Studsearcher

I hope some of the OP posts are tongue in cheek. It’s was a transaction not a date. Thank him like you would any other service provider. A brief note, a good review, a tip and repeat business. Just remember he gave you a good time because it’s his job, not because he’s into you. If you come across as ‘in love’ he will either run for the hills or try to take advantage of you.

Oh my Good Lord! You and others in this forum really get me thinking...
He's an E.S.C.O.R.T. and it's the weekend.
You being nice has nothing to do with him being busy (or an idiot).
I can't believe there are guys that behave like this after meeting another man 1-S.I.N.G.L.E. T.I.M.E.
Chill the f*ck out.

I hope some of the OP posts are tongue in cheek. It’s was a transaction not a date. Thank him like you would any other service provider. A brief note, a good review, a tip and repeat business. Just remember he gave you a good time because it’s his job, not because he’s into you. If you come across as ‘in love’ he will either run for the hills or try to take advantage of you.

I hope some of the OP posts are tongue in cheek. It’s was a transaction not a date. Thank him like you would any other service provider. A brief note, a good review, a tip and repeat business. Just remember he gave you a good time because it’s his job, not because he’s into you. If you come across as ‘in love’ he will either run for the hills or try to take advantage of you.

For the past year I have had a burner account with a mildly suggestive screen name and profile, and I follow about 900 guys. There are 6 who I followed after meeting on grindr by way of generosity, and one who actually messaged me on IG. He’s a straight fitness model/influencer with 19k followers and wanted $800 for 3 hours and was into everything except actual sex, including kissing. Not too bad for how hot he was, unfortunately he’s not doing that anymore. I have not yet approached anyone on IG myself, so I’m appreciative of you guys sharing your experiences!

I agree. I’ve never been into porn workers myself and I still find hot, quality guys who prefer the anonymity offered by other means such as seeking, grindr and Craigslist (RIP). The public porn lifestyle isn’t attractive to most. Once it’s on the internet it’s there forever.
 
It also seems to me that the very successful ones are the exception not the rule. Most seem to be teaser/scammers constantly looking for the next one-month subscriber victim. Whenever I’m interested in an OF page I look it up on the LPSG site, and almost every time posters complain about the lack of quality content.

Over the years I have had a handful of guys express such interest, and I've never taken any up on such an offer, though the ones I’ve had always felt to me like physical intimacy would not be part of the arrangement. One of them reasoned that ‘you’ll get to see me in my speedo all the time.’ Maybe they assumed that because I hired them for a couple hours at a time I must be lonely? (I’m horny not lonely) No thanks!
 
Honestly I just don’t get some of the posts I see about paying guys to party at your mansion, be a guest on a 5 diamond life changing vacation, or covering their room and board when nothing physical is explicitly expected. I guess we all have our own reasons for doing what we do.

Over the years I have had a handful of guys express such interest, and I've never taken any up on such an offer, though the ones I’ve had always felt to me like physical intimacy would not be part of the arrangement. One of them reasoned that ‘you’ll get to see me in my speedo all the time.’ Maybe they assumed that because I hired them for a couple hours at a time I must be lonely? (I’m horny not lonely) No thanks!
 
Honestly I just don’t get some of the posts I see about paying guys to party at your mansion, be a guest on a 5 diamond life changing vacation, or covering their room and board when nothing physical is explicitly expected. I guess we all have our own reasons for doing what we do.

Over the years I have had a handful of guys express such interest, and I've never taken any up on such an offer, though the ones I’ve had always felt to me like physical intimacy would not be part of the arrangement. One of them reasoned that ‘you’ll get to see me in my speedo all the time.’ Maybe they assumed that because I hired them for a couple hours at a time I must be lonely? (I’m horny not lonely) No thanks!
 
Honestly I just don’t get some of the posts I see about paying guys to party at your mansion, be a guest on a 5 diamond life changing vacation, or covering their room and board when nothing physical is explicitly expected. I guess we all have our own reasons for doing what we do.

It depends on where you are. I usually ask what they think is fair and then they turnaround and ask what I think is fair. In a mid size city I’ll say 150 and they will be okay with it or counter 200. In a place like Fort Lauderdale or Chicago I start at 200 and they will accept or counter at 250. So basically about 50 to 100 under the rate of a pro. I wouldn’t go full pro rate since they aren’t reviewed anywhere, so it’s more of a chance. I always give them extra if its good enough that I want to meet again. I’ll also cover any Uber fares on top of that.
 
I am very cautious when meeting this way, and while that has meant fewer meets, they have nearly all resulted in multiple visits with very hot guys.

For the past year I have had a burner account with a mildly suggestive screen name and profile, and I follow about 900 guys. There are 6 who I followed after meeting on grindr by way of generosity, and one who actually messaged me on IG. He’s a straight fitness model/influencer with 19k followers and wanted $800 for 3 hours and was into everything except actual sex, including kissing. Not too bad for how hot he was, unfortunately he’s not doing that anymore. I have not yet approached anyone on IG myself, so I’m appreciative of you guys sharing your experiences!

I'll add to my previous comment that in retrospect the membership has worked out for me. Though i would do as others have suggested and maybe get the premium for a month or two, establish some contacts and move it to private communication. Then let the membership lapse for a bit as you take stock in your fishing expedition. Hahaha.
 
