KensingtonHomo

I'm just not interested in being with straight identifying men. When I was a teenager and in college, I had gay friends who were trying to "get" straight guys. Mostly that meant they were giving the guy unreciprocated head. This, they considered to be a great victory. To me, I'm not interested in giving head or worshipping someone's muscles or whatever. I want to be desired (or treated like I'm desired.) I don't want to yuck anyone's yum but I just don't get it. 

I'm just not interested in being with straight identifying men. When I was a teenager and in college, I had gay friends who were trying to "get" straight guys. Mostly that meant they were giving the guy unreciprocated head. This, they considered to be a great victory. To me, I'm not interested in giving head or worshipping someone's muscles or whatever. I want to be desired (or treated like I'm desired.) I don't want to yuck anyone's yum but I just don't get it. 

It used to be that way for me too. But couple of "straight" guys I hired went all the way down on me like there's no tomorrow, so I look at this line with skepticism now. One said that for him that line means "straight attitude", not the orientation.

From a client perspective, sometimes with an erotic massage I get too relaxed and it's hard to get into a "happy ending." I've noticed this happens more as I've gotten older, and also if I'm stressed out or haven't slept well. I always reassure the provider that it's not anything to do with them. Some guys take it better than others. 
On the other hand, I've had a few escort hires where guy couldn't get or stay hard. I would never shame someone over that, but it's very frustrating to pay someone and them be unable to perform. Some guys are very creative about that situation which is great. Others are not. 
I think the issue is communication as @Jarrod_Uncut points out. I try to be very clear with providers what I'm looking for and what I don't want. Usually, that's great. Other times, it feels like the provider is hedging (particularly when setting up the appointment) in case they don't find me attractive. I'm not personally offended by any of that - chemistry, and physical attraction are hard to gauge in advance. We've had a couple of hires where I wasn't that into the guy once we were together. It happens, and there's no reason not to discuss it except discomfort. 

My view is if that’s what they want, or if that’s what they can manage in the moment, then that’s fine by me. Of course I’m concerned if they suddenly want to stop: Did I do something wrong? Are they ok? Is there something causing anxiety? If he (or she) is happy to talk about it then we do.
For some people the act of hiring someone is a big step, and in the heat of the moment it can all get a bit overwhelming. Feelings of guilt, shame or just performance anxiety can come out, it’s understandable given today’s judgemental society. If I can help by talking it through with them then I see that as part of the job. It doesn’t upset me, in fact I see it as a compliment if they feel they can share these things with me. 

As a client, I certainly agree with the consensus of the providers’ comments above. Over my years of hiring escorts, I have found the best escorts who are completely committed to providing the very best BFE’s not only seem to have no hangups about age but actually enjoy providing complete satisfaction to older men!
 I have discussed this with a number of my regular hires and a few have expressed that, if anything, they are more wary of being hired by younger clients in their 20’s than older clients in their 60’s! In my case, my tastes tend to be quite vanilla in bed, though. So if you want to satisfy certain fetishes, be sure to explain exactly what you expect from the escort you are interested in.
TruHart1 😎

My oldest client is in his late 70’s. He’s fantastic. I get as much pleasure from seeing him enjoy himself as I do clients in their 20’s. 
I do understand the perception that somehow it’s more fun with a young fit guy. I’d have said that too before I started doing massage. I did wonder at the start of doing this work if I’d be able to be the same with every client but actually I find that’s not the challenge at all. 
Now that I’ve been doing sensual massage for years and seen all sorts of clients I can definitely say that age or body type makes no difference to my approach (except that I’ll be less firm with someone who’s less muscular). The biggest challenge isn’t their age or physical appearance, it’s their attitude. 
Some older guys take longer to get hard or climax so that’s different but otherwise I find most people regardless of age are looking for similar things; a relaxing proper massage, some intimacy, some fun and to feel at ease and be themselves. If the person I’m seeing is coming for those reasons then it’s great. If their attitude is they just want to use me to get off then it doesn’t work. Fortunately I can screen those type of clients out before they book.
The driver for me is that my client is enjoying themselves. The more they enjoy our session  the better it is for me…in a virtuous circle kind of way. If a 75 year old has great time then so did I. Age is irrelevant. Attitude is everything. 
 
