Jamie21

Add the very important element: ‘when taken as prescribed’. It often isn’t taken as prescribed.

And that would kill the energy in the session. It’s why I never offer up sells. If a client wants to lick my ass during the session they can, for me it’s part of the massage (if they want it) and included in the price. To suddenly throw in a fee for that mid session is bad service. I think the fee agreed at the start should be inclusive of everything you’re prepared to include. Clients sometimes ask for full sex and if I’m not prepared to do it then I just gently decline. A few times they initiate the offer of more payment but it’s still a no. That’s not because of any issues about selling sex, I do sex work: my ass and cock are for sale 😂, but because I’ve set the boundaries in my head before the start. If you have a loose approach to what you’ll do in a session at any time, whether or not money is involved, then things can get out of hand. Discipline is important (I do that kind of massage session too 😉).

I bet the officers thought “ah, $80 that’s reasonable” and they got their happy ending but then when the price quoted went up to $180 they thought “wow that’s steep, let’s prosecute”.

I tip them on the app. It gives me a good rating and I think that helps when I’m looking to hire. I don’t wait long for someone to accept the booking.

It’s true yes! 😱

I always feel slightly self conscious when counting the cash as I walk down the hotel corridor having finished the client and left his room. It’s as if hotel security is watching on video surveillance and I’ll be stopped as I leave via the lobby. Totally irrational of course because the hotel doesn’t care but nevertheless it’s a thing for me so I count it in the lift (elevator). I prefer being paid in cash, somehow it feels better to have the notes in my pocket than the money appearing in my account 2 days later (less the banks’ fee 😬)…

I went to a good school 😉.

Yep I’ve heard of that. In 1588 God sent the storm, obviously because He’s English. In 1589 we lost the away leg because of poor leadership. Score draw 1:1.

It’s safe over the channel. The Royal Navy kept them out of the way.

Americans, you’ve got a short period to reverse the declaration of independence and revert to having the King as your head of state. Just a thought…

I know how many I’ve given (to the nearest 50).

It creates such extreme reactions, both for Brexit and against it. What’s clear though is that the British don’t see the EU in the same way that much of the rest of Europe sees it. It has long been the case that Britain doesn’t see itself as European. In the past Europe was the source of trouble. We played off the big European powers against each other to prevent any of them from getting too powerful and competing with us globally, especially the French.

Oh God don’t mention Brexit…😱

I accept cash or card. Some clients prefer to pay in cash because of the anonymity. That’s fine with me, I’ve accepted any currency: €, £, $. I used to accept PayPal but that organisation became difficult so I avoid it now. It’s about what’s convenient for my client. If the meet involves significant up front costs from me and the client is new then I’ll seek some pre payment or assurance or I’ll decline the business.

But the UK isn’t!!!

And is doing well as a force for good. And it’s not imperialistic 😉 Any country can apply to join. All countries in it are equal. The head of the Commonwealth is His Majesty King Charles III.

Interesting topic. I’m not sure I’d share as much detail as @Simon Suracion what my clients who come for massage and company (that’s what I’d call BFE) want because some of it’s very personal and I’d feel awkward sharing it here (even though no names are mentioned of course). Generally what they want, alongside massage, is intimacy, some connection and space to be themselves without feeling judged. It can be having lunch, chat over a coffee, cuddling, going to a sauna together. Rarely is it full sex…maybe that’s a genuine BF experience! I think look first for someone you can connect with rather than being specific for a masseur vs an escort. Either could be ok but the most important thing is for him to be able to connect with you and part of that test would be whether he’s open to the proposition and how he reacts to your request.

Depends how complicated and demanding the role play is. If I’m given a script with detailed instructions and it feels like I have to be aiming for an Oscar nomination then….sorry but I’m not able to do that. If it’s more of a general ‘could you play along with this kind of vibe’ then that’s fine and it is often quite fun. I agree with you that massage is a great way in. I think it need not be considered as just the starting point though; it can be the whole theme of the session, whatever sexual activity is involved.

Remember too that when you hire, regardless of all the debate about whether your hire enjoys it or not, he’s there at your request. You decide the duration, the date and time (within his availability of course) and if you choose to you can simply lay back and leave it all to him. You’re paying for convenience, for access and for his expertise as well as his services.

Yeah I figured that if I charge for the pull out, and he’s run out of money at that point then we have an impasse 😳. Happy Friday friends 😘

I use the low cost airline pricing strategy for up selling: I’ve got a rate marker tottood on my cock. First inch inside is £50. Want the next inch? That’s another £40. Next is a further £40…Balls deep the total comes to £330 (those who paid attention in maths class will be working out my size)…. Once it’s in then I ask how many thrusts the client wants. They can buy the Platinum service (£100 for unlimited thrusts) or package of 20 thrusts for £5. The final pull out is free. If they want to change position then that’s like buying a new ticket: they need to pay by the inch again. If I’m bottoming I don’t charge by the inch (it wouldn’t maximise income from less well endowed clients…and if I find someone with 12 inches then he’s welcome to use them all for a flat rate tbh).

Yes. This is why some people can do sex work and others can’t.

The thing is, generally, if you do sex work you enjoy giving pleasure. If you’re doing it primarily for your own sexual gratification then you won’t be very good at it and you won’t last in the business. It’s not my sex life or sexual urges I am satisfying (although that may happen indirectly…as the OP has experienced) it’s my basic need to give pleasure that I’m satisfying. I think that’s what enables me and others who do this (like @Simon Suraciexplained) to do the job and do it well.

Because it’s my job.

He’s done his job. Of course he’ll want paying. Just because he enjoyed it doesn’t mean you don’t have to pay him! I enjoy all my client sessions (and if I don’t they wouldn’t be able to tell…) but I still expect to be paid!