SirBillybob

A robust defense, Perry, surely mitigating the outcome for Wallace acing a life sentence of small walls behind bars. Natural to be curious. If you read the Brazilian media you will have no need to second-guess what transpired, rapidly accessible and rendered in simple clear format. Who knows what really happened? The homicide team does, fully apprised of all the details. They have the best possible cooperating corroborating witness, the killer. This suggests an even greater cautionary tale. Beyond maleficent premeditation, one’s life may be snuffed out merely as the result of transient violent impulsivity, panic, what have you. What is centrally important to most readers here on the forum is that hooking up is subject to danger. The degree of intelligent crime strategy of a murderer, how much stupid is as stupid does, is moot after the fact. The red flag is usually raised at the juncture of no return. BTW, anybody catch S2 Yellowjackets finale?

Little tiny word steps, that’s it now, good job, keep it up. Hooray hooray hooray you’ll get there. Let’s not rule out a new emoji for “what you wrote resonates with me”, but elaboration is often a better step. Can my smartphone make the space and emoticons do all the heavy living? Bandwidth advice anybody? Cave ideograph level once had its place. What’s with the comeback, why is is trumping out effort? Never mind; it tracks. Look up now. Look waaaaay up. Thread hijack recess. Watch for the birdies. Don’t trip on a crack, petal.

I’m with you. No flies on you. And your material should have stayed in Vegas. Interlopers should not be taking your shrimp bar reviews outside of Clark County and bitching at you. The culprit broke more than one cardinal rule. 😉 My topic, beyond the prerogative to invoke moderator action, was to indicate my eyes wide open. DM was one option. The other was to post openly about it. To have satisfied everyone with details would have possibly subverted my purpose, which was predominantly to serve notice and substantiate my initial assumptions about the poster’s MO. The event was probably associated with a larger pattern and the moderators have lives to live and energy to conserve, extremely generous in volunteerism that they are, without needing to deal with every cray-cray hungry troll of poster vying to supplement a limited existence with insatiable, regular, perpetual feeding cycles.

I must be losing memory storage. The movie character is familiar but for the life of me cannot name it.

In the media reports the assailant /murderer age 41 apparently confessed all. He indicated that they met in a club, and the victim age 31 and his eventual murderer arranged a ‘programa’, loosely translates to show but in common parlance a sexual transaction for compensation in kind, conventionally money. At the area lodgings as described in the media. The fee levied upon the Georgian national turned out to be a number of bank/credit cards, identification documentation, and life cut short. I presume it was not a garoto sauna where the introduction occurred. That would likely have prompted another security video that would have been, similarly, eventually included in the news broadcasts. And the victim seemed to be in stereotypical gay bar party attire uncommon among garoto sauna attendees. That said, there is apparently a lack of brain matter, in terms of criminal strategy and impulse control, between the ears of a substantial number of trade providers in all settings. I don’t have all of the details other than the specific establishment (not entered here) but the word on the street is that about 2 weeks ago a quite elderly frail client was fairly seriously assaulted by an MMA-level octagon thug of a garoto in full view of several witnesses within the premises at one of the well known garoto saunas in Brazil, in the common area. They had not been together in a suite. I presume an occurrence of that nature is very unusual. The culprit was likely banned or ‘timed out’ but one rendition of the story is that he appeared in Skokka escort ads shortly thereafter. Gotta make rent and whey. Buyer beware; in fact, shopper be warned. Because sauna garotos are, I believe, free agents I think they are required to release their ID to the establishment but criminal offence history is neither a vetting procedure nor would it be easy to sort out the tipping point justifying being rejected. I assume, though, an association in terms of risk because history repeats itself. Circling back to the original topic, the recent Lapa murderer had domestic violence and multiple thefts on his police record.

Wear a washable cap. Don’t walk in tree canopy areas or directly under nesting prone building ledges. You’ll be fine. Use this time to assess and share your weather report. An egg dropping on your noggin would also be very rare indeed. When tossed at your window by an over easy coward an egg is just an egg. Steep yourself a soothing cuppa and chill. Lastly, don’t be hard on yourself. Nothing is that set in stone. Try to use your words.

