KensingtonHomo

This is so true. It's why I - as bottom - do not rim most guys I have sex with because tops don't know how to keep their asshole clean. 

He’s unique. A lot “softer” than he presents in photos. A unique, moving sensual experience. 

I have such anxiety over cleanliness when I bottom. And I’m an equal opportunity fucker. While it can’t do a deep dive, those Toto toilet seat bidets are, well, the shit!

I don't mean this as a personal attack, but I've noticed that you seem to have quite a negative view about clients as a whole.  So many of your posts seem to convey the notion that it's normal for escorts to be disgusted by the vast majority of men hiring them.  I'm sure that's true of some sex workers, but given the escorts I've known (some quite well, some just casually) I can definitely say that many aren't repulsed by the majority of men who hire them.  Just thought I'd put this observation out there because I don't know that you want to come across as insulting to the vast majority of people who post here.

I’m anal about my hygiene too. 😂 It’s a three hour prep time.
Best providers I’ve met providing the service are Mike Gaite and StripperMar.

True but hard to read!

Often, MONEY speaks louder than anything else, and by the same token, so does lack of money.
Stop paying, or at least tipping, in advance. My assumption is that if you fail to tip when he doesn't respect your boundaries, he will quickly commit your boundaries to memory.

A preference is not an aversion. Preference is “a greater liking for one alternative over another or others.” I prefer men who are clean shaven but I also find some men with facial hair attractive and the  presence of well groomed facial hair would not deter me from a guy. 
Aversion is a strong dislike or disinclination. I have an aversion to men with very long, unkempt beards. I do not find them attractive, even if they are otherwise handsome. 
Another non-age example is I prefer men with chest hair but I also find smooth guys attractive. But I have an aversion to men who shave their bodies because I find it very uncomfortable to have sex with someone who has stubble all over their body. 
Generally, I prefer men who are taller than me but I’m not averse to men who are shorter than me if I otherwise find them attractive. 

Someone put it very well above - yes, most people express preferences but there's quite a bit of aversion expressed on here. Oddly, it's not from younger provider men or providers. It tends to be men averse to those of their own age. 

I read the reviews on their profile, looking for consistency and checking if the people leaving the reviews are legit. For example, have they reviewed other providers? If they have a link to their socials, I'll take a look at those as well. Then, I'll search for them on here and consider those accounts. 
I'm really looking for an overall picture that is consistent. 
I'm not really worried about danger, particularly if the provider has a decent history and shows his face, gives me his phone number, etc. From there, I ask questions to get a sense if it's a fit. 
Honestly, I think Grindr might be more risky. 

LOL—the guy who ridicules anyone who isn't extremely fit and 25 saying I'm being "prejudicial" is the funniest thing I've read all week. Thanks for the laugh. 
Again, we're not talking about a preference. We're talking about people who are either averse or completely uninterested in people their own age. Whatever someone thinks about guys in their 60s or 70s is what he thinks about himself. 

To be deaf and blind as a gay man in the age of HIV is pretty stunning. Your comment is as revealing as it is stunning. 

A preference is not an aversion. Preference is “a greater liking for one alternative over another or others.” I prefer men who are clean shaven but I also find some men with facial hair attractive and the  presence of well groomed facial hair would not deter me from a guy. 
Aversion is a strong dislike or disinclination. I have an aversion to men with very long, unkempt beards. I do not find them attractive, even if they are otherwise handsome. 
Another non-age example is I prefer men with chest hair but I also find smooth guys attractive. But I have an aversion to men who shave their bodies because I find it very uncomfortable to have sex with someone who has stubble all over their body. 
Generally, I prefer men who are taller than me but I’m not averse to men who are shorter than me if I otherwise find them attractive. 

LOL—the guy who ridicules anyone who isn't extremely fit and 25 saying I'm being "prejudicial" is the funniest thing I've read all week. Thanks for the laugh. 
Again, we're not talking about a preference. We're talking about people who are either averse or completely uninterested in people their own age. Whatever someone thinks about guys in their 60s or 70s is what he thinks about himself. 

So you "prefer" to sleep with certain men but you're "averse" to sleeping with a woman.
Got it.
We all have our preferences ...and aversions.

