SirBillybob

In some circles a ground turkey taco essentially falls under vegan, though to me sounds delish. 😏 In terms of the low-yield site mentioned he should def not include references to being averse to putting meat in his mouth.

Woodyworking 101?

Like, praying for divine intervention will stop this~

And charge voyeurs to watch this 4-minute spectacle through a pinhole.

What with actor Austin Butler and actor/granddaughter Riley Keough up for MTV Awards best performance, film and TV respectively. Wouldn’t it be fun if both won? So I began streaming Daisy Jones & The Six. Keough is a marvel. You may be tempted to speed up to her scenes. I think I have seen just about all of her work over the past few years.

As it will.

Absolutely clear skies today southern Quebec, likely decent Spring skiing in Eastern Townships in centre of which is city of Sherbrooke smack dab in eclipse arc next year. Snow-blind or Sun-blind, take your pick? About 15:30, still about 4 hours prior to sundown in case mountainous terrain thereabouts would otherwise obscure it. Looks like Sherbrooke hotels sold out April 7th though it’s a fair sized city. However, the luxurious Manoir Hovey not that far away has at least one room at $371CAD. All that said, it’ll be apparently total in Montreal and likely throngs of people on the city’s mountain, but on the Belvedere Outremont side, not the main lookout over downtown. In Ontario, interestingly, Niagara Falls also right about on the arc. It’s the Monday a week following Easter Monday.

I so very rarely look at RM so was surprised at how different the current layout is, and yet an another prospective update imminently? Also there’s now a link to RentMasseur; are the 2 sites under the same organizational management?

SKOKKAn like a true gentleman.

Parts of Montreal (and province) still without restored power some 48 hours following Wednesday’s ice storm.

Right, I wouldn’t conflate an image portfolio representing how one wished to appear with that of one’s internal perceptual distortion of one’s objective appearance. I want them to be able to distinguish a condom from a sandwich baggie, a tenofovir-emtricitabine tablet from a lozenge, my pie-hole from my arse. Some guys look better than their pics; the theory doesn’t hold if it’s universal, as a gradient of self-delusion doesn’t easily fit it. Who wants to have to drill down to assess the disparity between a provider’s images and his wishfulness, followed by quantifying the degree of license afforded to him?

I have hired from ads about 3 times in the past 10 years, having moved on to curated settings where the checks and balances offset the possibility of hesitancy about paying up, and where baseline prices are low and tips are incentivizing and similarly very financially manageable. Two of these ad hires were very recent. One extremely embarrassing because I mistakenly underpaid (less familiar currency) and later he simply texted me afterwards. He was absolutely correct and just indicated he was disappointed, but was not accusatory. Naturally I swung by, not at all convenient due to my itinerary, to deliver the balance and a substantial extra gratuity. Apart from feeling mortified I wanted to stay in his good books. I did not subsequently suggest he should have counted the currency at the time, the dynamic being one of mutual trust. The fee was absurdly low relatively speaking and I had beat off to his Twitter feed for free several times for a few years even before knowing face-to-face would eventually transpire. Checking off Bucket-list guys from afar, trekking to them, can be extremely impractical to operationalize and one wants to blow it not blow it.

“Whooos a gwood bwoy?” “Whooos my pwitty kitty?” [So cruel.]

Tapped for HBO’s Tokyo Vice Season 2.

So, no meet-and-greet preferences offered at their Disneyland? Fcuk that. I’ve had enough of mice and mermaids. Cancelling.

When parents feel awkward they’ll buy just about anything you market. Just say it’s an even madder spin-off of Sterling Cooper Draper Pryce.

You are unlikely to yield much, if any, in the way of direct referral-type recommendations here. Also, in my experience in Brazil with dozens of providers over the past decade, none were obtained via Grindr, but not from want of regularly looking. The escort saunas, spa massage facilities, and escort ad sites have been the basis of hiring trade. I have had no unpleasant surprises.

Only when inserted but even the lowest weight class is too heavy to walk around with.

Like many others expressing this for want of a better word affliction, you may think there are no occasions where you can or do refuse because enough was enough. There may be potential for you to enact the antithesis of succumbing to activity that you may wish you could regulate better, but your experience is inadvertently stacked to underline a sense of being out of control. In fact, the reality is that you may be pursuing sexualized activity when you want and declining it when it’s inconvenient. That may be a bit of a departure relative to other appetitive phenomena; each has its own distinctive course and features within each distinctive individual. There may be some similarities and differences between external entities that are put into your body and physically metabolized, on the one hand, and pleasure-seeking behaviours, on the other hand, that operate solely on an internal biopsychological feedback loop. Orgasmic refractory period may be similar but different from a substance fix. Craving may express in similar yet different ways. The place of abstinence is viewed similarly by some, yet objectionable to others because of critique of early reductionist models applying substance dependency concepts to desire and response cycle behaviour essentially undergirded by evolutionary imperative. One approach to entertain, given that any change introduced cannot but spur the potential for a different outcome than now exists, that outcome not necessarily guaranteeing a benefit apart from figuratively warming up a rigidified system and subtly or overtly altering a system and its dynamics, is to prescribe an invariant daily appointment time for sexualized behaviour. Don’t choose it according to your known routines. Pick it randomly like a lottery ball, 24 on the hour or from 48 on the hour/half-hour possibilities, for example, requiring you to sex for half an hour same time every day, nothing else, yet your prerogative to do whatever you want outside of that appointment with yourself. You must stick to the time daily for a month. Track and record your relation to the appointment with which you have a fiduciary responsibility to uphold in the interests of expanding your understanding of your capacity for elective control, happiness, resentment, what have you, about engaging in behaviour that you feel is inevitable most of the time anyway. The point is not to push the agenda of altering sexual behaviour that might actually occur or not outside of the appointments, according to the long-standing patterns you seem to describe. If you refuse the exercise it’s likely because you don’t want the anticipated aggravation of engaging in behaviour that you may not want at a particular arbitrary time, the desire for which you otherwise describe as regularly overpowering. If you refuse to sexualize within any one of 30 appointment commitments then you have related to your apparently unyielding desire in a different fashion. Sexualize or not, there will some be degree of change, for better or worse (though it’s not as if it’s fentanyl or a box of KrispyKremes q24h) from what appears to be the current habituation. “Yeah but yeah but yeah buts …” are included in what might manifest. The outcome of the exercise may have some salutary benefit in terms of the nature of the pattern and your perception of it. My own compulsions have been fairly tame and usually fizzle out quickly. Many of us have experienced intense mental intrusion associated with unrequited love, seemingly excessive and profound erotic limerence. I have found it hard to follow the above prescription but I think it helped at times. Paradoxically, it can be a challenge to do something when required and generated from planful intent yet already doing it seemingly non-volitionally, as if there were no choice.

