KensingtonHomo

That's how I traditionally viewed it.
Then I started making good money in my 30s....

I know it's subjective and I'm an outlier on this site, but cockrings, piercings, and especially tattoos are a huge turnoff for me. I want my men unadorned as god intended. (Big exception for Christopher Meloni!)

Hmm. When that hard cock is sliding in, and then when it gets to work, I’ve never been concerned about the presence of a cock ring. 😋

I'm just a little younger than @Rod Hagen but my husband is older. For the most part we gravitate to providers in their 30s and 40s because we find them more attractive, more likely to have shared interests and references, and have mostly had great experiences. We've also had some good experiences with guys in their 20s but - also - most of our bad experiences were with younger guys. I think that the age gap has something to do with it, but also their relative lack of experience. With some. younger guys, it's like they have an erotic massage or sex script in mind, whereas older guys are more flexible, adaptable and in tune with us as clients. 
I don't know if we'll continue to see providers in our 60s and 70s but I would think so. We do try to stay in good shape and I see men at that age all the time that I find attractive. So, I think older man can and should expect good experiences. 

Makes sense to me.
By car it’s about a 20 minute drive, but culturally it’s the equivalent of a trip to Mars.
Split the difference….you’re at about 3 days. 
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I’ve enjoyed meeting him too!

I'm just a little younger than @Rod Hagen but my husband is older. For the most part we gravitate to providers in their 30s and 40s because we find them more attractive, more likely to have shared interests and references, and have mostly had great experiences. We've also had some good experiences with guys in their 20s but - also - most of our bad experiences were with younger guys. I think that the age gap has something to do with it, but also their relative lack of experience. With some. younger guys, it's like they have an erotic massage or sex script in mind, whereas older guys are more flexible, adaptable and in tune with us as clients. 
I don't know if we'll continue to see providers in our 60s and 70s but I would think so. We do try to stay in good shape and I see men at that age all the time that I find attractive. So, I think older man can and should expect good experiences. 

I'm just a little younger than @Rod Hagen but my husband is older. For the most part we gravitate to providers in their 30s and 40s because we find them more attractive, more likely to have shared interests and references, and have mostly had great experiences. We've also had some good experiences with guys in their 20s but - also - most of our bad experiences were with younger guys. I think that the age gap has something to do with it, but also their relative lack of experience. With some. younger guys, it's like they have an erotic massage or sex script in mind, whereas older guys are more flexible, adaptable and in tune with us as clients. 
I don't know if we'll continue to see providers in our 60s and 70s but I would think so. We do try to stay in good shape and I see men at that age all the time that I find attractive. So, I think older man can and should expect good experiences. 

I'm just a little younger than @Rod Hagen but my husband is older. For the most part we gravitate to providers in their 30s and 40s because we find them more attractive, more likely to have shared interests and references, and have mostly had great experiences. We've also had some good experiences with guys in their 20s but - also - most of our bad experiences were with younger guys. I think that the age gap has something to do with it, but also their relative lack of experience. With some. younger guys, it's like they have an erotic massage or sex script in mind, whereas older guys are more flexible, adaptable and in tune with us as clients. 
I don't know if we'll continue to see providers in our 60s and 70s but I would think so. We do try to stay in good shape and I see men at that age all the time that I find attractive. So, I think older man can and should expect good experiences. 

One of my longest-term clients, and a very good friend, is still quite happy with me, and me with him. I was in my 20s when we met, I'll be 50 soon.  He was in his 70s when we met, now he's 94.  So, in answer to the OP, YES!

I'm just not interested in being with straight identifying men. When I was a teenager and in college, I had gay friends who were trying to "get" straight guys. Mostly that meant they were giving the guy unreciprocated head. This, they considered to be a great victory. To me, I'm not interested in giving head or worshipping someone's muscles or whatever. I want to be desired (or treated like I'm desired.) I don't want to yuck anyone's yum but I just don't get it. 

I'm just not interested in being with straight identifying men. When I was a teenager and in college, I had gay friends who were trying to "get" straight guys. Mostly that meant they were giving the guy unreciprocated head. This, they considered to be a great victory. To me, I'm not interested in giving head or worshipping someone's muscles or whatever. I want to be desired (or treated like I'm desired.) I don't want to yuck anyone's yum but I just don't get it. 

Being VERY sexually adventurous in my youth I am left with this very last fetish unchecked. Tag-teamed by twin athletes. I'd also make a trip if I could find the right set up

I’d like to add RicoNY into the mix.  https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/40104/
While on the pricier side he has great technique, uses a theragun, hot stones and knows his way around the body.
I agree with Strong Strokes too, and walking up those flights of stairs really makes your legs and peach pop for when you climb on the table 😉

Completely understand. I think straight guys who market themselves as straight may be trying to communicate boundaries they've established for their own comfort, generate some mystique, or advertise their masculinity (or other things). If I'm looking to be intimidated or dominated, straight guys can be the ultimate. That's me, though, and I'm probably in the minority. If I wanted to cuddle and kiss, I'd probably find someone else.