THIS! And one cannot be averse to or even just not attracted to someone their own age without some degree of self-hatred. That said, I don’t think this is a personal flaw. We are besieged by endless messages that only men who are super fit,  under 30, and mostly white or white adjacent are attractive. This shows up in most if not all of us. We can try to be more open, rather than naturalize it.
I’m middle aged and I generally find men around 35 to 65-70 attractive. Of course, it depends on the man and a lot of other variables but I’d generally prefer a 60 year old to a 25 year old. 

LOL—the guy who ridicules anyone who isn't extremely fit and 25 saying I'm being "prejudicial" is the funniest thing I've read all week. Thanks for the laugh. 
Again, we're not talking about a preference. We're talking about people who are either averse or completely uninterested in people their own age. Whatever someone thinks about guys in their 60s or 70s is what he thinks about himself. 

A preference is not an aversion. Preference is “a greater liking for one alternative over another or others.” I prefer men who are clean shaven but I also find some men with facial hair attractive and the  presence of well groomed facial hair would not deter me from a guy. 
Aversion is a strong dislike or disinclination. I have an aversion to men with very long, unkempt beards. I do not find them attractive, even if they are otherwise handsome. 
Another non-age example is I prefer men with chest hair but I also find smooth guys attractive. But I have an aversion to men who shave their bodies because I find it very uncomfortable to have sex with someone who has stubble all over their body. 
Generally, I prefer men who are taller than me but I’m not averse to men who are shorter than me if I otherwise find them attractive. 

Someone put it very well above - yes, most people express preferences but there's quite a bit of aversion expressed on here. Oddly, it's not from younger provider men or providers. It tends to be men averse to those of their own age. 

go on RM and filter by age - there are huge drops in 40+ and even more drop at 50+ and very few at 60+. out of the hundreds of providers on RM - there are 30 guys 60yrs and over….a relatively small percentage.   if there was a preference for older, then there would be more older. 
seems like this conversation is confusing preferences for hiring vs other preferences- big difference 
btw - the ageism experienced in the US does not happen in the same way in other places. In Latin America & Europe, older gay men are much more visible & mix more frequently in bars/clubs without disapproval or stigma. It seems to be the worst in the US, followed by other English speaking countries - UK, Canada & Australia.  I think it has something to do with other cultures more general respect for elders. 

LOL—the guy who ridicules anyone who isn't extremely fit and 25 saying I'm being "prejudicial" is the funniest thing I've read all week. Thanks for the laugh. 
Again, we're not talking about a preference. We're talking about people who are either averse or completely uninterested in people their own age. Whatever someone thinks about guys in their 60s or 70s is what he thinks about himself. 

Ditto. I try to crosscheck, from as many angles as are available.
Before I make first contact I try confirm that (A) they are who they say they are and (B) their approach to the gig seems sane/safe/sensible.

So I look at the profile. Definitely search here. Then I scan any social media that might be accessible. Sometimes I sign up for their OF. If they're dancing at Adonis, I might try to make a trip. Then I contact them and see how it goes...

But mostly I'm just trying to confirm that they're real and that they're professional in their approach to the gig.

THIS! And one cannot be averse to or even just not attracted to someone their own age without some degree of self-hatred. That said, I don’t think this is a personal flaw. We are besieged by endless messages that only men who are super fit,  under 30, and mostly white or white adjacent are attractive. This shows up in most if not all of us. We can try to be more open, rather than naturalize it.
I’m middle aged and I generally find men around 35 to 65-70 attractive. Of course, it depends on the man and a lot of other variables but I’d generally prefer a 60 year old to a 25 year old. 

I myself am not an impulse shopper, and I bet I’m in a small minority. But when you’re in a hurry, I guess this place gets confused with Yelp!

It used to be when people wanted a good recommendation, some information was given as to what they are looking for, be it body type, race, height, and so on.
I'm seeing lately far too many people just throwing out random cities - big ones - and asking for who the best person is without knowing at all any kind of simple details to be able to offer up some help. 
In the meccas, there really is someone for everyone. In Minot, for example, you may have to settle for whoever is breathing.