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And granted, I’ve taken bookings like that (with M4M couples) but generally try to chat to ensure they’re “all there”. There are some who just want to watch from a distance. But not trying to walk into some secret situation blindly. There’s another article on Reuters that details even further: The youngest suspect was just 22 when he entered Gisele Pelicot's bedroom, while the oldest was in his early 70s. The defendants come from all walks of life - lorry drivers, soldiers, firefighters, security guards, farm workers, a supermarket worker, a journalist and the unemployed. Dominique Pelicot had worked as an electrician and estate agent. https://apple.news/AuG6yKRRSSY6Jgam4b_D_xw I can’t imagine only he was inviting these guys, I almost bet he had to have been pretending he was her. And based on their occupations, I’d have to wonder if any got paid for any of it. Just because there’s not a whole lot of people I would hope, just readily taking up offers to be with someone’s wife.

I was reading about this a couple times and just seen the latest today. This is part of why I’ve always been reluctant to accept bookings that start with, “I want you to be a surprise for my wife/husband/neighbor etc.” right along with, “come in the room and find me face down, and rape me even if I say no, it’s a fantasy”. As the story details, the ones who were engaging also were convicted in the case. Which sucks but: this is why it’s always important to talk to both parties before engaging in a couples/3way event. Make sure both are coherent and consensual.

Tampa is my hometown and former stomping grounds (though I always had a a greater preference for Miami, Fort Lauderdale and Orlando). I admire you being willing to move to a city without any prior visiting. Back in the 90s and early 2000s, Tampa was very racist and homophobic. Since then they’ve cleaned up a bit but…there’s still pockets of intolerance. And I would ONLY go there as a single male because, the schools there were rough. My parents moved us to the suburbs halfway thru middle school. That said: Idk a whole lot about Tampa scene since it’s changed a lot over the years with gentrification. However last time I was there 2020 and 2022, some areas have still remained the same. The area you working at, you may want to consider also Brandon area. It’s only 10 miles approximate from the Ybor area, and it’s also tends to be newer homes. There’s some gay activity but mostly online. However I used to have friends there I met all the time. There’s also New/North Tampa which is growing and newer homes but: even if you find what you like, 275 traffic can be a B-itch. 75 not too bad but, 75 is one of those “thru ways” that can have traffic from travelers going to Sarasota/SW Florida from Canada and every other state in the country. All my classmates were from Massachusetts, NY, Michigan, Ohio, Illinois, Kentucky, Connecticut, etc etc lol. I wouldn’t recommend St. Pete/Clearwater unless you don’t mind the drive, however if only have to go into the office a couple days a week: that area is actually more gay friendly than Tampa. Also keep in mind: westshore area is nice but it’s a flood prone area. With the increasing hurricane intensity, as I’ve said in previous threads: you may want to consider area away from water and not under large oak trees. Unfortunately Tampa is notorious for large oak trees, but a newer home you may not have that issue. Here’s a little helper map pointing out the areas I suggested:

Sir, by all respect: there was no petulant name calling. I simply stated that his stance was bitchy. And it was. This post is not asking, “what medications should I get on”. It’s talking about rates. To circumvent that and turn the focus towards me in a condescending way: is bitchy. There’s no question about it. He wasn’t well intentioned, at all. He was just trying to shut me up, and further use pharmaceutical background to give it more clout. I just don’t understand why you feel the need to keep throwing me under the bus around these people here? I thought we had an understanding and camaraderie. You don’t have to put me down, to make yourself look better. Stop band wagon jumping with these people around here, and see the discussion for what it is. If a friend really had my best interest in mind, they wouldn’t be coming here trying to double up on criticism…like you’re doing. You’re giving contradictory stances: one minute you’re understanding where I’m coming from, next minute you’re siding with the forum down players. You can’t flip flop, and then expect things to be all good with that person.

It’s showing me more and more, people around here can’t handle discussions. I’m actually going to leave here after this year. I can handle disagreements, but I can’t handle people who want to stoop so low and judge people’s character or in this case: cross examine someone’s mental capacity. We’re in a time of crisis right now. I don’t want to get political or in detail, but the evidence is all around. People don’t know how to talk to each other or hash out their disagreements, without firing shots. It’s amazing some people get bent out of shape, when the discussion isn’t even singling them out.