No certainly not distressed. It’s actually amusing what happened after I communicated with the involved poster in terms of how the poster attempted to get out of the corner he painted himself into. And who his cronies may be. He reads here. This is a large community and, like, we are so fortunate to have but a teeny tiny number of acting out types. But I don’t grasp this particularly odd emoticon that seems to suggest casting eyes upward to track for birds’ toileting habits.

Playing it close to my chest. There was not a full word or phrase. An apparently snarky heading, a notification that I was referenced, and a symbol that in many contexts would be innocuous but in a malicious context would be construed as inappropriate, hostile. Let’s say analogous to somebody throwing an egg at your window and abruptly changing tack, attempting whitewash, hoping the misguided yolk had not been perceived.

Good tips, thanks. The coffee shop would be the nearest thing to the concept of grinding for me. Beans there, done that many times first would be the play. Would wanna be much more integrated into the community.

I hear you. That might apply on FB. In contrast, a formal archive of impropriety may be warranted on our board. The story may be a bit more involved than I wrote. I am taking it upstairs. Sorry it’s rather ambiguous due to the necessity of discretion. I just wanted some input on the theme underlying the events.

Of course. It’s about etiquette and likely geared to making another member uncomfortable. I’m not worried about my safety. It’s just unusual for a troll to do this in this manner and my sense is that a reckoning is in order. Just wondering how others might handle it. Or should another emoji be added to the inane list of negative ones that denotes “cancelling” a member, if that was the intended implicit message by the guy?

Hey guys. A fellow member wrote a post with exclusively a cryptic symbol that is interpretable as an ominous kind of threat and was grafted onto my name so that it should have seemed obvious to him I would receive a notification alert, which I received and recorded. Could be passing anger, impulsive what have you. He must have subsequently deleted the post but I’m, well, not completely unshaken. I took screenshots. As a clinician not immune to hostility these days like most colleagues, I have a fairly thick skin but expect accountability. The thing is, I reached out and he hasn’t engaged though evidence he read my request for explanation. I’m not a take-no-prisoners guy and reached out a second time. Crickets. I would prefer to keep it between him and me. I actually am not very familiar with him. If an error or intended to be innocuous etc, it seems to me that could have been written back to me by the guy. If it was nothing then he could communicate that, no? He may see this here post as well. I am wondering how long I should wait before submitting it to Mike C or another moderator to get their take. I’m busy today and not reading here other than DMs and trying to keep abreast of the topic I just wrote (this here). Hugs.

I went to Santo Domingo for a few days one fairly recent winter and we stayed in the colonial zone. A very nice hotel close to the river (canal?) and some traffic of what I assumed to be local trade of both genders, that is, older gents bringing up the elevator young males or local women presumably not related. There appeared to be a group of American men, not sure if they were like a buddy pack, that engaged with what appeared to be a local “sexertainment” middle man at times accompanied by a few young females. Out in the open yet discreetly, and the staff knew the deal. But it didn’t seem smarmy and I thought it was a system that worked out for everybody. However, one older male hotel guest ended up on the lift with me and I thought the local youngster with him was quite young, though I assume legal age because I am told that non registered guests ID are checked. Perhaps it was not a sexual transaction anyway. The area of several square blocks seemed almost UNESCO world heritage badged, maybe it is? I thought the overall feel as far as the area not including oceanfront was somewhat like Puerto Vallarta, so not like a cloistered hotel property but comfortable and an appealing environment and certainly a lot of interesting sights and places to relax, particularly if you do not need or like lollygagging on beach sand or slowroasting your skin by a pool. As long as the weather was nice it was very pleasant and no boredom set in. There seemed ample potential for picking a favourite public terrace to perch and chill out, safely, with a vibrant mingling of local families and visitors. If there is a process, overt or subtle, for engaging trade within that context, it certainly appeared to be a user-friendly district with good amenities within which it could be done comfortably, not risking life or limb. Overall, a top 3 experience of winter getaways over a few decades. I’d do it again.

