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Seems unnecessarily needy to expect availability on Christmas or Thanksgiving.

Seems unnecessarily needy to expect availability on Christmas or Thanksgiving.

Seems unnecessarily needy to expect availability on Christmas or Thanksgiving.

I'm interested in both provider and client views on bookings on the Christmas Eve/  Day  timeframe.   I am always ask if I will do it and I did on Christmas Eve for a couple of years,  but now feel I need time with my friends and family.    Most client's understand.   When I have been booked on the "Eve",   clients were generally very gracious and generous in their tips.
The end of the year tends to be very busy anyway,  so I now tend to think of the two day holiday timeframe as "my time".    Thoughts on this and for those clients,  how do you approach the holiday?

Yeah, me too ...

China charges US zoos millions of dollars for the rights to keep these pandas. It’s a big scam since pandas are a draw for zoo attendance. Time to send them back. I’d rather see more otters.

I started exercising and hired a coach, haven’t exercised in 30 years.  I thought I knew how to lift weights, turns out I didn’t know much.  I’m going to end up looking better in my 50s than I ever have.  It’s super exciting.

Not a fan of taking these kinds of drugs as they also reduce muscle mass. If you do take them you need to be doing resistance training so you don’t become frail and gaunt from “Ozempic face.”

I wouldn’t read anything into it. Part of posting travel is alerting everyone in your market that you will be AWAY from your home city as much as you will be in the travel city. He probably wants to see if there are other good prospects in your area. If anything, it goes well and he may want to travel more frequently to your city (lucky you!)
If he fulfills his obligations and agreements to you, I see no harm or cause for concern. If he delivers for you, that’s all you should care about.

He could be just getting a feel for the market to see if it's worth coming again.
 

Let me say,  I do contact a client (especially a new one),  with a text after,  thanking them for booking me,  that I enjoyed the time and to please let me know if I can be of service again.    I text one time (only)  after the service.    I think it works,  I've never had complaints,  however I only have one text like that.

As a client, here’s one I’d like to add for provider tops- don’t take a dump in your clients bathroom. No one wants to smell that.

I’ve been getting massages maybe for the past 5 years or so and only been stood up once happened once.
I arrived at the hotel at the agreed time.
I sent a text and he gave me the room number.  I made it to his room and knocked….I actually heard him to come to the door…..and NOTHING. I knocked once more. NOTHING. A bit surprised/shocked..I sent a text….NOTHING. 
I will admit in the moment I felt a way but reminded myself this is all apart of the game/experience. And 30 mins later I found another masseur in the SAME hotel on a different floor. 😫😬🙃

I wanna be friends with you client @ICTJOCK! Someone who would finally get me something I actually would enjoy for my birthday or xmas! 

So I had a client last week if I do "gift cards"?    The client was inquiring if he books an hour (or stated period)  of time for another person (as a Christmas gift),  if I will provideservice in that way.     I don't really have an issue,  provided I know a bit before doing something like that.     I just ask if I wear my Santa cap and red underwear.    He said that would be a nice bonus.
Nothing more has been said.    We'll see.

Widely used in this industry it is commonly know as "escort math".  Commonly found in the age and dick size catagories of escort proflies.  Actual values from reality can be increased or decreased to seek desired results.  What other industry is 6 inches equal to 8 inches?  Escort math allows rounding up or down to any value. 

There isn't a single escort on Rent Men who lists their actual age. Even the truthful ones move the number a year or two to protect their real identity in case someone gets all crazy or to get in that lower bracket search. One of the best escorts I know lists 39 when he is a tad over 40 just for that reason. I suspect he is about 24-25 but puts 19 to get in search results for people who put 20 as the highest age cutoff. 

As a client, here’s one I’d like to add for provider tops- don’t take a dump in your clients bathroom. No one wants to smell that.

I wish more providers did this. Even when you tell some providers what you like right before you meet, they act cluelessly when you do get together. Either they weren’t paying attention, or worse and more likely, don’t care.

As a client, I have an unwritten rule, among many: if the provider talks about himself a lot, or has a way of turning what you say back to himself, he’s not a rehire. I deal with enough narcissists in my daily life to pay a guy who should catering to my whims to have to play therapist or cheerleader for him. I’m not paying to please his ego. 

As a client, here’s one I’d like to add for provider tops- don’t take a dump in your clients bathroom. No one wants to smell that.

As a client, here’s one I’d like to add for provider tops- don’t take a dump in your clients bathroom. No one wants to smell that.

People can have bad days….ive had a few instances where the second time was not nearly as good….and there was no third

Partners that escort together are  always my favorites for 3 somes. If I try a provider and really like him there is an excellent chance that I will also enjoy his partner if he escorts as well. I might conceivably ask about status for that reason but it usually comes up in conversation without asking.

Partners that escort together are  always my favorites for 3 somes. If I try a provider and really like him there is an excellent chance that I will also enjoy his partner if he escorts as well. I might conceivably ask about status for that reason but it usually comes up in conversation without asking.