What’s funny is, I have in this ad: please text me the following details direct at the number shown on my card. Name: Host or Travel: City You’re In: Time desired: Which goes to my regular message number. What do they do? Read nothing. And instead text me at this number. It’s a filter that tells me: “They didn’t read anything in my ad. They’re just attention farming 🐄 🌽 .” In continuation: This is exactly why my RentMen and RentMasseur ads do not have phone numbers publicly visible. This particular website these numbers are coming from, there isn’t the option to not have a phone number. Many inquiries don’t follow directions. They don’t introduce. I appreciate the ones who do but, idk what’s up with these lately.

And it’s so funny that people rather resort to making me out to blame, but then when I give real world evidence of the type of stuff that MAKES me feel a certain way to want to discuss it…where’s the suggestion to those clients to get on mood medication? Why can’t clients here just encourage others to man up and just do better? Why does it always have to turn against the escort? I have a screen shot of a separate line I use for a website: it’s so proliferate with nonsense that, I can’t even give my 2nd AD phone number out. I have to use a 3rd number, which I only check sparingly. This is the type of stuff I get: Yes, people not speaking in complete sentences means I need to see a therapist? By all means, sign me up 🤣

Jesus Christ. I don’t normally say that in vain but…whew. I can’t. You are taking things above and beyond the level of seriousness required. First of all, I’m not afraid to admit I’ve been to therapy/counseling. It worked, but it didn’t necessarily change the dynamics of how life as a single, gay, Black man who does sex work in America….works. Sorry. I simply was able to understand things more. And my counselor happened to be a married, gay Black man himself. I got a whole lot of anger in your post. To petition the moderators to ban me for 60 days, are you on medication yourself? Because that’s pretty harsh. I could see if you wrote me privately but to say it in front of everyone? That’s bitchy. You have some audacity trying to suggest prescribing medications, without even knowing my health history or doing any in person evaluation on me. How about you include the side effects of taking such medications, before you use that as a way to shut me down without actually addressing a single issue in this thread. Goodbye. GTFO 👋🏾

Well don’t forget: you’re overseas in a legalized area. So you have to #1: acknowledge that. Firstly. I thank you for your advice, but as you’ve said: it’s more specific to how you operate and do things. Unfortunately, the business doesn’t just exist with you. Between you and some other guys on this thread: there is a tendency to say what works for you, but then ignore others specific circumstances. I’m not morphing anything, the variables have already been established by default. I even said it to what’s his name, the troll from earlier: city by city and state by state, there are demographics in place that can’t easily be mitigated. But I’m trying to do the best to my ability. And funnily enough, I’m still getting 150 offers. Instead of getting upset, I’m assessing whether it’ll be worth it…or if I could customize a session that may work for them, without losing my value and worth. But, the 800 session I had the other day, whew…that was NICE. I’m hoping 2025 is a year of greater prosperity 🎺

Well that’s your alternative to someone else, but it’s not a solution to someone actively in the business. We’re talking about within a business. If I wanted to talk about other job possibilities, I’d be on a whole other website. But what about helping that person in ways that could help the industry as a whole? Instead of it being all about you and what you do or don’t have to do: I said it earlier, I suggested RentMen and Masseur allow us a more customizable approach when clients click our number. They’ve done the right thing by providing a message, but it’s the same old message every escort has on their profile. How about coming together and coming up with solutions for better change on the websites and other avenues. But if you’re too busy playing devil's advocate, you’re not going to see how things could be improved.

