract work first - this is the fastest way to resuming your paycheck.   Contract jobs do not typically require the same protracted process as hiring, conversely the industry is designed to get people placed quickly.  You can prepare by making sure your resume is up to date, and creating a list of contract firms in your area of specialty (and the area where you live/work).  You should also update your LinkedIn profile and focus on building your LinkedIn network. 
When/if you do get laid off, give yourself 1 week to clear your mind if you need it.  Then, make finding a job your full time job.  Set your alarm every morning, go to the gym and then start your day.  Try to sty on your normal "working routine" so it want be a shock when you go back to a normal work schedule.  Every time I got laid off, I had a contract gig lined up before my severance ran out.   Once in a contract gig, you can then focus on finding your next perm gig.
Interesting, now there are many remote work and digital nomad opportunities, this might also be a time to travel and work from exotic places, if you have the means and freedom to do that.
While being laid off can be stressful, it can also be a gift.

1.  Don't take it personally esp. if it's a mass layoff.
2.  Definitely prepare by having 6 months expenses saved ahead of time.
3.  Apply for Unemployment Insurance immediately.  You paid into it so it's yours to take.
4.  Update your linked in and reach out to your network.  There is no shame in getting laid off.  Network, Network, Network.
5.  Make searching for a new job, your full time job.  Spend 8 hours a day doing it.  
6.  That said, use your new found flexibility and freedom to your advantage.  Sleep in a little if you want.  Go to the gym at lunch or early afternoon.  Make sure you are taking care of yourself.
7.  When you get your next offer (and you will!!), make sure to start at LEAST two weeks out.  
8.  ENJOY those two weeks!  You earned them!!
This is going to happen over and over in your career.  I've been laid off during every recession and have always bounced back.  

My philosophy on hiring (I started when I was 35) was the same as for all other kinds of entertainment expense: if I had cash that I didn't need or want for something else, I indulged my lusts. I never considered hiring to be a necessity, so I didn't make any special arrangement to budget for hiring in retirement. I retired relatively early (at 60), and luckily I always had enough money for necessities, plus some left over for pleasures. However, the pleasures that I wanted to spend it on changed as I aged, and I found I got more satisfaction out of spending my extra money on other kinds of entertainment rather than on sex. I stopped hiring altogether when I was 68, not because I couldn't afford it, but because it no longer brought me the kind of emotional payoff that it did when I was younger. I am still sexually attracted to pornstars, but I no longer feel any motivation to do anything about it.

If IF you lose your prostate, I want you to know that I have had sex with many many men who no longer have prostates, and there is a sex life afterward.  A different sex life, but a sex life.  And with or without a prostate you will always be able to give and receive affection, and give and receive sexual attention.  

If you want to become a masseur or escort, then do it instead of making the same general inquiries repeatedly.

I’ve experienced this multiple times. They usually give me an address next door or close by, then wait till I arrive then tell me the correct address. I’m guessing they do this because they want to make sure the client is not a cop.

Swallowing your partner’s cum is perhaps one of the most intimate sexual acts. The cherry on the cake -at least to me- is watching his body shake and squirm uncontrollably as his dick erupts and I, ever so gently, ever so softly, tease its ultra sensitive tip with my darting tongue. The view is just priceless. 

I was fascinated by the 90s Kristen Bjorn films on how those guys just came hands free. I feel that's so rare to see in gay porn nowadays.

I was fascinated by the 90s Kristen Bjorn films on how those guys just came hands free. I feel that's so rare to see in gay porn nowadays.

He is short of cash but his schedule is too busy to find a convenient time with you.  If he needed the money that badly, he would have been sure to make it work.  

Why don't you fantasize about deflowering a 119 year old next time?  Variety is the spice of life!

300 has been the average hourly rate for quite some time, at least here in nyc