KensingtonHomo

I suspect you'll find a lot of variety here. Having a couple of nude videos that show how you look is great. Personally, I'm not interested in seeing videos of a provider having sex with other people. Very often the videos are poor quality. If the provider is vers, it's hard to tell who's who. In terms of search, I usually look for: Position Age (not really into guys under 30) Height (I prefer guys taller than me) And I agree with those who suggested filling out the "into" section. Some people definitely search on those terms and I look at them to see if there's a match in interests. It can also contain terms that I (and others) would avoid like "PNP."

Maybe an obvious question but did you try viagra?

This guy seems to be a nightmare but threatening to call ICE on him, when you don't even know if he's undocumented, is wild. Would you call the Gestapo on a Jewish person who wronged you? @Austin Lewis was horribly victimized by this asshole, but he's in touch with law enforcement, which is the appropriate response and I hope he's caught.

I get it. And I can totally see it being more meaningful when you're single. There was definitely a time outside of hiring where if the other guy didn't cum I felt like I'd failed or wasn't "hot" enough.

I always find this hilarious. I don't care if anyone (besides me) cums and I'm certainly not paying extra for it!

Did he share face pics? I'm quasi interested but he may be too big for me. 😵‍💫

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Throughout most of history, in all the towns, same-sex couples had a butch/femme dynamic. All you need to do to see this is read books and watch films. And it's not that EVT looks feminine in his photos, though his eyebrows are c*nt; it's that the only person on this thread who's met him said he wasn't masculine.

This is literally the definition of internalized homophobia. We have preferences, which I've stated repeatedly and are apparent if you look at the providers I've reviewed. We have a broader palette than you're very narrow one. But most of all, I do not feel the need to constantly shit on what other people find attractive or sexy. I also don't do "cheap psychoanalysis." I comment on the intersection of socio-economic and historical trends in gender and sexuality in Western culture because it's one of my areas of expertise. Femme boys were once the toast of the town and they're coming back into style. 🤣

I'm guessing this also isn't internalized homophobia with a dash of femmephobia and misogyny, right?

Did he send a face pic?

I do see a lot of $400/hour on here (particularly with the guys in their 20s), but I am still on a $300/hour with some regulars. Or we're doing $500 for two hours. And we tip - which I think helps keep the rate as they're generally getting another $50-$100.

Oh, so now you were a homosexual? The story just keeps changing. As the saying goes, you're entitled to your own opinions but not your own facts. You have repeatedly stated with your whole chest that you do not consider yourself part of the "alphabet soup" community. Now you are. Next week you won't be. I understand you're not accustomed to interacting with people who possess genuine moral and ethical frameworks that remain consistent over time. Girl, go try and bait someone who will take it. I'm immune to your faux civility and heteronormative BS.

I'm not sure if it's worth it or not. I don't understand how anyone in the neighborhood is going to find out. Is Ali Gator telling them? Is the stud? He's advertising where he's living.

You're the queen of projection. Given that you live a completely heterosexual lifestyle, you should really mind your business about LGBTQ issues.

Exactly. I'm reading a lot of internalized homophobia in this thread. "Gay men are the creepy neighbor." "Don't be perving on your neighbor's 34-YEAR-OLD son." If he was coming over to detail Ali Gator's car (with no RM Ad) and AG tried to entice him into something, THAT would be creepy and possibly cause drama.

I don't see a problem here unless you're very close to his parents and you would feel awkward having slept with their son. He didn't create an RM profile for you. He approached you and told you he's taking "odd jobs." And he's working in your area. Even if he does move back, he's not going to live across the street from you. The only downside I can imagine is his parents or a nosy neighbor noticing him coming and going from your house.

I love that you took the plunge. Was he vers or a bottom? I like his look, but I'm getting a bottom vibe (also, you can't get tops to shut up about it). He's also a bit young for my taste but I like his chest hair.

Ooh, I haven't noticed him before. Very sexy. Curious if others have met him.

I cannot imagine why anyone cares that a chain restaurant is rebranding.

PS: I'm at a point in my life where I cannot sleep in, so I would also probably be jealous of a provider who could snooze till noon. LOL

It's a bit hard to say as we don't know what kind of trip it is. Are you at a resort? Are you seeing a new city? If it's the former, I can see sleeping in as that's a relaxing trip. There's probably not a lot on your agenda. If it's the former, he would be holding you back from seeing the sights. I somewhat agree with @sync that this provider may not be a suitable travel partner. It's also possible that there's a lack of communication regarding your expectations. If you are at a resort, do you go for breakfast? Do you expect him to go with you? From the tone of your post, I don't think you're upset about the money so much as being left to your own devices. If you're paying for companionship and not getting it, you probably feel lonely too. If you really enjoy this provider, you can have a conversation with him about your expectations and carve out reasonable time for him to workout, be on his own, etc. Even if you decide to go with another provider, I believe you would have to set expectations. Otherwise, how does a provider know what you're looking to get out of the trip?

As a power bottom, I looked at his profile which says he’s “versatile” and I thought “she’s a bigger bottom than I am.” So I’d say President and CEO of Bottoms Unlimited LLC. 😂

So I’ve been bottoming for over 35 years and I can count on one hand the number of times there’s even been a smell. Partly, I’m very in touch with my body. Partly, it’s because I’m very regular and have my douching game on lock. A lot of guys over douche, pushing water into their sigmoid colon. That’s where the feces stays BEFORE it’s ready to exit. When douching you only want to clear out there rectum and unless you’re doing fisting or other extreme anal play, getting water into the sigmoid colon will either make prepping take hours. Or it will get trapped there and while you’re fucking, a a move in the wrong direction can rapidly empathy the water poop from your sigmoid colon into the rectum. I recently had a little accident. I was getting a massage- no plan on getting fucked. But the provide was massaging my butt for a long time and I guess the pressure pushed a tiny bit out which he noticed. I was mortified. He was very kind about it. I went and washed off but it was over for me. I was turned off. And while we tried to get relaxed again, it didn’t work: With my husband or a provider I know, I probably could have gotten past it. Or been willing to see them again. But I also understand why the provider might not want to see @ThirdEye again. It’s not anything ThirdEye did. In fact, it sounds like he was awesome. But he’ll remind the provider of the accident, which sounds more severe than mine, and it can be hard to get past that.

That guy is an asshole.