 

He's long been a fantasy of mine, but I'm a little worried about my ability to handle the piece.

HIs profile claims "the pandemic is over." That's a deal breaker for me, as it means he's not living in reality. LOL

He texted me a couple of weeks after we met saying he'd tested positive for an STI. I thought that spoke highly of him, as he could have kept it to himself. We'd only met once and for all he knew I could have bashed him over it. It turned out I was negative for the STI but I really appreciated his honesty and care for a client. 

People can be into playing submissive at times and dom at other times. Or just having vanilla sex. And many escorts provide experiences that may not be their primary way of enjoying sex.  

No drugs on overnights. If a client wants to pnp or take drugs on an overnight then I’m not their guy. I’m not dealing with clients off their head etc. I think you’re right though, lots do want that. 

Im exactly that guy Kevin referred to.  Overnights are not for me.   I like other people in small doses, I like daytime sex, and I like to sleep alone. For me, the perfect encounter is 2-3 hours in the afternoon.   I don't think I would ever do an overnight.

I don't want to get into a fight. But i have very pale, sensitive skin. I have slept with men who have shaved chests or arms. Not only is it uncomfortable to me (and sex is supposed to be pleasurable), but it will leave me with red "beard burn" all over my body. 
I agree that zooming in on a picture and making a big deal about it is unnecessary. BUT if I were to hire an escort based on their being "naturally smooth" and they show up with a five o'clock shadow all over their body, I don't think it's being fussy or entitled to say they misrepresented themselves. I would say the same of someone who have pubic hair in all the pictures and shows up with a completely bare crotch. 
It's funny to be even commenting on this because my husband is naturally smooth and besides him, I generally gravitate toward hairy guys. 

Why is saying he's from Russia not smart? He's not invading Ukraine, nor is Putin's war popular among the Russian people. 

Could it be that people are feeling the effects of inflation? Food and gas prices have all gone up quite a bit in the past few months. Perhaps that's impacting regulars hiring patterns and disincentivizing people from giving it a try. 

Gentlemen: let's not stray off topic here.

Experiment revisited:
I was curious to see how young Andrew Cunanan is doing with her high rates and book of platinum clientele.  
 
Fast forward three months later and we now have an expired ad with zero reviews.  Appears that this formula for marketing doesn’t work well.  Especially in this economy. 

He texted me a couple of weeks after we met saying he'd tested positive for an STI. I thought that spoke highly of him, as he could have kept it to himself. We'd only met once and for all he knew I could have bashed him over it. It turned out I was negative for the STI but I really appreciated his honesty and care for a client. 

Bryan is a sweet giant of a man...have had several massages with him in NY over time and he could not be more charming and accommodating.  His photos are indeed from different periods, the larger Bryan is his current state.  Great guy in every respect.
 

Could it be that people are feeling the effects of inflation? Food and gas prices have all gone up quite a bit in the past few months. Perhaps that's impacting regulars hiring patterns and disincentivizing people from giving it a try. 

I'm not sure where you live, but if you're looking for a true therapeutic massage with no sexual elements, there are many spas, as well as Soothe and Zeel, where you can hire a therapist to come to your place. I've used all three in the past and there's no hanky panky in any of those situations. 
I get your gripe with Rentmasseur. I've been annoyed by the proliferation of guys who are purely escorts on that site but there are options to avoid that situation if you're looking for just a purely therapeutic massage. 

Could it be that people are feeling the effects of inflation? Food and gas prices have all gone up quite a bit in the past few months. Perhaps that's impacting regulars hiring patterns and disincentivizing people from giving it a try. 

I'm not sure where you live, but if you're looking for a true therapeutic massage with no sexual elements, there are many spas, as well as Soothe and Zeel, where you can hire a therapist to come to your place. I've used all three in the past and there's no hanky panky in any of those situations. 
I get your gripe with Rentmasseur. I've been annoyed by the proliferation of guys who are purely escorts on that site but there are options to avoid that situation if you're looking for just a purely therapeutic massage. 

Could it be that people are feeling the effects of inflation? Food and gas prices have all gone up quite a bit in the past few months. Perhaps that's impacting regulars hiring patterns and disincentivizing people from giving it a try.