Now see, I was with you 100%, about to mark your reply as the “solution”, until the last sentence. Was the snippy exit necessary? Probably not. Like I told someone else, no need to answer on my behalf. And also don’t assume you know what I want to hear. I’m just responding to your posts that’s all. When it comes to opinions, it’s easy to say don’t do this and don’t that PERIOD. But what’s the alternative? If I were to turn down a $200 booking (hypothetically speaking), who’s going to pick up on the phone bill? The hotel for the night? The automo-bill insurance? No I do not, like to accept less than what I know I have to offer for a session. Yes I understand what my value and worth is. No I don’t encourage haggling. Yes I am willing to walk away from money sometimes. No I’m not desperate and willing to see anybody for any dollar. Yes I’m aware there’s plenty of clients out there that, even if one can’t pay the rate, another may very well be able to. But with all that said: at the end of the day, if I can make something work and the person is willing and serious about the booking: I reserve the right to take it, if it suits the situation. I don’t necessarily have the privilege to turn down every booking that isn’t my rate though.

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I reserve the option to correct something if I feel it didn’t represent what I said. A discussion forum shouldn’t be a one way street. I think this is where you and others get offended: you want to say something, and then for me to say nothing. How is that resolving anything? I’m not going to yes and agree with every comment, IF it’s taking something I say out of context. You said, what YOU thought I meant. And I corrected you. That’s not what I said. I’m not just going to say, “oh okay, I won’t do that anymore”. On top of that, people are giving conflicting advice, so I have to reply back. You have one guy telling me, “lower your rates if you’re not busy”, then I have you telling me, “don’t ever lower your rates even if you’re not busy, leave the business instead”. Everyone has the option to give opinions. I don’t know why some people here act like they’re paid professional advisories for the society of escort affairs. Everybody has an opinion, and I can trade my thoughts as I please. I’m tired of people thinking they can dictate my decisions and circumstances, as if I have no sense or experience of my own to know how to make things work. This whole topic was simply me discussing a common price naming observation, namely the $100-$150-$200 realm. People took the opportunity to get offended and throw out personal statements and rumors about multiple accounts that have no basis..

You could have just stopped here. Once again, you are still saying I’m talking about Blackness. You keep addressing what’s convenient for you to address, but totally ignore or skip over everything else I said. Did you read ANYTHING I posted above? You can’t even say anything relevant about the info I posted. If you actually took the time to read it, instead of being a vitriol queen all the time; maybe you can learn something. And then maybe you could leave your personal qualms elsewhere. But if you just keep coming on here, and keep talking the same noise everytime I say something about Black: then you aren’t getting the message. For all the talk about me complaining, you come on every thread I post and say something negative or contradicting. If you don’t like it, leave. I’m giving you permission and the option, to leave. If you don’t like what I post so much, you don’t have to come on. I’m really bewildered. If you feel a certain way about things I post, then exclude yourself.

Mister: you are a piece of work (and I’m censoring that A LOT) You know that? If you’re going to ask me a question, at least have the decency to let me respond to it. To go and answer it for me yourself, and then try to make some comparison: you sound hella vindictive, #1. And #2, I said nothing specific about WHITE people expecting something for free. The point wasn’t an issue about racism, it was about accessibility. Again: you’re so quick to make presumptions about me, that you put your foot in your mouth. Let me educate you, genius: Most of my clients are White. However, I also know that Black clients don’t always book us in the same proportion as White clients do. I live near a city that is about 28% Black. That sounds like a small number, but the actual Black population of the U.S. in general is: And notice where most of that concentration lies: mainly in the south and east. There’s an entire south side section of the city nearest to me, that is majority Black. Guess how many clients have booked me in those areas? Next to non. Most who book me tend to be the White or Hispanic guys who live in the adjacent suburban area to the west. They are the ones often booking me, sending deposits, showing up, or traveling thru. I don’t even work in the main city, because the Black population is so high to the extent that many of the potential clients, have already gotten to meet willing Black guys who are willing to hookup with them for free. I’ve seen it first hand myself. I go out to the bars in my local Midwest area, many of the Black guys are with White partners. What I don’t see is a whole lot of openly out Black couples together. Which goes to show, it’s not JUST “white people being racist”. I never said that in the first place, but you’re another person here who needs context to understand what I am referring to. It’s an accessibility thing, and I have seen how accessibility can make businesses more or less productive. I do better in Minneapolis with 10% Black population, than I have in Chicago with over 30%. Since you’re so smart, maybe you can figure out why that might be the case. And FYI, the only thing “shining thru” is my many reviews and content posted that clients love and enjoy. Why you are stuck on playing thorn on my side all the time, I don’t know why. And people like you, I don’t trust too much anyway because you’ll go and praise some Black guys or name drop, but then turn around and put another one down when they speak their mind or talk about something you don’t want to hear.