Nick Minaj? Ms Minaj’s 3rd cousin twice removed? That’s even a lot more degrees of separation from informed experience on a La Romana scrimmage court.

I have only been to Santo Domingo in the DR, a week in the colonial zone soaking up the atmosphere, wandering around, taking photos, going to the gym, and enjoying the cuisine. I like a slow pace. It was not a focus on hiring local trade but I’m certainly not opposed to it and very often that is one MO of mine when travelling. I witnessed older travellers in my hotel taking either male or female sex workers up to their rooms and I had a few locals sit themselves down at Paco’s(?) to inquire about my, ahem, interests. I fixated on my trainer, not available. LOL. I felt a bit uncomfortable walking up to a place called JuanBin for a brief gander but that was likely newbie jitters in unfamiliar surroundings. I tend to dress in garb similar to that of a simple white collar or tourism employee. Colombia has also been recently enjoyable and access to trade seemed fairly organized and easier. I lack the skills to go out in an unfamiliar destination and try to safely pick up in a public establishment a local fellow for what, at my age, would be almost certainly transactional.

I guess if you are e-winters NYC could be considered the Deep South, including equatorial [Teasing] Could be the right place though.

And if they ask “Why did you contact me?” you can ask all distressed damsel-like what CO on the detector means and can they please complete the whole word, kkkk. But now we’re veering towards bachelo(ette) territory.

This imbalance accounts for why I won’t waste my time with an escort that cannot provide a succinct outline of date elements and charges from the get go, not necessarily in the ad but in the first communication. He isn’t putting himself out on a limb in the same way. It should be structured to minimize his and my time expenditure in the prequel. Then it’s simply when and where, without so directly impugning self as sex trade purchaser. I might also add that very few escorts are up to date on criminalization. I have no patience for somebody too clueless to recognize this as a good business model for all concerned. I provided a detailed outline, an exec summary with option for greater detail, for my professional services in a very different arena and only once in 30 years of practice did a client indicate that they wanted to speak initially to get to know me. I didn’t need to accommodate that to remain viable. I also didn’t spend time trying to recruit clients by being vague enough to prompt an inquiry. I took clients that predetermined I was likely the right match after having read my blurb. If they wanted to continue following 1st appointment, up to them. I didn’t scam them with a discussion of service details, the answers to which they could get at no cost by reading ahead of time exactly what happens. It’s not so hard to figure out the service questions on everybody’s mind and answer them ‘a priori’.

“Sorry, I thought you were my prospective plumber. I don’t anticipate springing a leak imminently but I simply wanted to determine whether to put you in my service contact list just in case.” ”Sorry, I thought you were my dentist. My toothache just magically subsided. Placebo effect. Nothing poking around in there today after all.” “Sorry, I thought you were my uptown broker going downtown. Not broke but not a good fit after all.” ”Sorry, I thought this was 911. The emergency just cleared. Take your next call.”

This year’s fireworks sched is a bit different. I think they are still 22:00-22:30 and you simply have to walk a few minutes south on Papineau to the spot where last year I took this clip. Then dash to your favourite stripper club for fireworks 2.0 IDK if the vid will play here (70 seconds) If you have a radio app the musical accompaniment Montreal station is Rhythme FM. Some won’t know what this means but the sound may not be important. FullSizeRender.MOV

LOL, one advantage is you don’t need to look your best and your flexible cubicle date accepts bed hair and the kind of drool tracks I am prone to when napping.

You help the venue by being cryptic about the fun to be had, without details of what you got by giving in kind. It’s more important to honour that the activities are illegal and authorities turn a blind eye than to openly and publicly describe them to simply satisfy the message board voyeurism of fellows you don’t even know. You are not obligated to support the vicarious living of those who can’t or won’t step up to see for themselves. The average person should get the picture through your enthusiasm.

There are almost 30 guys here, from Jasper Alberta to Jasper Alabama. That’s a lot of plunging.

Especially for this type.

But in the event one needs to have handy a tool to extinguish a flash fire 🔥