In full disclosure, I've started back up with my "Pre-Covid" regular after taking precautions and only meet spaced out every 2 to 3 weeks. He's basically a B+ or an 8 out of 10 in terms of "a perfect match" for me but i shouldn't complain as we can schedule to hang 2 weeks in advance and he's never flaked once meeting up despite a good amount of travel distance to hang for an evening. We're incredibly flexible on terms which has evolved mutually and respectfully over time. He's smart and has a clear plan and path for his career and is dedicated sticking to it while in School which i love for so many reasons. (In fact we both know that once School is done and work starts our status will stop.) We know an equal and respectful amount about each other's personal lives and (so far, knock on wood) there's never been any drama or major problems relating to each others boundaries. For example he lives with his girlfriend and she has known all about it since the beginning and is totally fine with the side hustle. There's no BS as we always do what we say we're gonna do and don't do what we say we're not gonna do. But of course that takes time to be able to confidently trust that's the case.
 
I guess I'm sticking up for the potential and good possibilities that SA can bring hahaha, but yes there's a LOT of BS and it's a LOT of time, effort, money and luck for it to really work well in my experience.

For me it’s been worth it as I live in an area with few Rentmen who are my type, but a decent number on Seeking. I also prefer discretion and feel the ones I meet on Seeking do too.
 
You don’t need a paid membership to browse profiles and decide if there are enough prospects to make it worth a shot. I suggest only paying for one month and after exchanging initial pleasantries take the conversation to another app, as Seeking has a reputation for banning accounts without warning or refund.

For me it’s been worth it as I live in an area with few Rentmen who are my type, but a decent number on Seeking. I also prefer discretion and feel the ones I meet on Seeking do too.
 
You don’t need a paid membership to browse profiles and decide if there are enough prospects to make it worth a shot. I suggest only paying for one month and after exchanging initial pleasantries take the conversation to another app, as Seeking has a reputation for banning accounts without warning or refund.

Regarding the finger salute and the tongue thing in photos - it can be a capture of a moment, a funny response in ongoing private joke w/conversation between the subject and the photographer, or, it can be an affected (wink) pose overplaying the bad-boy image, or it can be a caught-off-guard moment of sincere disdain for...the camera?...the photo taker?...the business of escorting?...clients?
Since I can’t know the context I must assume the worst is possible - that this provider has given me warning he’ll have no interest in engaging with me, that disinterest translating into a lousy session for both of us, and now he’s got money that could have bought me and a friend a nice dinner.

I access the site using the Chrome browser on my iPhone and it works just fine. I’ll add I’ve recently noticed an enormous influx of what I’ll call ‘not exactly attractive’ younger members. Unfortunately a lot of young people are hurting right now.

I had it in March during the initial outbreak. Fortunately my case was more like a mild cold. One of my employees who is around 30yo and much healthier than me got quite sick from it but recovered in two weeks. A colleague of mine who lives in NYC, a 55yo man who seemed quite healthy, passed from it. If you can’t keep your hormones in check I suggest at least getting an antibodies test to see if you may have been asymptomatic. It’s just not worth the risk!

They are looking for a wide variety of things, but at the end of the day it’s about compensation, whether it be tuition assistance, vacations, dinners & shopping, rent assistance or the widely preferred cash. Some, but not many, advertise as seeking a live-in arrangement.

I had it in March during the initial outbreak. Fortunately my case was more like a mild cold. One of my employees who is around 30yo and much healthier than me got quite sick from it but recovered in two weeks. A colleague of mine who lives in NYC, a 55yo man who seemed quite healthy, passed from it. If you can’t keep your hormones in check I suggest at least getting an antibodies test to see if you may have been asymptomatic. It’s just not worth the risk!

I had it in March during the initial outbreak. Fortunately my case was more like a mild cold. One of my employees who is around 30yo and much healthier than me got quite sick from it but recovered in two weeks. A colleague of mine who lives in NYC, a 55yo man who seemed quite healthy, passed from it. If you can’t keep your hormones in check I suggest at least getting an antibodies test to see if you may have been asymptomatic. It’s just not worth the risk!

I’m definitely hiring less, I think for a few reasons.

I’m not into facial hair or the hairy guys who seem to have proliferated the market
Too many average to below average experiences, including well reviewed guys (this is why I started losing interest)
I might be horny but am I horny enough for these rates?
The longer I go with reduced hiring, the more I have for other frivolous things that last a long longer than a couple hours. This wasn’t a conscious decision but something I’ve definitely noticed, and am having some fun with

I still like to look at the ads and this site, and I’m sure my activity will pick up again. Or maybe it won’t. I’ll be good either way!

They are looking for a wide variety of things, but at the end of the day it’s about compensation, whether it be tuition assistance, vacations, dinners & shopping, rent assistance or the widely preferred cash. Some, but not many, advertise as seeking a live-in arrangement.

I still use google voice for first time meets and it supports photos now. The only times I’ve had prospects call me out on it were some shady acting guys from Seeking. I rarely talk to providers on the phone though, I usually stick to texting.
 
Granted I don’t hire as often lately, but I’ve never had a pro have a problem with it. I think the rest of your behavior says more than the number you use.

You all are much better people than me. When I see a post like that my knee jerk reaction is to think A. The person is clueless to the legal problems it could potentially cause them and their clients, and B. It may just be a scam to solicit sympathy donations from gullible individuals. Fortunately for all of us most people are much nicer than me.

You all are much better people than me. When I see a post like that my knee jerk reaction is to think A. The person is clueless to the legal problems it could potentially cause them and their clients, and B. It may just be a scam to solicit sympathy donations from gullible individuals. Fortunately for all of us most people are much nicer than me.