Babe, you don’t have to tell me what I did or didn’t say earlier. I know exactly what I said and what I meant. You just misinterpreted it differently and thought I was applying that in the manner you described. Listen carefully: I rather offer different levels of options because I know that different clients have different needs and desires. I don’t necessarily think it’s fair to charge a client who’s just looking for less, the same as another who’s looking for more. You may feel you rather charge 1 hourly price for everything, but that’s not always real world what’s happening. And yes I can say no, no, no to anything less than a certain amount: but I know from experience that it doesn’t always equate to lowering my value or worth. They may just be seeing my ad in town for the first time, and don’t have the budget for my higher sessions. I know of people who be like: “my rate is $300”. That’s ALL they offer. Is just $300. And guess what? It offers no flexibility. RentMasseur offers all these options, which I’ve left unchecked to show all the choices: This is the new updated RentMasseur. So obviously they thought about it enough to realize providers CAN AND SHOULD, have the option to list multiple rates. Now if you think I’m just going to go down the list and put the same rate for every option: you have me mistaken.

Amen 🇺🇸 And I’ll add too: it can come even outside of the business. That’s why I don’t buy into people telling me to “leave the business” just because they don’t like topics I post. It’s deeper than just a small talk, break room talk (and I’ve known people come home everyday and talk to me about their coworkers, customers, bosses, etc. yet still work there) Over the summer, I met with a guy: we went on 2 dates/fucked on a weekend. Both times I invited him up to the place I was bunking at: a friend’s office/studio since I was visiting from out of state. Great times. Well the next time I came to town, I ask if we could make arrangements to stay at his place, because my friend’s office studio was unavailable that week. You know what he says? “Oh I don’t feel comfortable with you spending the night over at my place”. 🤨 I gave him a nice kiss off, and went on about my business. That’s why I’m so tired of phony people and why I much rather deal with clients. I’ve had clients with much bigger homes than these typical gay scene guys out here creeping and sleeping around. Clients have occasionally said: “here’s the key, make yourself comfortable”. So no, I don’t have to leave the business. If someone can’t handle shop talk, there’s no obligation to participate. I talk about stuff because it’s not necessarily possible to discuss on ads or in every client situation. Why people want to come here and start making guesses about someone’s character, is senseless. I’m glad that I’ve found an enclave of sex workers away from this forum, who are more transparent and open to discussions without worrying about losing the limelight of potential clients. AND SPEAKING of St. Louis, referring to another poster: the only person I’ve been able to rely on when I go there, happens to be a client friend I’ve known since 2020. All the other people outside of clients I’ve met there have been fake as hell, or they turn their nose up just because I’m not “Black enough” or “White enough” or soon as I reveal I’m in the industry, they turn their nose up and start whispering to their friends, before ghosting you for no reason. So I don’t need anyone telling me what is and isn’t a wasteland. I’m hoping to potentially move to Los Angeles next year. I’ve wasted half of my 30s living in areas that don’t really do me justice. If that falls thru, I’ll need a intervention 😭

Let me clarify: a lower price as in the lower price that I already offer as part of my tier level sessions. Not in the sense of: “I’ll lower the price” just because I’m asked to. Any expectation set will be: this does not include everything…so don’t give me that, “my regular masseur massages me and fucks me for $120” nonsense (true stories).