When we were planning to go to Montreal, we found an escort who we thought was a great fit for us. I contacted him over RM messenger and we chatted. It seemed like a great match. A couple of days before our trip, I messaged him with my phone number and asked for his. He didn't respond. 
Then last week (three weeks after we'd returned), he wrote me to say that he hadn't been checking his RM messages and was very sorry. My guess is for him escorting is a side hustle, which isn't uncommon. But it was annoying to have no other way to reach out to him. 
So, no, I wouldn't plan to meet someone without a phone number. And while I'm fairly anonymous on here, I'm not in my profession. So having my phone number would lead you pretty quickly right to me. Personally and politically I'm an outspoken ally of sex workers and believe in decriminalization, etc., so if it came up, I'm prepared to defend it, but it could be costly. 

I was fortunate enough to have the opposite experience with all “straight” men I’ve encountered. But I get what you are saying. 

When we were planning to go to Montreal, we found an escort who we thought was a great fit for us. I contacted him over RM messenger and we chatted. It seemed like a great match. A couple of days before our trip, I messaged him with my phone number and asked for his. He didn't respond. 
Then last week (three weeks after we'd returned), he wrote me to say that he hadn't been checking his RM messages and was very sorry. My guess is for him escorting is a side hustle, which isn't uncommon. But it was annoying to have no other way to reach out to him. 
So, no, I wouldn't plan to meet someone without a phone number. And while I'm fairly anonymous on here, I'm not in my profession. So having my phone number would lead you pretty quickly right to me. Personally and politically I'm an outspoken ally of sex workers and believe in decriminalization, etc., so if it came up, I'm prepared to defend it, but it could be costly. 

From a client perspective, sometimes with an erotic massage I get too relaxed and it's hard to get into a "happy ending." I've noticed this happens more as I've gotten older, and also if I'm stressed out or haven't slept well. I always reassure the provider that it's not anything to do with them. Some guys take it better than others. 
On the other hand, I've had a few escort hires where guy couldn't get or stay hard. I would never shame someone over that, but it's very frustrating to pay someone and them be unable to perform. Some guys are very creative about that situation which is great. Others are not. 
I think the issue is communication as @Jarrod_Uncut points out. I try to be very clear with providers what I'm looking for and what I don't want. Usually, that's great. Other times, it feels like the provider is hedging (particularly when setting up the appointment) in case they don't find me attractive. I'm not personally offended by any of that - chemistry, and physical attraction are hard to gauge in advance. We've had a couple of hires where I wasn't that into the guy once we were together. It happens, and there's no reason not to discuss it except discomfort. 

I'm just not interested in being with straight identifying men. When I was a teenager and in college, I had gay friends who were trying to "get" straight guys. Mostly that meant they were giving the guy unreciprocated head. This, they considered to be a great victory. To me, I'm not interested in giving head or worshipping someone's muscles or whatever. I want to be desired (or treated like I'm desired.) I don't want to yuck anyone's yum but I just don't get it. 

I'm just not interested in being with straight identifying men. When I was a teenager and in college, I had gay friends who were trying to "get" straight guys. Mostly that meant they were giving the guy unreciprocated head. This, they considered to be a great victory. To me, I'm not interested in giving head or worshipping someone's muscles or whatever. I want to be desired (or treated like I'm desired.) I don't want to yuck anyone's yum but I just don't get it. 

It used to be that way for me too. But couple of "straight" guys I hired went all the way down on me like there's no tomorrow, so I look at this line with skepticism now. One said that for him that line means "straight attitude", not the orientation.

From a client perspective, sometimes with an erotic massage I get too relaxed and it's hard to get into a "happy ending." I've noticed this happens more as I've gotten older, and also if I'm stressed out or haven't slept well. I always reassure the provider that it's not anything to do with them. Some guys take it better than others. 
On the other hand, I've had a few escort hires where guy couldn't get or stay hard. I would never shame someone over that, but it's very frustrating to pay someone and them be unable to perform. Some guys are very creative about that situation which is great. Others are not. 
I think the issue is communication as @Jarrod_Uncut points out. I try to be very clear with providers what I'm looking for and what I don't want. Usually, that's great. Other times, it feels like the provider is hedging (particularly when setting up the appointment) in case they don't find me attractive. I'm not personally offended by any of that - chemistry, and physical attraction are hard to gauge in advance. We've had a couple of hires where I wasn't that into the guy once we were together. It happens, and there's no reason not to discuss it except discomfort. 

My view is if that’s what they want, or if that’s what they can manage in the moment, then that’s fine by me. Of course I’m concerned if they suddenly want to stop: Did I do something wrong? Are they ok? Is there something causing anxiety? If he (or she) is happy to talk about it then we do.
For some people the act of hiring someone is a big step, and in the heat of the moment it can all get a bit overwhelming. Feelings of guilt, shame or just performance anxiety can come out, it’s understandable given today’s judgemental society. If I can help by talking it through with them then I see that as part of the job. It doesn’t upset me, in fact I see it as a compliment if they feel they can share these things with me. 

As a client, I certainly agree with the consensus of the providers’ comments above. Over my years of hiring escorts, I have found the best escorts who are completely committed to providing the very best BFE’s not only seem to have no hangups about age but actually enjoy providing complete satisfaction to older men!
 I have discussed this with a number of my regular hires and a few have expressed that, if anything, they are more wary of being hired by younger clients in their 20’s than older clients in their 60’s! In my case, my tastes tend to be quite vanilla in bed, though. So if you want to satisfy certain fetishes, be sure to explain exactly what you expect from the escort you are interested in.
TruHart1 😎