Sniffies TOS forbid prostitution Therefore, again, it’s difficult to weigh in with suggestions without knowing fundamentally if the OP risks impugning himself by contemporaneously admitting breaking a hookup platform rule (eg, if he asked to pay for sex or agreed to pay for sex) undergirded by prostitution law AND reporting the person with whom he attempted an ‘appointment’, presumably also breaking the TOS viz sex trade prohibition, evidently attempting extortion, and possibly running afoul of criminal law depending on the jurisdiction’s application of prostitution law to providers and consumers. Maybe the OP should consult a lawyer, depending on how the relevant factors are stratified.

An essential piece of info is missing. It’s Sniffies; I thought that platform straddled both trade and non-transactional hookups. Extortion is pretty cut and dry in general, but is there communication between the parties on record about purchasing sex and what is that particular legal liability for each party in the relevant federal and/or state jurisdiction? Additionally, is communicating about paying illegal, apart from the actual enactment of purchase? In many jurisdictions only the consumer is running afoul of the law and the pre-encounter solicitation is unilaterally indictable. Therefore, in some jurisdictions one might essentially impugn oneself by going to the police; it depends on interpretation of the actual narrative between the parties. It is nuanced. One might be declaring one’s committal of a crime while seeking recourse about being blackmailed for that crime or, rather, blackmailed about the accompanying vulnerability concerning what could be shared with loved ones, or both. It’s a bit odd and unique in Canada and many other places, few degrees of separation between declared intention and enactment wrt prostitution, like ‘crime foreplay’. Going to the police is less risky if the exchange about hooking up (if financially transactional) had been ambiguous, cryptic, etc. I have myself backpedaled if an exchange with a provider about compensation had become needlessly explicit, beyond the level of codification in which much such communication is typically understood and mutually satisfactory between client and provider. —-/ Other than that, I’d consider calling his bluff, send him some sobering info on legal consequences of extortion, and underscore that his breaching of your private exchanges with him should he carry out the threats simply adds to the evidence of his crime and exposes him to more possibilities of determining his identifying information the more he reaches out to third parties in your personal familial/social radius, if in fact he’s currently anonymous.

The current Spanish government majority is planning, as per the abolitionist model, to make amendments to the criminal code to clamp down on prostitution. What impact, if passed, this will have on MSM commercial sex trade is unclear. I am not familiar with the judicial structure and what stage this proposal is at, voting, etc. Perhaps Thermas in Barcelona would simply need to refrain from making direct references to its playbook setup. For-profit Escort ad sites centralized in Spain could be affected. The abolitionist approach and criminalization in USA and Canada seemed to lead to some adjustments but didn’t shut down trade. As many will know, the Nordic abolitionist model holds accountable facilitators/brokers of prostitution and purchasers of sex (for money, or in some cases “in kind” resources) but not providers.

Looks like we might see a little bit of skin on this one. Fortunately, it’s playing a few blocks from my home.

Hahahah, I just missed by a year. At age 52, in fact the month following turning 52, I took on a weekly pricy escort for close to 4 years. Had never previously squandered that much. The pattern before and after a minuscule fraction of that undertaking. He was just … “that guy”. I’m not being completely truthful. The same commitment would likely have transpired meeting him at age 53. So, outlier. An equivalent sum financially invested would have bloated considerably.

I’m in Brazil where I spend much of every winter, stay in a inexpensive mixed-class neighbourhood for much of the time, interspersed with comparatively luxe excursions, and have noticed an explosive increase in food costs that obviously impacts on the locals. The price-by-weight “quilo” buffet venues are pricier in my non-tourist Carioca neighbourhood relative to a northern chain inclusive of Toronto/Montreal locations. I was on a bus chatting with a woman and commented that the fresh yeasty donut I treat myself to weekly from a very modest padaria nearby has increased from 1.00 real pre-pandemic to … she finished the sentence for me (!) 3.50 reais. Male commercial sex trade costs remain stable but the trend seems to be that more attractive gym-training fellows are opting out and the consumer choice is dwindling. It simply isn’t worth it to providers for 30-40USD a trick unless very sought after at assembly-line level. Those rates are basically locked in, as the majority of clients are Brazilian and similarly enduring goods inflation. A two-tier system of basic vs higher-end escorts would be fine with me but likely wouldn’t fly. I am grateful I got into the scene, for a few years anyway, at its height. I realize I may have taken this a tad off topic but perhaps it still tracks within the economic utilities theme.