$100 is an awful price, unless it’s just what’s left of what I deposit into the bank lol. But you’d be surprised. There’s cities in the USA, that’s what guys offer. Like I said earlier, I’ve worked tirelessly to move beyond that. I try to go more for longer bookings, but if I can’t for whatever reason: $200 is the bare minimum. And that’s a good point you make, because I’m tired of people like @PhileasFogg saying stuff like, “well if you’re not busy, you need to take what you can get”. Fuck that. People’s logic sometimes 🤨 If anything, when things are slower I actually don’t want to do anything for cheap honestly. There’s cities I advertise in, that I won’t go unless I get booked for 2 hour or longer sessions. Anything less not worth it. When I’m busy off my feet, that’s when I might not mind doing massage for a lower price. Just because, it accentuates what I’ve already made. But I’m not going to waste gas, wear and tear and think: “I’ll book 5 guys for $100 each”. THAT, is insanity. Because those $100 guys won’t even appreciate that rate and will likely flake too. The less one charges, the less they respect. That’s a deposit anyway, not a rate.

I’ll also add one other thing: I’ve noticed when I put my ads on “registered members only” for the phone number: I deal with much less nonsense. I did that for the duration of the last holiday weekend. I didn’t want to get sidetracked or in a bad mood dealing with nonsense. My ad phone does become quieter, however I don’t have to deal with as much of the riff raff. For example, I have my rates posted in my ad on one site, and website to my rates in another. The first couple sentences in my ad give directions to my rates. Guess what messages I got when I put my number publicly visible? Mind you, non of these turned into bookings. Thats the issue. They’re texting too early, and too late. Then I reply with the rundown, they don’t rely back or say it’s too much. I partly blame RentMen and RentMasseur: the same sites that are supposed to be supporting us, are also doing us no good and dirty. I have told them endlessly: PLEASE ALLOW US TO CUSTOMIZE A LITTLE FORM WHEN CLIENTS CLICK OUR PHONE NUMBER INSTEAD OF, “PLEASE ASK FOR ME, SAY YOU FOUND ME ON RENTMEN.” This way, they have no excuse to not know our rate or whether we can host or not, availability etc. So many inquiries but not many bookings coming out of them. I don’t know how they manage to find the number without reading anything else? I don’t expect everyone to be an academy scholar reader: but I would hope most clients can read the first couple sentences of an before calling someone ESPECIALLY asking the same tired “what’s your rate” question. At least say something that is relevant in the ad to give the impression they’ve read it. Regardless of what someone feels about how I do things, I DO KNOW what was happening when I wasn’t doing them…and meeting tons of reliable people wasn’t one of them. But it’s sad that some people want to come on here and try to denigrate me and posters with similar concerns, just because it doesn’t fit into their bubbly “I’m doing so great in the business, everybody loves me ooo la la la. Don’t say anything about how you feel” narrative. Child, please. This is a business of reality. And don’t think I don’t appreciate real people like you who can come on here and be truthful about the things we’re having to deal with 🎤

Wow. Is that how it is? Okay. I get it. I’m quite disheartened. You’ve shown to be 2 faced and like to play the safe card. I haven’t had the chance 1st of all, to even read or respond to what his reply was. So where do you come off saying I won’t take his advice? Then to add insult to injury you criticize again deposit and consultation fees and call it tariffs? I thought you were a real person to confide in, but once again it’s shown me that a lot of people in this gay lifestyle and especially the sex work industry: are artificial and fake. I’ve seen it time and again this year, and I’m tired. I guess I should take the blame for being so trusting and allowing people with salty intentions in my circle. I’m not doing it again. Thankyou for your service, but I’m ending the friendship. You want to keep coming here and throwing me under the bus on threads, I won’t tolerate it. Agree/disagree but I won’t be belittled.

