Hlparx
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Hlparx got a reaction from CastaDiva in 411 on Shane Erickson
Has anyone met him?
https://rent.men/Shane_Erickson
Here’s an old thread about him.
I’m curious if there’s been more recent interactions since he’s been advertising since last year.
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Hlparx got a reaction from + DrownedBoy in How does the European market compare to the North American?
Sometimes. For example, with some providers who advertise on both Hunqz and RM, they will charge more if you mention that you saw their profile on RM versus Hunqz. For example, one provider I saw in Paris a few years ago listed his RM rate at €200 and his Hunqz rate at €150. He’s since aligned them at the RM rate.
The rationale as I’ve heard it (from other members on the forum) is that Americans are more likely to use RM whereas Hunqz sees more European use.
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Hlparx got a reaction from Alex93108 in How does the European market compare to the North American?
Sometimes. For example, with some providers who advertise on both Hunqz and RM, they will charge more if you mention that you saw their profile on RM versus Hunqz. For example, one provider I saw in Paris a few years ago listed his RM rate at €200 and his Hunqz rate at €150. He’s since aligned them at the RM rate.
The rationale as I’ve heard it (from other members on the forum) is that Americans are more likely to use RM whereas Hunqz sees more European use.
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Hlparx got a reaction from BonVivant in How does the European market compare to the North American?
Sometimes. For example, with some providers who advertise on both Hunqz and RM, they will charge more if you mention that you saw their profile on RM versus Hunqz. For example, one provider I saw in Paris a few years ago listed his RM rate at €200 and his Hunqz rate at €150. He’s since aligned them at the RM rate.
The rationale as I’ve heard it (from other members on the forum) is that Americans are more likely to use RM whereas Hunqz sees more European use.
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Hlparx got a reaction from thomas in Sexy tall Arab guy in NYC
Here's a link that won't circle back: Ahmedxxl - Male Escort - Miami, FL | Rent.Men
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Hlparx reacted to + StLouisOct in Rent.Men Reviews are Pointless
I always look at them, including the written comments provided by some clients, and I take into consideration the negative ones. It’s all part of good research.
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Hlparx got a reaction from pubic_assistance in 411 on Brit porn star SamSteiner coming to NYC
In context, I took it to mean that he doesn't use Rentmen (or any other platform for that matter) in England.
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Hlparx reacted to Kevin Slater in Paid in fake money?
Yeah, but then I just fake my orgasm.
Kevin Slater
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Hlparx reacted to Jamie21 in Would you meet a client (or even a hookup/escort) who doesn’t give their phone number?
BigDomDixXXL is obviously a bottom who doesn’t remove his jock, and RippedMSCLGod last visited the gym in 1973. You just need to read between the lines.
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Hlparx reacted to Jarrod_Uncut in Would you meet a client (or even a hookup/escort) who doesn’t give their phone number?
Bless the person contacting the escort, to actually read the ad as well. Because it doesn’t seem like everybody does.
Seems like many just look at pictures, then scroll to number. Haven’t read a goddamn, MFing thing.
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Hlparx reacted to Kevin Slater in How does the European market compare to the North American?
I suspect there's a connection there.
Kevin Slater
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Hlparx reacted to MikeBiDude in Burner numbers
The burner phone topic has come up before. I use the Burrner.app for the iPhone with much success. No provider has ever questioned its use…other than the occasional iPhone addict not understanding why my messages don’t look like iMessages 😉🤣
I use the burner for a few reasons:
discretion I don’t want my work/family phone to have provider conversations visible (the burner app has its own passcode feature) On the rare occasion conversations go “bad” with a provider or seeking arrangement contact, I have the option to block and not get harassed I’m sure burner numbers can be abused. But in the hands of a mature provider/client they are handy.
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Hlparx reacted to Jamie21 in Top or Bottom?
Ouch, that’s bad. I never had that happen but did once bruise my cock by thrusting into a guy who moved slightly so I missed his hole and pushed against the base of his spine.
It stung quite bad for a short while but we carried on (we were filming so we wanted to finish the scene). I managed to get to the end as there wasn’t long to go.
Next morning I look at my cock and it’s bruised all over, dark purple, and painful. I was out of action for about 3 weeks and couldn’t fuck for another 2 weeks. Industrial injury!
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Hlparx got a reaction from Lewis H in Hanswolf in SF
I haven’t had the opportunity and, to be honest, not sure that I will. I’ve hired a non-kisser before and while it was fine, it turned out that it was more important to me than I thought.
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Hlparx reacted to Rod Hagen in Monkeypox a new worry for gay and bi men
The best way to protect yourself against dishonesty is to see a few escorts consistently, rather than many, constantly. The better you get to know an individual, or just a few individuals, you'll be surprised how much they reveal about themselves. Even the most guarded escorts will spill the beans about all sorts of things, once the intimacy and sense of interdependence, in a good way, is there.
All healthy relationships take work.
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Hlparx reacted to + BenjaminNicholas in Condom and bareback discrepancy
Oh, you didn't know that BA now stands for 'Banging Ass?'
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Hlparx reacted to jtwalker in Condom and bareback discrepancy
If there is one thing I have learned, it is to ask. I'm shy, so it's incredibly hard for me. Still, I work up the courage to spell out my goals while texting. This doesn't eliminate the misrepresentation issues, but it does reduce them. If you're looking for something specific, ask.
Ads can be honest and misinterpreted. Kissing might mean he's good with a peck, but if you're looking for a tongue dance, that isn't going to happen. Asking clears up these points and reduces frustration. I'd rather get blocked for asking than invest the time, money and emotional energy into being disappointed.
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Hlparx reacted to rvwnsd in Hanswolf in SF
I hired him while he was visiting Phoenix a couple of weeks ago and will definitely hire him again. If I lived in San Francisco, he lived in Phoenix, or had visited again I'd have already hired him for a second playdate.
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Hlparx got a reaction from sbguy in Hanswolf in SF
I haven’t had the opportunity and, to be honest, not sure that I will. I’ve hired a non-kisser before and while it was fine, it turned out that it was more important to me than I thought.
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Hlparx reacted to Jamie21 in How to get providers to arrive on time
Some would hope that the friend/electrician/whoever might arrive while the action is still taking place and join in.
I’m very anxious to turn up on time for my clients and definitely don’t want to mess up their schedule. However the prospect of a visitor showing up during the session is quite exciting! An audience or another willing participant is not a bad thing for me. Probably best to say your mother is visiting…that would focus minds 🙂
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Hlparx got a reaction from + KensingtonHomo in No Response in 24 Hours
I wonder if this is a US v. Europe thing. Escorts that I've seen in Europe have tended to emphasize at least one day's notice. In the US, there does seem to be more "day of."
From the client side, I absolutely prefer to book in advance. From my perspective, that increases the likelihood that I can be seen at preferred time or, if not, that we can reach some sort of mutually agreeable time. I assume that other people have things going on in their lives and messaging them two hours (or even five hours) is asking them to rearrange their lives on short notice. Personally, it's the rare friend that I'll rearrange my plans for on two hours' notice.