Thanks much. I appreciate what you have said. I don’t do any kind of drug/party stuff either. Some of my most compromising situations, have been when I have agreed to meet people who were either knowingly or unknowingly on it. And absolutely, there’s nobody going to be living rent free in my head 👍🏾 Again, like I said: the context I was using. It wasn’t to say medical care for an animal is not important. What I was saying is: I would be hard pressed to hear that someone is willing to spend $1,500 on a “spontaneous” vet bill (I’ve had a dog, and 2 cats myself…and unless it’s an actual injury, most of them did NOT require the $250 “emergency fee” that I found myself faced with). My dog was once diagnosed years ago (I don’t have pets now) with (edit) mange. The medication was going to be $240. I was 18 working an entry level job at the time. I said no. Went to PetsMart, found the most expensive flea/tick shampoo ($18ish I think) and used it. Within a week, the mange cleared. But the vet wouldn’t even say, “You can go to petsmart and pick up…” they’re running a business like any other. I had to look it up for myself. Now; there are men out there who will pay huge vet bills…but then turn around when it comes to booking a provider, it’s “I don’t have that much”. See what I mean? That’s why I say: you’re buying into the bullies on here, and misinterpreting the context I’m using in the process. I’m going to speak on that further in a moment… political climate is importance in this biz. Lot of things are down to politics. Well you know what? That’s too bad. Your loss. Comments like yours, are the reason many escorts don’t post on here. So when someone asks, “why don’t more escorts post here”: you’ll be the answer. And if someone has the lack of integrity to come on here and say they won’t book someone based on their posts here…knowing that could damage their credibility: that makes you look worse than me. It goes to show you’re judgmental, and rather this forum be a place only for clients than actual discussions among the community as a whole. Goodbye 👋🏾

The people making those assumptions; they are bored and petty. I changed my username for personal reasons (Google searches can look up posts under someone’s working name…and I prefer to share things only in the realm of those who are actively seeking out this platform). So why they formulate some weird assumption about me using multiple usernames? And then want to throw out old former names to try and embarrass me. I’m not embarrassed one bit. You know who’s had multiple names? Just about every Hollywood movie star lol. Dwayne Johnson Secures Ownership Rights to 25 Names and Catchphrases, Including ‘Rock Nation’ and ‘Candy Ass,’ Under Deal With WWE’s Parent VARIETY.COM Dwayne Johnson, who broke out as a star in the WWE ring, has gained rights to a number of nicknames and... There’s no multiple accounts, like I stated. Some people just prefer to live in a bubble and think the only person who talks about things not being all champagne 🍾 and roses 🥀 in the industry: is me. They rather hold onto the nostalgia of smoke and mirrors: “It's always the same nonsense, same topics already beat to death that seem to resurface 🙄 “ Well, I’ve always said nobody has to be here if they don’t want to. You’re a great writer and speaker, maybe you can post some threads that talk about how clients and escorts can better relate? It’s often the same topics for me, because it’s the same shit that keeps coming around. For example: I had a client a couple months ago give me $500. Perfect right? But then he starts this bullshit: First it was $150, and then: Now he’s offering $30? Really? This is the type of mind fuck bullshit I deal with. And I hate when people like @Ali Gator and @PhileasFogg @Simon Suraciwho constantly gaslight, ridicule, and misinterpret the things I say to try and make like I’m crazy. No, I’m not. What people need to do, is admit that sometimes escorts, specifically ESCORTS OF CERTAIN RACIAL (Black) BACKGROUNDS IN AMERICA often have to deal with shit, that those who are of other ethnic backgrounds or giving it up for free, might not. And even if they do, it still may not be to the LEVEL that we may deal with. The issue keeps coming up because nobody is actually addressing it or encouraging alternative ways to resolve it. And here’s the thing: I’ve DONE THE THINGS to resolve it: (website, deposits, cancel fees, consultations, etc etc and etc etc on top of etc etc); yet these people STILL try to find reasons to nitpick and undermine it. It’s annoying. I know you’re one of the few who understand, but I just need you to champion that more, versus just saying what you think people here want to hear. You can’t have my back, but then jump on the bandwagon of intolerance, when it’s convenient. Just isn’t going to work for me. That’s not how I roll.

Girl bye. You are so fake and phony. I’ve addressed you before, there’s no reason to keep baiting me into conflicts with you. We’ve agreed to disagree, I’ve said what I have to say: just move on. I’ve agreed and disagreed with things you’ve said like an adult. No reason to come here and start making false claims about someone having multiple user names. It makes the moderators look incompetent (because wouldn’t I have been banned if I was trolling making multiple user names? Hmm 🤔). And It makes YOU look childish and petty. Goodbye 👋🏾 You have completely misinterpreted the meaning of what I said. I have owned a dog, and I’ve gone to the vet more than once. I use that simply for the fact that, people often put the dog’s worth at a higher pedestal than a human’s worth: specifically the human they are fucking. It wasn’t in any sense, meant to negate the medical care of a dog. And you sure have a lot of clout to come on here and have the audacity to tell me to find a new line of work? Who the fuck do you think you are? What bills or contributions are you making of mine, to suggest I go find some other way to earn a living? You are out of your rabid ass mind. Don’t address me again on here if that’s the mentality you have. Because I absolutely won’t tolerate it.

Coming back to this topic, I’ve been away: I noticed it was merged but I know I had created a 2nd topic originally called $150 blessing or a curse lol. I’m going to quote you first. Because you have a knack for trying to dispute me. And I am going to show you why some of your ideology is incorrect. And the people who “liked” your post, can probably learn something too. What you’re saying sounds good in theory. But I’ve cautioned before on the forum about people using hypothetical numbers to predict someone’s income. You’re basing it on the idea that, $150 is going to be a reasonable amount for all clients. But I’m going to show you real world evidence that gives a different window to that: #1: I’ve never seen 2 clients a day everyday, and I’ve been in the game for over 10 years. Let’s be clear on that. I’m not a conveyor belt #2: Your half brother tradesman is irrelevant to this discussion. Idk what $50 an hour he’s referring to, and it probably is nothing to do with this. And clearly if it did, based on YOUR logic: he should be busy off his feet for $50. If you say $150 is an easy gateway. #3: Years ago I lived in a city when Craigslist was popular (San Antonio). Most of the guys only wanted to pay $100 max. I had my own place, car, so could do incall or outcall. I was often available last minute, with no deposit required. I did $60-$80 rub and tugs for a time, but I wasn’t getting anywhere. The money they were giving me was just enough to pay rent and personal expenses. But after about 7-8 months: everything dried up. Those phantom regulars never became regulars. Most only came once or twice. They were getting their thrill for cheap, and disappearing. I even had one regular say, “how much would you charge to ***k me next time?” I must have said 150/200 (again, this is like 2010 time frame). He’s like: “I don’t have that kind of money”. WOW. Really? And he’s come like 3-4 times previously. I think that was the last time I seen him. There’s ALOT of men out there, who think $50-$60-$100 for s** is a good price to pay. I have worked TIRELESSLY to get away from that stigma. It’s a misconception, myth, assumption, lie, misbelieve, preconceived notion, fantasy: that if a guy charges a rate for X amount: that it will equate to more money in his pocket over time. Let’s be clear on that. #4: You don’t have to tell me what St. Louis is not. I’ve experienced both there and Kansas City well enough to know what goes on. Whether other guys are doing $150 or not is besides the fact. What I do know is, many of them don’t even want to pay that much, or they expect Black sex to be free, so some waste our time pretending to be interested in paying, only to not follow thru. I’ve seen it first hand. And it’s one reason why for a long time, I’ve avoided many high concentrated Black cities because: that same logic you tout about “finding anyone for XXX amount” is all too common where Black and Poverty coexist. Now…back to the proof I was promising about the $150 idea “having 2 clients a day @ $1,500 a week” (client speaking in grey message). I offered him an easy 150 meet for just a short session that he requested: and couldn’t keep the appointment. Just giving me the run around. Most of the time, these $150 guys either don’t become regulars or…they want something impossible like a last minute, same day appointment. I’ve said before, to have that type of set up: someone has to either be available round the clock, or really have no dignity or integrity about their friends, family and other clients to be able to stay available all the time for low ball clients. Then, the clients who patronize that kind of service, want to come to ME and talk about how they got scammed because they paid $150 for a 30 second blow job 🎤 Fast toward to earlier this week: I was given 800 for a two session EXPERIENCE with a client. THAT is the kind of money I want to deal with. Scrapping crumbs off the bottom of the barrel does nothing but expose me to more crappy people who don’t appreciate my worth and time. They flake, they cancel, they don’t fucking give a shit about escorts 👎🏾